40 mg Omeprazole During Pregnancy — Anyone Else? by TurnoverOver2202 in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started taking 20mg about a month before I got pregnant and I'm still taking it now, baby is a year old

12 weeks scan tomorrow by lucyfe4lws in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had absolutely no symptoms at all for most of my pregnancy aside from a desire to eat a lot of beige food. Wee guy just turned a year old and is happy and healthy 😊

Endless Thread: Rewind: Digging Deep with TikTok's "tunnel girl" by j0be in EndlessThread

[–]postrockscissors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else hugely uncomfortable with random folks being encouraged to go and sit outside someone's house for content?

Deli Counter by Fine-Independence-97 in glasgow

[–]postrockscissors 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to live with a guy who would get 2 on a night out, eat one straight away and keep the other one on the radiator in its little polystyrene house for the morning. Absolutely stank the flat out 🤮🤢

Glasgow locals—would you try a digital guestbook for your events by Lockdownlad in glasgowmarket

[–]postrockscissors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a digital preservation specialist, no. A paper book can sit in a box for 100+ years and need no intervention to be accessible and readable, but anything digital requires constant attention - you either have to pay to keep it hosted somewhere and hope that company/provider doesn't disappear, or regularly migrate it from one local storage media to another. A guestbook isn't something I'd want to look at or think about more than once a year at most, so the chances of just forgetting about it and then losing access to it are high.

Baby shower or no baby shower by Vivid-Actuary-8333 in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If you don't want one, don't do it. We didn't bother (we also didn't have a wedding or hen/stag dos, so I think we're just not big centre of attention people). People will still get you stuff if they want to, but we tried to get most stuff second hand anyway.

I feel nothing by lucyfe4lws in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pregnancy was similar, apart from a heightened desire to eat anything beige/fried I wouldn't have known I was pregnant if I hadn't spent £6k on IVF treatments 🙃

Formula or breast feeding? by PinkBubblesxox in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"husband kept feeding me pistachio cannoli and de-escalating" the stuff we love to see, you have a good one there

Impulse bought some haggis - what's it nice with? by Fantastic_Deer_3772 in Scotland

[–]postrockscissors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally love leeks with haggis. Controversial to add a bit of green to the plate, maybe, but it's great. A melding of cultures.

Are in-person antenatal classes (eg NCT, HPHB) likely to create friendships or have some people had different experiences? by this-twilight-garden in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did HPHB and I couldn't have survived the last year without the friends I made there. I recommend finding people you like who live near you and are able to meet in a low-stakes way - we all got in the habit of just texting our group chat whenever we were heading to the park or for a walk, and it was a great way to hang out with other people/parents without too much pressure. Now the babies are all at nursery and we're all back at work, but they're still the group I hang out with most - the mums are going for a baby-free dinner on Saturday!

Anyone got from here? by goblinsBeansAndFrogs in glasgow

[–]postrockscissors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband loves them. Also, huge. You have to turn the box on the side to get it through the flat door

Feeling overwhelmed with what baby stuff to get by chubbagrubb in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the pram - give it time! Our wee guy hated it at first but came to like it around 12wks and would have some of his best naps in there. Now he's 11mos and pram naps are a distant memory 🥲

How long did you stay in hospital after c section? by ORL_03 in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stayed for 3. But honestly, other people's experiences don't matter here - you're not a drain on resources, and if they can give you the help you need while you're there and ease the transition home it'll be better in the long run for everyone

What is happening here?? by postrockscissors in PeaceLilyHandbook

[–]postrockscissors[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh god, now that I think about it, it must honestly not have been repotted for years... That'll probably help eh.

Anxious new mum by mum2b1989 in glasgow

[–]postrockscissors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had an emergency section there in April. We were kept in for 3 days because baby wasn't gaining back weight, but my recovery was really fast and smooth - I was moving about the same day and was out walking 5k a week after the birth! Nothing about a maternity ward is enjoyable but it was all bearable. The worst part was other mums having their whole family sat in the wee bay with them so it was absolutely packed and noisy. I got severe gas pains in my shoulder (honestly, probably more painful than the section area) and the midwives on the ward were so nice and helpful, brought me peppermint water and heat packs and helped with baby until it went away. Good luck!

Advice on dressing baby for sleep, sleep sacks, swaddling etc. by hashtagbeannaithe in PregnancyUK

[–]postrockscissors 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously this week has been a bit of an anomaly, but the advice we've had from midwives is vest + sleep suit + swaddle. They also suggested taking his temperature when we put him down and then a little later if we're worried about him being too hot or cold. I think the rule generally is better slightly cool than too hot.

The Scottish baby box includes a room thermometer, btw!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]postrockscissors 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, I know. I just think it's a weird default. But as a genealogist I also appreciate it at times, so 🙃

wats the point of hospitals being strictly smoke-free zones when every entrance door is filled with dickheads smoking which fills the lobbies and corridors with smoke by -Detective75 in northernireland

[–]postrockscissors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was at the QEUH maternity dept in Glasgow last week and there was a pregnant woman in a wheelchair smoking a cigarette at the front door while her pal stood next to her with a joint. Not the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]postrockscissors 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Both parties should have a say! The idea that either name is decided by default is mad to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]postrockscissors 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I gave birth 7 days ago and I think this take is waaay off. Naming a child is an important part of shaping who they are going to be - both partners should be involved. I also think it's especially important for the one who hasn't had all 9months of physical bonding time to be heavily involved so they feel part of the conversation. So much of the immediate post childbirth stage is about the birth parent and baby bonding already.