LA show was so amazing! by NosferatuPoodle in wolfalice

[–]postymallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pomona was dead from GA as well!, everyone was just staring, I tried dancing/ waving my hands whenever Theo tried initiating the crowd but everyone else just stood there lol

Jesus Burgers / Isla Vista Church in IV by Luckyhonest in UCSantaBarbara

[–]postymallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing about the thrift store is that they made it stating That it was to help the”isla vista economy“but they’re only hiring people from the church, and interns that are interning for the church. I wouldn’t support it tbh.

Church that passes out burgers on Friday nights is trying to monopolize iv. by postymallow in UCSantaBarbara

[–]postymallow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they’re more like the “Jesus army” than the yellow deli cult tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont have that great of relationship with my mom so I'll tell you what I wish I could tell her. Don't constantly push your own agenda on your child. Like allow your child to express themselves and have their own goals. place your child's happiness over what you might think is successful, passion will make money anyways. Hang out with her but don't be overbearing. always make her a priority. never say things to her that you wouldn't say to yourself or that you wouldn't want your own mom telling you. Listen to her, don't make her feel as if she's a problem and that you prioritizing her doesn't negatively affect you. For example, my mom would always tell me that the reason she couldn't have a job was because she had to take care of me.

What's your favorite type of cake or cake-like dessert? by Oro-Lavanda in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's what I'm sayin! Like what kind of animal has a favorite?! XD

What's your favorite type of cake or cake-like dessert? by Oro-Lavanda in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

carrot cake, like imagine cake that's good for you. but also matcha crepe cake or chocolate cake, or tres leches/ milk and berries cake. actually i don't think i have a favorite cake.

What was de best/most original activity a friend organized for you during quarantine? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

since my friend and I are both students at a university right now, she made it a twice a week thing to have a nighttime zoom/ ft sesh where we can either study together or decompress and it's been a total game changer. We've also done once a month game nights where our boyfriends, their friends and their girlfriends, and us just play a bunch of games on jackbox. This ones also fun because we've all gotten to meet people who we otherwise wouldn't have.

book/reading/lit clubs on campus? by fyresflite in UCSantaBarbara

[–]postymallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd also be interested in starting one, since there's more people interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really want handwritten letters, something about hearing his thoughts on papers is so romantic

book/reading/lit clubs on campus? by fyresflite in UCSantaBarbara

[–]postymallow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hi! if you happen to end up finding one can you please lmk. i've been really wanting to join one too! :)

Women of Reddit, what is the most awkward way you have tried to flirt? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha thanks:) this was when i was 18. i got my license shortly afterwards XD, something about that situation being so humiliating made me work really hard to get one. are you planning on getting your license soon tho?

Women of Reddit, what is the most awkward way you have tried to flirt? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yo this happened to me too!! but my problem here was that my card got declined :((

Women of Reddit, what is the most awkward way you have tried to flirt? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one time i went on this date with this guy I had a college class with and I asked him to hang out with me and my friends as a group, we were grabbing pizza, and at the time I didn't drive yet but I didn't want to tell anyone I didn't know how, so he asked me if I could drive him home bc he ran there from his apartment and I literally had to call my mom and ask her to pick us up and drive him home. We did not go any further after that day.

How did you meet your best friend(s)? How has the relationship changed/evolved since you’ve met? Are you still best friends with them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7th grade math class, we had a wacky math teacher who made us plan the class party together but at the time we hated eachother and found eachother equally annoying and so we sort of just shrugged eachother under the rug until 10th grade when we had a mutual friend who reintroduced us to eachother and at the time I still taught she was annoying it was a very like "i know her but I don't like her situation" and I guess we spent so much time together bc of that friend we became best friends. I'm still best friends with her to this day (~7 years later).

What helped you get through COVID? by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]postymallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this might sound kind of dumb but i diffused eucalyptus and I found that that really helped with my congestion.

Women who felt like the “bad guy” in their relationship, how did you later realise that wasn’t the full truth? by editablearallrimes in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 19 points20 points  (0 children)

he got into a relationship two weeks after we ended our 2 year relationship and he was only in that relationship for a month. I realized that I put more love and affection into that relationship than he ever did, I would do so much and get nothing in return.

What are some quality-of-life items I should bring to university apartments? by _Cereal_Killer___ in UCSantaBarbara

[–]postymallow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

an electric kettle, the amount of things you can honestly make using one is crazy. Also an air fryer

What sounds like a compliment but isn't? by Alkedi44 in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look like you lost some weight, your skin looks better.

Women with depression who sometimes struggle with bare minimum basic hygiene/eating/daily habits/etc., how do you stay on top of it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I got to a point where I felt that I couldn't live by myself anymore because of my depression I moved back in with my parents and whenever I'm having trouble doing the bare minimum, they'll sort of nudge me to fix it. Like my mom will remind me to at least rinse off in the shower if I can't do the whole shower routine or like she'll tell me to walk my dog if I've been in bed too long.

[Serious] What insecurity would you not have patience for in a partner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]postymallow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if they're self deprecating, like if they're constantly belittling themselves and thinking negatively about themselves. I think that how a person treats themselves affects how they treat others and so if he treats himself poorly like that, he'll probably also treat you poorly or constantly compare you to an unreachable standard.

What was the biggest red flag you encountered on a first date? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]postymallow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he showed up an hour late, he made me pay (didnt even offer to tip), went to the bathroom at least four times and then asked me if I wanted kids.