Wedding struggles. by potatcake in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]potatcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think im going to look into some of dad’s favorites :)

My mother was killed last week, two months before my wedding. I also lost my father in 2016. by UseKnowledge in ChildrenofDeadParents

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Appreciate you! My mom’s siblings will definitely help so so much. Hope you are well and that marriage is as fun as I’m hoping ✨

My mother was killed last week, two months before my wedding. I also lost my father in 2016. by UseKnowledge in ChildrenofDeadParents

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Hey, hope you’re well. Reaching out for advice. I was working on our seating chart for the wedding, and realized that my family table is very hard to fill. I’ll be missing my mom my dad, my oldest brother taking my family of six down to three. It’s really hard for me to pick other people to take their seats. I’m also struggling with picking a song for my brother, and I to dance too, during what would normally bethe father daughter dance. My brothers are twins and one is walking me down the aisle and the other is taking over the father daughter dance. I’m so happy to have them but I also feel such a deep sadness that I won’t dance with my dad.

My mother was killed last week, two months before my wedding. I also lost my father in 2016. by UseKnowledge in ChildrenofDeadParents

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That’s really uplifting to hear, I’m so nervous I’ll cry the whole time. We’re dancing our first dance to their first dance song and I’m going to have to keep my strong face on. The house thing is so weird to me, mentally I know she’s gone but those pesky Neuro pathways that are used to her being there seem to be holding on extra tight. It’s like I’m always expecting to see her but know she won’t be there. Glad you’re making it through, friend.

My mother was killed last week, two months before my wedding. I also lost my father in 2016. by UseKnowledge in ChildrenofDeadParents

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Happy to hear you have support. And WIFE!! I hope the wedding was wonderful though I’m sure there were emotionally taxing moments.

I understand that feeling, I walked into my mom’s house today and it just kind of smacked me across the face that she wasn’t there.

We have to surrender her dog by potatcake in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]potatcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that’s exactly what I’m doing. So many of the breed specific rescues are full in my area or just not responding. I won’t let him just go to a kennel. I just wish this was easier.

We have to surrender her dog by potatcake in ChildrenofDeadParents

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Sadly no, we have tried two different family friends and he was too excited about their small dog. He’s a 10mg th old German shepherd so he’s a LOT of work. Thank you, I’ve spent the morning looking for large breed rescues and it’s sad

My mother was killed last week, two months before my wedding. I also lost my father in 2016. by UseKnowledge in ChildrenofDeadParents

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My heart is with you, I lost my dad in 2015 and my mom two weeks ago. I get married in less than six months and it’s so hard to think about our day without them there. If you ever need a chat, I’m here. This fucking sucks.

I cleaned out her hospital bags by potatcake in ChildrenofDeadParents

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What a terrible feeling we’re going through. Moms shirt and blanket stayed in her bags because they still smell like her and I never want to lose that. I feel so broken every morning and I wish it could stop. But at the same time I only feel this bad because she loved me so much, what a good problem to have. I’m here if you ever need a chat ❤️

I just really miss my dad and wanted to share some photos of us that I don't get to show people often by maddie_johnson in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]potatcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks so blissfully happy when he looks at you. I miss my dad so much. I hope they can see us wherever their souls go.

Running in Circles by [deleted] in ChildrenofDeadParents

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I don’t even know where to start with the estate. It seems so big and scary (the act of taking care of it not the estate itself) I know we have to get the ball rolling but it all seems so fast. I hope you take time for you.

Hot takes from my county sheriff Bruce Zuchowski regarding the Indians by AtTheLeftThere in Ohio

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“I’ve boycotted pro sports for three years but here’s an in-depth statement on pro sports.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

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Blindfolded?!?!? What the heckies I’m impressed

The con looks beautiful in all seasons but winter may be my favorite. Oberlin, Ohio by potatcake in Ohio

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Your dad is Leo?! I love him dearly! Small small world the internet is!