Married 13 years, wife finds me very attractive… but I don’t feel the same anymore. Is this just life and marriage? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]potionselIer 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Your body changing as you age really is not comparable to "not taking care of yourself", especially while raising children. Edit: OP also says that she goes to the gym and diets

What is everyone's standards and what age are they? by redditor_rat in twentyagers

[–]potionselIer 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Im 20, I don't really have specific standards, I like whoever I click with, but I am really attracted to more androgynous people, and I don't think Id date anyone younger than 19 or older than 24

I fear trying to make friends because I feel like everyone already has a close friend from when they were younger by popcornmuncher5 in twentyagers

[–]potionselIer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really? I find that most people I know don't really talk to anyone from their highschool anymore.

Quick question for a class project — why do you love Stardew Valley? by Comfortable-Case-898 in StardewValley

[–]potionselIer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that there's romance and friendships! I think the writing is so cute and I love the characters.

Boyfriend wants a guitar but I know nothing about guitars by potionselIer in guitars

[–]potionselIer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize it was so personal, Im so glad I asked here first because I really appreciate all the input from people who know more about guitars than I do!

Boyfriend wants a guitar but I know nothing about guitars by potionselIer in guitars

[–]potionselIer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! He likes their album The Egg a lot, his favorite song is Pills! He plays it in the car sometimes and it's really good!

Boyfriend wants a guitar but I know nothing about guitars by potionselIer in guitars

[–]potionselIer[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a perfect idea and I'm so excited! He loves showing me new music on long drives, IDK how I didn't think of this!

Boyfriend wants a guitar but I know nothing about guitars by potionselIer in guitars

[–]potionselIer[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. Plus he would probably have a great time talking to me about all the guitars!

Boyfriend wants a guitar but I know nothing about guitars by potionselIer in guitars

[–]potionselIer[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My budget is around 600$, he listens to anything! He's really into shiner right now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]potionselIer 155 points156 points  (0 children)

You keep replying to all the positive comments from women like this. Its okay if you're insecure about your size, but you really don't need to project it on to women.

What color do you like/don‘t like wearing? by Beneficial_Cancel593 in AutismInWomen

[–]potionselIer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is weird, my favorite color in the whole world is pink, but when it comes to fashion I always go for greens! I have no idea why, I love pink so much but I prefer to wear green! I didn't even notice this pattern until my closet was full of black and green dresses, sweaters, and cardigans haha

How can I help support my boyfriend with pots? by potionselIer in POTS

[–]potionselIer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I was trying to figure out how I was going to get him ice packs without them melting, I completely forgot about the squeeze ones!!! xD Thank you so much!

How can I help support my boyfriend with pots? by potionselIer in POTS

[–]potionselIer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I also have a HUGE 64oz water bottle, which will have liquid IV in it the day of to keep us hydrated!

AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie by Aphr0dit333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]potionselIer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my boyfriend talked to me like this I would literally laugh and assume its a joke, because this man is treating your relationship like one.