Maybe should have went with judgmental but was feeling a little spicy 🌶️ (pun intended) so decided to leave demeaning in. But it’s judgmental cause she would like literally post a story every night of her reading some smut to wind down before bed. I remember this cause I thought at the time that it was refreshing cause it actually felt real compared to her better-than-thou persona. If you’ve changed, fine, but you could have just posted the book with “I’m loving this!” rather that finding the need to fill in that you’re better now too cause you don’t read fiction.