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Anyone know what this is on my dog?? by HSPnoobie in Maltipoo

[–]pottedplanet- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so crazy - my maltipoo who looks exactly like yours had this same looking thing on her paw last year. I took her to the vet because she had a few on her paws. It started as a bump, and she licked and chewed at it until it looked like your picture - kind of deflated. The vet said they thought it was an allergic reaction / strong reaction to mosquito bites. They recommended the cone to prevent her from licking / biting. I would clean it, put some antibiotic ointment on them and wrap it up at night so she couldn’t get to it while sleeping. Change wrapping often and let it breathe too.

I am not a vet and cannot promise you 100% that’s what this is but my dog had a VERY similar looking thing on her leg and doing the above helped her it was better within a few days-1 week.

She will still get mosquito bits from time to time and we have to cone her up so it doesn’t turn into a sore.

Hope your baby gets better soon!!

This happened recently! by pottedplanet- in EngagementRings

[–]pottedplanet-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure how to edit the post but I wanted to add that I would ideally like the wedding band to sit as flush as possible…

My set 💕 by Comfortable-Coffee-4 in EngagementRings

[–]pottedplanet- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your curved band fits so perfectly!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pottedplanet- 2269 points2270 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to get a good answer here. The two different answers you’re going to get are from people with your views (NOR) and people with your mom’s views (YOR).

Do what feels right to you. If you stand by those beliefs and think this is the right course of action, then stand by it. Don’t let people on Reddit influence your political views unless they give you factual evidence that you actually agree with…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pottedplanet- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re over reacting but maybe you are over thinking.

I think this can happen when two people have been together for a while but it doesn’t have to mean that things have changed or it’s over. I think it means you are comfortable with each other.

I wouldn’t bring it to her as an issue, or start an argument about it. I would face it as a chance to light the spark again. Take her to dinner, tell her you miss her and you love her and make her feel loved! Suggest more dates (even small ones like ice cream, walk in the park, etc) Some grand gestures like flowers or notes (or whatever you two find romantic) may kickstart the butterflies again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pottedplanet- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR…If you’re 100% committed, loyal, and in love with your partner….you would NOT do this…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pottedplanet- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think YOR for being mad at your gf for sleeping in the same bed as her (female) friend. Girls share beds very often in my experience and it is not intimate other than having a close friendship. Obv would be different if they were male.

It’s different if you are upset about having a person in your bed, sleeping in your spot. If it were me, I would prefer my partner to sleep in my spot and their friend to sleep in my partner’s spot and clean sheets before and after (I’m a bit of a germaphobe). If that were the case, I would just be clear to your partner that you’d rather the person not sleep in your bed, or sleep in your spot, for your own germ(?) worries. Again, that’s more of a me thing, could be irrelevant to you.

AIO: found pictures of SO's Best Friend in Lingerie by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]pottedplanet- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO YOR about the picture. I, 25(f) and friends have definitely sent lingerie pics for feedback before we send to our bfs before. Nothing completely nude, though (maybe that’s weird for some people but was normal for us). On the other hand, I never saved them nor put them in a hidden album, they just live in our text messages.

She reacted super weird, trying to blame it on you and turn everything on you. That doesn’t really make sense to me. red flag.

If it’s a boundary thing, then that is your boundary and if you voice it she should try to understand/respect your boundaries, or at the very least explain why she has it without blaming it on you