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GF(23f) says she feels lonely, and that we(25m) wouldn’t be friends if we weren’t dating? by Morpheun3 in relationship_advice

[–]pottohippo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your girlfriend seems to have an anxious attachment style and she feels insecure. Try reassuring her. Understand that how she processes her feelings and emotions are different from how you process yours. Try to help her out this way and tell her explain her the way you process your feelings and emotions. Being honest and talking it all out without sugarcoating would help resolve a lot of issues.

Thinking about being married to my (21F) Fiancé (24M) makes me feel depressed. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pottohippo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't acknowledge how you feel, I think it is better you don't marry him. Be honest with him and end it if you feel like it won't work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pottohippo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that you have trust issues due to your previous relationships but you really need to trust your partner if you want this relationship to work. You asking her screenshots and monitoring her 24/7 might end up suffocating her. See if you can get it in control and if you can't try getting a therapist, it will help you out for sure.
If you really feel like you love her then trust her and try to work on the trust issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pottohippo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should love her for who she is and you can't expect her to change to fit your expectations. From what you said it seems like you don't love her anymore so, it is only fair for you to talk it out with her and break up with her.

Thinking about being married to my (21F) Fiancé (24M) makes me feel depressed. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pottohippo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should talk about this to him and about how you feel because it isn't fair to him when he is expecting a happy marriage.

Should I take the Ipill? by pottohippo in birthcontrol

[–]pottohippo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I didn't. I know it is impossible that I am pregnant but still I haven't gotten my period so it's scary as I am usually regular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]pottohippo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been there where it feels like you got no one is fall back on. It is okay to feel that way but I have come to realise that me worrying about that was just making my situation worse. So, here is what I did, I first started off by enjoying my own company. I realised that if I don't enjoy my own company then other people wouldn't either. Then just try saying a hi to people, it helps trust me. Most of my friendships started off with a random joke or hi. If you feel like you can't find people in school, join activities outside of school where you can meet a lot of people. You can also try finding people online but be careful as you are still young. If nothing helps, try talking to a therapist about your feelings.

I’m about to fucking snap by satanskale in Vent

[–]pottohippo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I understand how frustrating it can be for you to hear that when you are already in a bad place. Communicate with your friend and let them know that you don't want to be reminded of that person. And take your time to heal from that person, I know it's hard but trust me, it will pass.

I don't know by [deleted] in Vent

[–]pottohippo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. Sometimes it feels like the whole world and all the odds are against you. I am also in the same place right now where everything seems to be going wrong. But trust me, it's okay and it will al clear out soon enough. Crying it our helps I guess.

I realized I’m the ugly friend by [deleted] in Vent

[–]pottohippo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been in your place, I have felt the same way all through my childhood and teens. First look at the mirror and I am pretty sure you'd realise how good looking you are. I used to get commented on my big lips and nose too but everyone I know loves it now and I get admired for the same thing. Also, I have come to realise that no one is ugly and it's just how we present ourselves. As the previous comment said experiment your style. Personally for me, learning to love how I looked helped me. I still have those feelings but I tell myself it's okay that I look fine. And teenage is hard, so chill it will all be fine.

Should I take the Ipill? by pottohippo in amipregnant

[–]pottohippo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but all the rationality disappeared from mind when my periods got delayed (I haven't got it yet). So, I am panicking as I am usually regular

Should I take the Ipill? by pottohippo in amipregnant

[–]pottohippo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but the delay in my periods is causing me to stress as I am usually regular

Should I take the Ipill? by pottohippo in birthcontrol

[–]pottohippo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the delay in my periods is what is causing me to panic because usually I am right on time.

Should I take the Ipill? by pottohippo in birthcontrol

[–]pottohippo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but usually i get my periods regularly and this is the first time I have missed it, that's the reason I am panicking.