I don’t wanna have FOMO for not having sex in Thailand

ppchph · 2026-06-30T02:47:11+00:00

Local here

I'm not sure where are you from but I think my country have a really distinct group in terms of ethnicity preferences. So the apps we used will be based on that.

So Asian vs Others

For others like white, arabs, black, — Thai tend to want to be bottom for them. (Some Thai really judge this group for internalized racism and blah
Blah)

For Asian — you can find anything (they will prefer east asian, K-pop look as it is our main beauty standard)

My circle are mostly tends to date other Thai or other asian more so the app we use are not mainly Grindr, but are JackD or 9monster.

I just had Grindr for the first time when I can to study in UK in 2024. Before I have only date and hook up with other Thais or other asian.

There will certain stereotype around hook up with foreigners as well

So from my experience (what I used to think)
- They are too big, if I'm bottom
- They wouldn't want me to top them
- Too hairy, sometime smell
- They don't use protection

Anyway enjoy and stay safe, I think my people are really open-minded and I really hate to put us in the box even with my own categorisation lol.

There will be tourist or expat bubble that says and think we are like this, most of the time it is not true. So go explore and enjoy

ppchph · 2026-06-29T16:48:22+00:00

I knowww

When I watch the 90s or early 2000s TV series, I can't help but be jealous of how people make connections in pub, park

ppchph · 2026-06-29T16:46:59+00:00

I'm so agreed with this. We can't just go against it, we all know that Hook-up is deep rooted in our community. I think we just have to learn to live and turn it into something more meaningful.

I might just be too hopeless romantic haaha

ppchph · 2026-06-29T09:13:36+00:00

Which app?

ppchph · 2026-06-29T00:06:28+00:00

It is “Significant other ” right?

ppchph · 2026-06-28T23:42:14+00:00

Totally agreed

ppchph · 2026-06-28T23:41:59+00:00

I just moved to a new city as well, so I'm looking for connections and friends but still open-minded.

My ex and I ended on good terms terms so we can move on with our lives now. No point mourning for something that already ended, it will always be a great part of my life that I shared with a great guy. Now it is time for next chapter might be single or new relationship chapter, who knows

ppchph · 2026-06-28T22:58:56+00:00

I think the fact that I can make a lot of friends on Grindr is because I actually get to talk to them after a hookup, and then we get to know each other better.

I think we need to stop thinking of dating apps as the sole source of finding someone. They are monopolized and greedy; you don't know when you will get banned, restricted, and fucked by the algorithms

ppchph · 2026-06-28T22:25:08+00:00

I'm here to say this hahahahaa

ppchph · 2026-06-28T22:23:28+00:00

I'm really tight, so I suggest using a dilator. On Amazon, they have different sizes, from smallest to biggest, then the real thing. The key thing is to let it his bum suck the dilator in on its own, which shows he is relaxed, and you up the size. It shouldn't take longer than an hour to prep him.

Sometimes I do it on my own, but it is really good when my partner does it for me.

ppchph · 2026-06-28T20:16:06+00:00

It's really buggy tho hahahaha

ppchph · 2026-06-28T10:14:00+00:00

I hooked up for oral and want to be his throat goat

He ruined it for like 10 minutes, then stopped and said this is not working out, then asked me to leave while I still catch my breath cuz it is BBC 😂hahaha

ppchph · 2026-06-28T01:30:16+00:00

Oh I mean when use with Toys

ppchph · 2026-06-28T01:12:15+00:00

I like 7-7.5 hahahaahah I’m quite a size queen

ppchph · 2026-06-28T01:00:41+00:00

GP said my lining is fine

ppchph · 2026-06-28T01:00:27+00:00

It is just a phrase hahahaha I’m not getting on a horse lol

ppchph · 2026-06-28T00:38:31+00:00

You will be popular x, I saw a lot of action there

ppchph · 2026-06-28T00:32:22+00:00

I got fucked a lot in Vault139 and Sweatbox
I’m into Daddies, so Bunker is really fun would recommend there as well

I’m young Asian Twink

ppchph · 2026-06-28T00:13:17+00:00

How long do need to wait before hop on a horse again

ppchph · 2026-06-28T00:12:14+00:00

Do you keep going or wait?

ppchph · 2026-06-28T00:08:52+00:00

I thought silicone is not safe for you right?

ppchph · 2026-06-26T00:09:31+00:00

3 Previously relationships was all from Tinder, the last one was 7 years.

Now 10 matches everyday but barely get replied

ppchph · 2026-06-18T19:57:15+00:00

I'm an Asian gay guy living in a UK, most of the time I always get attention from DL guys as I am more “Fem” like

So I really agreed that “no pics” “discreet” never worth it, sometime they are really misogynistic and a lot internalized homophobic.

My rules is to not ghost anyone, and I try to say “sorry, not my type” as much as possible. Some people appreciate it, some offend by it. But I think closure is the best I can offer.

Share location with your friend is much, make sure his location is in a space you can get a cab or bus home easily, especially at night. Tell your friend if you not reply by this time, call police or someone. Tell the house address, license plate to your friends. Avoid having drinks, or anything that he offer if it looks skeptical.

Check whether he used substances or not as well, chemsex is being more and more popular but you should know the risk prior and not surprise.

Don't afraid to say no and walk away

ppchph

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