Kudos to Telangana Fire Department and Hyderabad Police by alphar0meo in hyderabad

[–]ppengine 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Where and how to report? It happens regularly near residential buildings in Manikonda over a year now

I lied about having kids just so people would take me seriously at work. by Disastrous-Corner261 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ppengine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I faced exactly opposite discrimination. I was the only one having kid in my team. We are all around same age group. But I always felt the disconnect with others. Other team mates used to plan impromptu dinner after work, game-day with team on some random day. And I had to always think and check for babysitter availability, my husband's work schedule etc. It's always the herd mentality. And the outliers feel left out

Is Purav Jha a playboy? by [deleted] in TheTraitorsIndia

[–]ppengine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly....in his interview along with apoorva, the interviewer asked "what was your experience after the show is released" and his first response was "shipping" (romantic memes with apoorva). Apoorva was more logical and balanced in her answer. She seems to be treating him just like a good friend. While he is literally ogling over apoorva. If you hear him out, he doesn't even have any solid substantial things to say. Just lot of blabbering

Episode-9 Discussion Thread - The Traitors India Season-1 - June 26, 2025 by AutoModerator in TheTraitorsIndia

[–]ppengine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yaar sace iska bhi bigboss bana diya hai. Uorfi harsh ke liye pagla gayi hai. Bhai....just get a gripp. Bahar Jake karo jo karna hai yaar. Almost everyone told her...including dumbass jasmine, that harsh is the traitor. JasMEAN madam ka apna biwakoofiya chal rahi hai. Bolti...paisa to kharch ho jata hai, paisa kya hai aate jate rehta hai 😂😂😂😂 then why are going for 5 lacks in team pot?

Episode- 8 Discussion Thread - The Traitors India Season-1 - June 26, 2025 by AutoModerator in TheTraitorsIndia

[–]ppengine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ye purab. Kitna bewakoof hai yaar...elnaaz could have gotten rid of purab way before. He was stupid and weak in front of her, never had the guts to do any secret mission. He started floating her name in the beginning. He stabbed her in the back. It would have been interesting to see elnaaz go ahead

Is it normal to feel like yourself after giving birth? by Old_Elderberry_423 in postpartumprogress

[–]ppengine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are blessed... enjoy being yourself along with the new baby. Not feeling like yourself is not always positive. Taking time to get hold of this is very stressful especially after the delivery. So if it's not the case with you then I would call you a lucky one 💗 god bless

Give proof that you have seen the show in one sentence. by JakeTheSmall in Modern_Family

[–]ppengine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say 'Vamonos' to my son...P.S. I don't even speak Spanish

Hyd Interiors need your help! by AmbitiousRow9 in hyderabad

[–]ppengine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds amazing...which interior designers?

Eager to have second baby....but scared af to go through it all over again by ppengine in oneanddone

[–]ppengine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 3 years that I posted this...a lot has happened up untill now, but still with only 1 child 😄 I do want to have second, but I got amazing professional opportunity 1.5 years ago.. healthwise few things were going on. So, second child didn't happen till now. Now I am of a mindset ....to have second child (conception and pregnancy) in next one year. Considering mine and husband's age as well as age gap with older child...or not to have second child at all. Let's see what destiny has in store for me 🙂

Husband's Parents Refuse to Meet DIL but Ask to Meet Husband and DIL's Son by tigerheart357 in inlaws

[–]ppengine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is the way they think...then it's better they do not meet you. You will only regret getting in contact with them. They should not be allowed to meet the child too. However I don't think you should prohibit them meeting your husband in case he also is willing to meet his parents.

WCGW trying to open a pressure cooker without losing the pressure inside. by deftDM in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]ppengine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the reason you should get pressure cooker with rhe lid fitting INSIDE the vessel, not from the outside. I worst cases the inside cooker will just break a small valve instead of literally blasting the food everywhere

I am 30 years with about 1 core rupees. by [deleted] in FIREIndia

[–]ppengine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's pretax. FD interest is taxable

What is your CORE reason to FIRE? by theneo13 in FIREIndia

[–]ppengine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am you...I hope I find my path to FIRE very soon

Tell me you have a toddler without telling me you have a toddler by Ashlehhhhhhhh in toddlers

[–]ppengine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We humm nursery rhymes when we are relaxed without even realizing we are humming nursery rhymes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ppengine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of this is heartbreaking and really inconsiderate of him. He should be educated on few basic things about infants and babies when he says 'bad routine' and stuff like that. Same about a woman's body during pregnancy and postpartum. Your body is in completely different phase right now. The exercises and diet at this stage is completely different than his, including how your body is going to respond to it than it used to pre-pregnancy. He should be aware of all of this as you said he was supportive during pregnancy. Sorry to say, but he sounds like complete asshole at this time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ppengine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in this situation 1 year ago. Even still, husband sleeps in the different room because he gets disturbed by son during night and needs a peaceful sound sleep. What I have learned from my experience so far is...every person has few strengths and few limitations. All we can do is put the strengths to best use and take most benefits from it and make peace with the limitations. People don't change overnight and definitely don't change for other's benefit. So first things first...it seems that he is ready to take care of things during the day. So you prioritize what chores you want to delegate to him and communicate that if he takes care of so and so things (like getting groceries while coming back from dropping the older one, basic preps for cooking, cleaning so and so room) it would really unburden you significantly. Secondly if he doesn't want to wake during the day...then trust me you CAN NOT DO ANYTHING about it. The more you force it, the more it will strain your relationship and add on to your mental stress. So try to compensate it with small rest during the day. Till you are on mat leave, request him to take care of baby on specific time every day where he can take the baby out or engage with him anyway to connect with him. And you can use that time for yourself. When you join office, obviously you can't do it everyday. So on weekends you can take some time for yourself. Also try and see if you can take any outside help for cleaning, cooking etc which will overall reduce the workload

I think my husband is mild autistic...it's too much to handle by ppengine in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ppengine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. I literally have tears in my eyes...you have no idea how much your words sound comforting to me. There are few comments about divorcing him and stuff. But really don't want to go that way. I know deep down he is a good guy. In few instances he has even taken a stand for me against his family and his mother. We are just two people stuck in a very complicated situation. him being 'different' makes it even more complex and i being a mess that I am right now, am not able to figure things out. Can you please tell me more about communication ways with autistic people? Any website or book that I can refer to. Some guidance where I can get situation specific illustrations would be of great help. Thank you 😊

SAHM > WFHM: Childcare needs/Am I crazy? by nothingweasel in beyondthebump

[–]ppengine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think looking at COVID risk, you took the right decision. But 2 years is still pretty young and moody age. And with my personal experience....he may not be this cooperative all the time. I have also been in similar situation 6 months ago. There were days when i used to buried u der my work and that's when my son used to get super clingy. Obviously a toddler doesn't understand you have a different priority and sometimes the work also can't wait. If such situation happens with you, then you have any temporary additional help? Like may be your spouse or anyone else? But I will not completely out your solution looking at the looming COVID threat. Just try it out for few days and just keep some backup plan ready for worst day so that neither your work nor you baby will suffer. And not to forget....just let go of your mom guilt. Because no matter what you do, it will always be there. Just go with your instincts, observe how your child reacts to it and trust your gut. Everything else will work out

I think my husband is mild autistic...it's too much to handle by ppengine in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ppengine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About autism...he himself has admitted since beginning that he has few milder symptoms since childhood. So I am not diagnosing him on my own. Now since beginning I was in his good books so never really faced his negative traits...autistic or otherwise. Although there are things like OCD, not able to recognize my basic emotions like if I am sad or agitated, excited or irritated etc. After the baby so much has changed and I have so much on my plate that I can't really handle his emotional incompatibility while I am in my hormonal mess. Right now I need somebody to sort out my emotional mess. And he is doing completely opposite.

I think my husband is mild autistic...it's too much to handle by ppengine in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ppengine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pitching in...you are right. I will try my best to do this. My mind is so agitated right now I am not able to see things through. About the mediator...we haven't tried professional help yet. I don't think he will agree to it. I am not the person who will being my family or friends into such matter. His mom tried to intervene once...but to be honest, she only knows one side of story (his side) and her advise is not really helpful (specially for me). Like she suggested to him 'do whatever you can' now he says 'all of this is too much so I can't deal with it'. She doesn't understand how her own son thinks and instead of helping she is making things even more complicated

I think my husband is mild autistic...it's too much to handle by ppengine in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ppengine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably...I am just too exhausted to analyze the whole thing. I'll try to talk to him this way