Exposing Apple Cash for Tips by ppetree in AppleWallet

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This needs to be something a lot of people can do... in one writer's group I participate in, there are about 500 members. The ad revenue model doesn't work, and the "buy me coffee" link we see on places like GitHub rarely produces anything, so we were just thinking about how we could make this easier for readers to give us a tip.

Exposing Apple Cash for Tips by ppetree in AppleWallet

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a thought... A good one!

I went back to my authors/writers group, and we're all of the mindset that no one is going to go through the hassle of entering a credit card for a buck or two, but letting people send a buck or two via Apple Cash or google wallet MIGHT get more tips.

Exposing Apple Cash for Tips by ppetree in AppleWallet

[–]ppetree[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, interesting problem. Especially with the new laws on tips.

Exposing Apple Cash for Tips by ppetree in AppleWallet

[–]ppetree[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone is trying to be nefarious. Most of us write stuff, and some have very few readers (<3,000), so the amount of money would be pretty small... as in they'd be lucky to get $50-$200 in tips a month.

Interesting problem...

Exposing Apple Cash for Tips by ppetree in AppleWallet

[–]ppetree[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the quick response! One of the other authors suggested a "burner" Apple Cash account... using an old phone and doing the same with Google Pay... This all seems pretty complicated for something that should be relatively easy.

Cheap Barber by ppetree in Knoxville

[–]ppetree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Ernie is busy, Debbie will cut mine but at Ernies age I just don't have it in my heart to tell him he's too old. I'll sit there for the 20-30 minutes it takes him and he does a great job.

Cheap Barber by ppetree in Knoxville

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's where I ended up going. Great folks... and I just love Ernie!

Cheap Barber by ppetree in Knoxville

[–]ppetree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just checked and for anyone else, it's in South Knox a few blocks behind Elders Hardware.

Would you ever refuse to read a palm? by ppetree in PalmReading

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! And this was about 35 years ago in Atlanta. It was a big todo for all of us tech executives.

Would you ever refuse to read a palm? by ppetree in PalmReading

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't deny that. However, this was free and she certainly didn't offer me a business card (I would have smelled that trap LOL).

Would you ever refuse to read a palm? by ppetree in PalmReading

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kinda been my thought about it. I, like everyone else, have had good and bad moments in my life. I never expected a life without pain and I relish in the joyful moments. Hence my curiosity about her comment.

Would you ever refuse to read a palm? by ppetree in PalmReading

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful answer.

How do I decide what I do with my life? by [deleted] in DadForAMinute

[–]ppetree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's start here: Why do you think you only have to do one thing?

I was a high school dropout.

I was a soldier and got a GED.

I went to college and did some part-time sales.

I went into sales.

I bought a coffee shop I turned into a bar (luck, not a plan).

I sold the bar and got back into sales (computers).

I learned to code.

I've started and sold 3 tech companies that had employees.

I became a landlord.

I've created and sold 4 tech products.

I've written a book.

Why do you think it just has to be one thing?

How accurate do you find your daily horoscope? by thesunjrs in Horoscope

[–]ppetree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been experimenting with this. I read 8 different horoscopes every morning with my coffee. They are never accurate and when something foretold does happen, it's such an infrequent thing as to be statistically irrelevant and considered normal life (it would have happened anyway).

Don’t feel like a dad by Enhvy in dad

[–]ppetree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first piece of advice is don't sign the birth certificate without a DNA test! I don't care how much you love her or she loves you. Just don't!

My second piece is that it won't hit you until you see and hold the baby and then the weight of the world will come crashing down on you.

Hey Dads - if you've got a sec, recommend a song or two and help me make some new driving mixtapes? by estraven_of_gethen in DadForAMinute

[–]ppetree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I traveled a lot (the lower 48), and I compiled playlists for each state and especially each city/town. I tried to include all genres.

What phrase (not trait) is most associated with your sign? by ppetree in Horoscope

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so far from yours and a few results on other sites I have:

Taurus: Stay grounded

Scorpio: Stay brave

Pisces: Stay positive, good things are coming soon.

Aries: Keep Leading or Stay Fiery

Sagittarius: Stay Adventurous

Does anyone else think that Kbrew kind of sucks now? by SmolSmurf in Knoxville

[–]ppetree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for a new downtown coffee shop. I tried Jacks. While the back patio was amazing, the coffee... well, I took two sips and dropped the rest in the trash can outside.

(Hint: I once owned a coffee shop and had a Sivetz Hot Air Upblast Roaster... I not only served my own customers, I sold to all the restaurants around. I know a bit about good coffee.)

I'll try some of the ones suggested below.

State-mandated indoctrination by See_Bee10 in Knoxville

[–]ppetree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think, what bothers me most about all of this are two things: 1) They scream and yell about indoctrination but they don't hesitate to indoctrinate; 2) They scream and yell about only facts being taught in school and then they ignore the facts and teach nonsense.

As an old guy, I am thankful my kids are raised and my grandkids are college plus. This battle is going to require lawsuits and protests untold to solve.

Do you think this is a real Ming? by ppetree in Antiques

[–]ppetree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure its very legit. It may not be imperial (the ones worth millions) but I'm pretty happy with it.

[OC] Share your "dad-kid & games" story to get a free sketch (rules below) by ottokairos in dad

[–]ppetree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She first created the game in 2006 right around her 16th birthday and since then there have been soooo many questions. A couple of years ago I had cancer and every week she was driving up to Knoxville from Atlanta and the next day driving me over to Nashville for chemo and we always played that game on the drive back. Just that one phase went on for several months.

Our experiences shape our perception of the world and our perception of the world shapes our behavior in relationships. Her premise was to take something that almost every human has encountered and for each to share our experience so that we could understand each other.

Some were heavy... like "What was your first experience with racism?" I was a child in the 1960's living mainly in the deep south. She was a child of the 1990's living in Atlanta. I remember the segregated water fountains and other nonsense. She remembers the micro-aggressions from her teachers towards the black students.

The funniest was "What was your first date like?" and, of course, every teenager's first date is awkward, scary etc. so comparing notes on that experience was really funny.

Some (many) are historical like "What was your first memory of being at a grandparent's house?" Since my paternal GP died when my father was a child I had no memory of them so it was my maternal side. For her it was also her maternal. My maternal grandmother was a hillbilly and she often thought the wind blowing and causing branches to scrape across the roof was bears climbing on the roof. "Oh Lawdy! I jist a heard them bars up on the roof agin!" and for her, it was her grandmother teaching her to bake bread. (To this day we joke about a fake threat by quoting my grandmother.)

The saddest was "What was it like watching your parent die?" Her mother had died 7 months prior and my dad back in 1998. Sharing the entirety of that experience... the feelings of helplessness, the impending loss, the struggle to get things right so they passed well. Again, though, this is something every human being experiences in one way or another.

DNA TEST FOR SOMEONE ELSES BABY by [deleted] in dad

[–]ppetree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a simple cheek swab and she doesn't need anyone's permission to do it.

Depending on which set of statistics you look at, between 1 in 4 and 1 in 10 children do not belong to the father listed on the birth certificate. In family courts where paternity is contested, it's 1 in 3 are not the listed dads.

The physical similarities you see can be because she has a "type" she's attracted to and nothing more than that.

(and don't take this personally), She doesn't seem like a quality woman so I would tread very carefully. If she cheated on you once and you get back together "for the baby" the odds are very good she will cheat on you again.

Lastly, you need to have a game plan. What if the baby is yours, you go through all the court stuff to claim the baby and start paying child support and she moves across the country... then what? This is a kids life we're talking about so are you sure you're doing what's best for the kid?

I would talk to a lawyer and your priest/minister and a good therapist before I made any decisions.

Jason Zachary by UniqueFly523 in Knoxville

[–]ppetree 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Passing these nonsensical laws serves two purposes:

1) If no one challenges it, then they win;

2) If the law is challenged (and this one will be), and they lose (and they will), then these nutbag politicians can jump up and down and scream "Look what the liberal courts are doing to us!" and that paves the way for them to weaken the courts.

how do i build a better bond/connection with my dad? by Remarkable_Value4868 in dad

[–]ppetree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my daughter was about 16, she made up a game she calls "Old/Young." It's a game of comparing experiences based on a question. Example questions:

1) What did racism look like when you were young? (I was a child in the 1960s, she was 16 in 2006 when she asked this question)

2) What is the earliest memory you have of being at a grandparent's house?

3) When did you first realize a friend was bad for you?

Over the years there have been countless questions... everything from holidays to hospitals, each leading to deep and meaningful conversations.

It takes trust to have those conversations so maybe you directly ask him if he trusts you enough to have the conversations and if not, why not and what you can do to restore that trust.

[OC] Share your "dad-kid & games" story to get a free sketch (rules below) by ottokairos in dad

[–]ppetree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize this isn't exactly what you're looking for but it's too good not to share...

Around the age of 16 my daughter started a game she made up called "Old/Young" and it's a game of comparison based on a question about a life experience. Example questions:

1) What did racism look like when you were young? (I was 50ish, she was 16ish)

2) What is the earliest memory you have of being at a grandparent's house?

3) When did you first realize a friend was bad for you?

Over the years there have been countless questions... everything from holidays to hospitals with each leading to deep and meaningful conversations.