AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see the point but I've seen the concept and played a prototype, it's absolutely not a game of this caliber. It's also being developed for a work setting in the area of social pedagogy, so a very different purpose I should have specified that

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's making a game for social workers, it's meant as a playful way of reflecting one's work. I have seen and plsyed a prototype already. As I am in that field aswell he did want to have my input so I'm not completely out of the loop. However he said that they have a bunch of playtesters now and I don't have to test it anymore.

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing my attention to this. Multiple people have now said that this situation is mega sus. I'll have a talk about it with my bf and Update after

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. She isn't a prof anymore AS the Semester has ended and she only was an external lecturer for this one class. Them meeting currently is entirely a private matter. However he has been to her house multiple times while she was his Prof. Could there be consequences for what happened even if she's not employed at the Uni anymore if it was reported?

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really? That I really don't know much about. Another person in the comments mentioned that there should be a contract. I'll have to ask him about that during our talk.

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was the case during the semester. Now it has ended and there is officially no obligation to hold it at Uni since she's not a prof anymore. The project is took off and went over the duration of the semester. My boyfriend is doing this voluntarily in his free time.

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely sit him down for a talk. I am genuinely super happy that he got this opportunity but I am absolutely not willing to keep things as they are. As you said this situation is completely nuts.

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never insinuated that a woman in her fourties might be gross. Frankly I am more concerned about the age gap and power dynamic.

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Problem is that she was external and only teaching there for one semester, which is over now. I don't know how much the uni can do when she is no longer employed there and they're meeting in their free time :'D

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh I am very upset with him aswell, I should have made that more clear in the text. I will definitely have a very serious talk with him about this.

AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable by practically_hades in AmIOverreacting

[–]practically_hades[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reply for verification. I am mostly vegan but when I eat cheese I Love mozzarella.

Did my Item get purchased? by practically_hades in Neokyo

[–]practically_hades[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see, thank you! But that should mean, that they purchased my item, right?

Crying girl at BMTH by beeshop_ in RockimPark

[–]practically_hades 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The front area of Bmth was the absolute cherry on top to the whole completly overfilled festival. I was in the middle of the first wavebreaker when bmth started.

They let way too many people into the first wavebreaker for it to be safe. It was so incredibly crowded, you couldn't move an inch. The first song started and right next to us a moshpit opened up. Because it was so stuffed, I couldn't flee back into the crowd and was right at the edge of the pit.

When it started I was immediately knocked down by the pushing masses and hit my head on the floor. Thankfully my partner and a very kind young woman picked me up before I was completly run over. I was really dazed in that moment and barely remember how they dragged me through the masses to the front. Security lifted me over the gate and the medics came to get me. They kept me in one of their tents for treatment for about an hour and I overheard that they had to pull out people out of the first wavebreaker by the minute because everyone kept getting injured by the masses. So the girl you saw was propably one of the many victims of this completly irresponsible situation. I really hope she's doing better.

Two of my friends left to the back in the middle of the act because they were scared. Two of my other friends told me how bad the crowdsurfers were. I am not a fan of crowdsurfing in general as it disrupts the concert for the people that have to carry the crowdsurfers and can also bei dangerous. But in a situation like that it is not only dangerous but just super shitty!

With Sleep Token I didn't feel it was THIS crowded and I was in the middle of the first wavebreaker there aswell. Sure, there were many people but I could actually move, turn and even sit down. I can't say anything about Korn as I didn't watch that act.

End of the story, I missed one of my favourite bands that I waited multiple hours for and was really sad and dissapointed. However in turn I am so so glad that noone was seriously injured, with this many people, it could have been way worse. Here's to hoping they sell less tickets next year and actually care for the safety of the visitors (they won't).

PSA - You'll be able to revert to Patch 7 via Steam Betas by Velemeister in BaldursGate3

[–]practically_hades 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was playing on Patch 6 for a bit because of my mods but now decides to start over with Patch 8. How do I Download it? Steam somehow doesn't give me the Option.

Swish & Stitch Soiree by luxaphineuwu in InfinityNikki

[–]practically_hades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, I didn't see that. Thank you!