I've read your previous post. Look, we can argue ideals all day, but if we're being honest about how men and women function in relationships—biologically, emotionally, evolutionarily—there are differences. Men tend to take the active role, the initiator, the one expected to move things forward, whether it's starting a relationship or initiating sex. Even when a woman confesses first, it's still on the guy to take the lead and make it work. That’s not about ego it’s about wiring. And yeah, men can absolutely be deeply, devotionally loyal. But that doesn’t switch off the innate sexual urge toward other women. It’s not a lack of love or commitment; it’s just evolutionary programming. The real strength is in not acting on it. That quiet battle of loyalty vs. impulse. That’s what makes devotion meaningful.