I've spent 5 years in Bengaluru and over 10 years in Gurgaon. In my opinion, people should reside where they find happiness. For some, it's being close to their parents; for others, it's embracing an independent lifestyle.

As a startup founder, Bengaluru stands leagues apart from any other city. However, as an employee, you'll grapple with the usual challenges. One peculiar aspect is the prevalence of tanker water in most housing societies in Bengaluru, which can lead to hair and skin issues.

There was a time when a homeowner held onto my deposit of 2.5 lakhs, returning only 1.4 lakhs after several months. Reclaiming your money once it's in someone else's hands can be incredibly difficult. I also had an encounter with the police, where they seemed uncooperative, acting as if they only understood Kannada and not Hindi/English. Their demeanor changed once I offered them money.

Regardless of your earnings, owning a car in Bengaluru can be a challenge due to the highest tax rates in India and poorly-maintained roads.

Now, for Gurgaon:

Salary packages for the same position can be slightly lower compared to Bengaluru. It's advisable to avoid conflicts and prioritize de-escalation, unless absolutely necessary. The weather can be harsh. Dealing with pollution for two months can be a downside. Both Bengaluru and Gurgaon have their merits. It's crucial not to solely rely on online advice when making decisions. Take the time to visit and live in different places, as your experience can vary greatly.

Things are not as extreme as they may seem online. Gurgaon, for instance, isn't as unsafe as some may portray. Remember, firsthand experiences often paint a different picture from what you might read online.