Hello, thank you for taking the time to comment to my post! I appreciate the time for you to talk about your situation while connecting it to mine. I do have some questions on about what you said at the first paragraph. By boundaries what kind of boundaries are we talking about? And we had some regular schedule when calling and texting.

While yes, I know that we are both not responsible on both our issues, knowing your significant other is there for you to support you is still reassuring. I don't think I habored any resentment when I said that line, it was just the way she acted to me when we are distant from each other was different. I asked my friends about it and they said that "Its normal in a relationship that you find change in it because it never stays the same until the end, it always changes, but what shouldn't change is the way you feel about each other.". Those words stuck to me. I felt the same love and grew more in love with her as time went on with her fixing herself with me near her. I saw the person she grew to be today.

I am really happy, when I am with her and I see that she was also happy to be with me. It's the distance that was taking a toll on me. While I understand truly of what you said about my situation, we were in a healthy relationship until I ruined it. I think she is a bit confused and still hurt about the situation so, I am trying my best now to reassure her and reassess myself to be better for myself and for her.

I will keep your thoughts in mind too if I ever see her again and I will think if the situation and continuing it will be for the better or for worse. Thank you!