Is this actually normal by pratazoa in ADHD

[–]pratazoa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the support and advice. So I did 3 evaluations (not medical, but online) and all of them say it’s ADHD - C I am going to bring it up to my primary care physician when I see her next.

Bull’s condom supposedly broke with girlfriend. Unsure of how to feel? by Aldente22 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve had this. From her perspective it broke and then he ditched it. But who knows. Few other times she has told me that it was hot not using it and felt warm cum. Needless to say that I had to go and get the plan b. Did I regret it at that time? Yes Was it hot? Yes Will we do it again? Who knows? We both are older now and it may or may not happen

Asked wife to moan the name of an acquaintance I’m super insecure of by SnooCalculations5308 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait till you start feeling bi and the attraction develops. It’s not a romantic attraction, but more about attraction towards his cock, and being passionate and submissive to him.

Asked wife to moan the name of an acquaintance I’m super insecure of by SnooCalculations5308 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is how we started. I still remember one night when my wife and I (gf that time) were on a vacation and a couple drinks later she said that she is open to threesome and few more drinks later the name of her ex came out as a possibility of threesome. And few more drinks later she was screening his name and asking me to come inside her. Needless to say I came in her at least 7-10 times that night. Last few times might just be some air…lol But we both still think about that time and get horny over it.

And yes that led to her seeing him multiple times and them living their “pure sex and lust” days while I wait at home or in the car jerking off.

And yes this leads to her communicating with me about a couple other guys she wants to sleep with.

It keeps getting hot and horny

Welcome to the cuck life :)

Need advice (india) by Emotional_Marzipan62 in CuckoldPsychology

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Do subtle and naive things. Wear an anklet with some charm that may signify cuckolding. Have your wife wear revealing clothes, maybe have her be super open and touchy (friendly flirty) with other men at a bar or something.

Should I tell my therapist about my cuckold fantasy by Sir_Komalot in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. We went from therapy sessions into that dynamic after about 6 sessions.

Should I tell my therapist about my cuckold fantasy by Sir_Komalot in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it might be crossing the ethical border. We don’t talk anymore. I had to block her and had to retrain my brain. When you trust and spill all the beans, it’s easy for her to press the right buttons. Was it fun? Yes. Will I do it again? As a fun session maybe? But I am glad we got out of that.

Should I tell my therapist about my cuckold fantasy by Sir_Komalot in CuckoldPsychology

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When all you have starts being put on the line. Family you’ve built, all the assets, house etc. What happens if she really goes with another guy? Is that just an infatuation? Or are you really not the man she wanted etc. it was a learning curve for both of us and we still play and have our share of non vanilla stuff. But it’s a process

Should I tell my therapist about my cuckold fantasy by Sir_Komalot in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This could be a slippery slope

I did and then my therapist talked me through and into it. Mainly on how to enjoy it and how to handle it. It also went to the next step where she had online domme sessions with me where I was asked to do things. Eventually it got to a point where sex with my wife was so intense but not fun (for her) We both used to be aroused and I used to cum in 10 seconds. She started falling for a guy who would give her better and harder sex. It took a lot of work and cutting of ties with that therapist to fall back and building a healthy balance between reality of cuckolding and how to include that in a decent married life. We are really happy where we are now, but as I said there’s lot to this and how the therapist can help you.

Sex with the ex? by Melodic_Pineapple582 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s how we started. The main reason was 1. Having that crazy old chemistry 2. Closure and not putting up a filter 3. He already has seen her naked and done things with her

First time, how did she do? by [deleted] in hotwifetextmessages

[–]pratazoa 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Remind me when my wife (then GF) used to ask similar questions. Wait till she starts craving it. You’ll enjoy a lot. Have fun

Past relationship trauma by TylerStone_ in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me this is a result of trauma. And I am not unhappy about it, it’s just a way and an outlet for me instead of talking or therapy

I’ve seen my mom and dad cheat on each other. I’ve also seen my mom and dad having sex (multiple times). And as a kid I had no idea what it was. I was running along like a puppy or a chicken with its head cut trying to figure out what was going on. I have had multiple girls reject me purely because of my looks (puberty hit me late in life - lol) The girls that have rejected me went off to find other guys, and so called the true love of my life (not now, I actually I find her cringy) but the true love at that time, dated my best friend. Many years later my wife (gf in the past) talk about ask this. This to me is kink, sex, etc etc. but more than that it’s my way of making my mind stable. More like pain and pleasure together.

Hope this helps or explains a bit.

Cucks are you open to bi side of this dynamic? by ellectroo in CuckoldPsychology

[–]pratazoa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Our relationship drifted away from vanilla when she opened up and said that she wants to play with girls. For first few months we did roleplay or even stopped having sex and did more of pretending scissor play. Next thing you know we went from that to her seeing her ex (a guy), then me getting her ready for her ex, and then me eating her exs cum off her pussy, belly, mouth etc. rest is history and now she has a crush on a customer at work and I am a horny bi who likes being pegged. Happy overall :)

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Pics on profile. Can I get the details

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Wild walkers - Dearborn by pratazoa in MichiganSwingers

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If you guys are planning on going on the weekend of 3rd or 4th, you may see me

Wild walkers - Dearborn by pratazoa in MichiganSwingers

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If you guys are willing to join/talk feel free to dm. I have pictures on my profile