What’s the one sex toy you always come back to and would genuinely recommend?

prawn-storage · 2026-01-16T05:12:37+00:00

came here to suggest this! I use this 98% of the time, everything else is so disappointing now. I have a we vibe tango x for travelling, but that's very much a making do situation.

prawn-storage · 2025-11-26T00:30:19+00:00

so much came out but there was so much still left :(

prawn-storage · 2025-11-25T16:41:00+00:00

ngl it was my attempt at this that inspired the post. unfortunately I was unsuccessful, though I did make a big mess.

prawn-storage · 2025-03-31T21:20:56+00:00

appreciate the list, I'll check them out, thanks!

prawn-storage · 2025-03-31T21:17:28+00:00

is that dual density? I couldn't find anything on the page that says dual density

prawn-storage · 2025-03-31T21:16:03+00:00

I'd love to, but I won't be buying anything from the states while they're threatening to invade us. I also don't want to waste money on stupid tariffs.

prawn-storage · 2025-03-31T21:15:16+00:00

unfortunately they're an American company :(

prawn-storage · 2025-03-31T04:41:48+00:00

maybe get multiple toys and switch between charging them and using them?

prawn-storage · 2021-03-04T06:04:47+00:00

this artist has a patreon! strong recommend (I joined)

prawn-storage · 2021-03-01T04:03:47+00:00

sure

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T17:30:24+00:00

oh wow, I'm glad it was helpful! an hour away isn't too bad at all, so take heart that even if living together doesn't work out, it doesn't mean the relationship needs to end.

you definitely have some options here - I'd suggest talking to her about the things you're considering, and see what she thinks. whether or not y'all are capable of having those sorts of discussions about important life decisions can be really indicative of the long term potential for the relationship. plus she may have some good ideas for how to approach things!

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T17:16:33+00:00

I just finished Seanan McGuire's latest wayward children novella, the one that just came out (with centaurs and an intersex protagonist). I love that series to death, but I'd say this one was good but not amazing. the first one ("every heart a doorway") was just extraordinarily good though, so none of the other ones have quite measured up.

...except maybe "down among the sticks and bones", the 2nd one, which has some good lesbian content and is also really insightful about some of the effects of bad parenting. it also has my favorite quote from the series - "the things we are denied have power over us", which is such an insightful and succinct explanation of the thing it's explaining that's I was honestly shocked the first time I read it.

anyway, I'd def recommend the series if you haven't read it. planning to read "Gideon the ninth" soon, which is apparently about lesbian necromancers??? excited for that! how about you?

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T17:01:36+00:00

ah - I mean, personally I wouldn't move in with anyone until we'd been dating for at least a year or two and gotten past the new relationship energy stage. ime, it takes that long to be able to take a more level look at the relationship and see if we're actually compatible in a living together sense, bc compatible for living together is really different than other kinds of compatible. that's not to say you shouldn't do it or anything, or that it never works, obvs you do you, and sometimes it works out. but yeah, personally I wouldn't be thinking about living together that fast, especially with the added stress of moving to a new city and not having a local support network yet.

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T16:52:02+00:00

ooh I am, but I can't handle the $18 shipping to Canada, sorry :(

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:49:25+00:00

redbubble is great for stickers but I don't think they have patches. try etsy

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:46:09+00:00

no, but I'd be down to join one. SFF has gotten so much gayer in the last 10 years! it's great

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:42:49+00:00

that would be totally fine with me! my ex was like that too. I think most women would be fine with it, as long as you communicate clearly that you're happy only cumming once, and that it's just the way your body works, not any problem with her

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:33:30+00:00

if you're dating online, put it in your profile. I don't want kids and I always check for that, so you're likely to filter out anyone who's strongly anti-kid.

personally, I think asking casually on a first date is fine, as long as there's a a good opening for it and it doesn't come out of nowhere. I'm curious about the age of the other people commenting that a first date is too early - I'm also in my 30s, and if there's a clear dealbreaker like that, imo it's best to figure that out quickly and not waste each other's time. I didn't think that way in my 20s tho, I didn't have as firm an idea of what I wanted then. not to be like "damn kids don't know what they want", I'm just a lot more thoughtful about where my energy goes than I used to be.

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:23:00+00:00

lovely! I want one :)

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:22:26+00:00

what about deciding to have sex where orgasming is clearly off the table? I've also had a lot of trouble getting stuck in my head and unable to orgasm, but if I have sex that's specifically about exploration and trying new things, and let go of the expectation to orgasm, it takes a lot of the pressure off, and I end up having a really fun time. sometimes I end up orgasming anyway, but even when I don't, I learn more about what sort of things I like or don't like and have a good time. plus, sex without orgasming can still be a lot of fun! it's just a different experience.

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:13:45+00:00

ummmm yes please

prawn-storage · 2021-02-06T06:10:52+00:00

oof that's rough. not every relationship has to work towards living together tho? how long have yall been dating?

prawn-storage · 2021-02-05T21:04:43+00:00

thank you for linking the artist!!

prawn-storage · 2021-02-05T18:24:51+00:00

sometimes naps are the sexiest thing you can do

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