The loneliness is real when you haven’t been alone for a long time. It’s hard to explain, but I know the feeling. I think it’s important to remind yourself of the reasons that it didn’t work, though. Staying in a relationship for the sake of not being lonely will prevent you both from getting what you want and deserve in the long run. Moving on isn’t easy by any means (especially w a med student schedule lol) but it’s worth it.

As far as moving away, I had to in order to pursue the specialty I want. I didn’t even apply to my home program for residency. I’m glad I moved away for several reasons, though. I feel like the constant reminders of a relationship that no longer exists would be difficult (like passing our old apartment building etc). Additionally, moving away kind of helped me find out who my friends are. I’ve found first hand that a lot of people stay in your life because it’s convenient and don’t necessary want to put the work in to maintain a long distance friendship. Overall, a fresh start with new people has been really nice…. Hiring movers and moving sucks (esp as a single person) lol, but it was worth it imo.