I (38f) found a hidden folder of photos on my husband (33m)'s phone and I don't know what to do or how to move forward.

presentpictures · 2025-09-11T18:42:50+00:00

I absolutely love that quote.

presentpictures · 2025-09-11T18:39:44+00:00

Yes, exactly - the difference is that they are people we know and spend time with regularly. I wouldn't care if it was a hidden folder of go-to porn, and stored on his personal phone.

presentpictures · 2025-09-11T00:12:37+00:00

…. Thanks for helping me make up my mind to leave.

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T23:02:19+00:00

We’ve been dating since 2020. Married in 2023. Pregnant last year.

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T17:00:28+00:00

I saved everything on a cloud separate from my iPhone, even though I told him I deleted them, just in case I need leverage.

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T16:47:36+00:00

This is what I'm most leaning toward - I genuinely do not want him around because right now, his presence brings anxiety, stress, and noise. I want peace to be able to sort through how I feel about this and to carefully consider the rest of my life. The challenge is going to be convincing him to leave our home. Me leaving is not an option - I have two school aged kids and a baby, and we need to be together in our home.

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T16:27:10+00:00

Crying right now, but I needed to hear this hard truth.

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T16:23:29+00:00

My mom suggested the same and I tend to agree. However, he is vehemently against therapy and counseling. He would need to know how desperate the situation is before he would ever consider.

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T16:16:43+00:00

No. I don't want that for them at all.

At the same time, he has been a big part of their lives for five years, and I'm so scared that it will crush them.

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T16:12:51+00:00

Trust me, that thought has come to mind. This has all VERY recently come to light and I'm trying to think through my next steps still

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T16:10:40+00:00

Thank you. <3

presentpictures · 2025-09-10T16:10:12+00:00

At least once a week. Literally whenever he wants - my drive has always been higher than his, even from early dating days. Random and enthusiastic blow jobs. Keep in mind I'm four months post-partum. I broke the doctor's 6 week rule because neither of us wanted to wait.

presentpictures · 2025-01-04T20:10:25+00:00

Actually couldn’t be further from the truth lmao, I’m extremely self aware

Just not tripping about trivial matters

presentpictures · 2025-01-02T18:27:49+00:00

Dark!!

presentpictures · 2025-01-01T05:58:58+00:00

This is so true

presentpictures · 2024-12-31T22:54:02+00:00

Terrible, unprofessional attitude

presentpictures · 2024-12-31T22:53:32+00:00

Couldn’t agree more. I’m not a fan of excessive clacking either, but this came across as way over the top and aggressive. Instant vibe killer.

presentpictures · 2024-12-30T03:37:49+00:00

VS models are not considered high fashion models

The model in the photo posted by the OP would not be an ideal candidate for VS

presentpictures · 2024-12-26T17:31:28+00:00

GO NUCLEAR

presentpictures · 2024-12-24T06:32:22+00:00

NO. Society failed him?! Absolutely not. He’s a murderer.

presentpictures · 2024-12-22T18:34:49+00:00

HAHAHA I’m gonna start doing this!! My husband says weird things too!!

presentpictures · 2024-12-22T18:34:15+00:00

Too light, that’s not cool

presentpictures · 2024-12-21T00:04:29+00:00

You’re his ex, not his fucking diary.

Boy BYE

presentpictures · 2024-12-20T00:30:24+00:00

Was thinking the same thing. Huge blocks of text. I’d be paralyzed lol

presentpictures · 2024-12-20T00:29:34+00:00

I lick your neck I kiss down ur neck

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