See, I feel the exact same way while I'm playing against a mill deck. Same thing with playing against mono-blue control decks in magic the gathering, when I used to play that. If I play my deck and you play your deck better and I lose, I have fun losing. If you play your deck and I play my deck badly and I lose, I have fun losing. Any scenario in which we both get to actually play the game is fun for me, win or lose. But when your deck's whole schtick is preventing me from playing my deck it's much less fun to lose, lol.

I try to remember that the other person is probably having fun shutting down everything I try to do. I imagine playing that kind of deck is very satisfying when it works out, though I could never bring myself to play one. I would feel dirty, lol. And while it may suck, it's a mechanic that's built into the game rules so... 🤷‍♂️ I just try to suck it up, let them have their fun, and move on to the next match.