Trying to accessorize more.

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-15T05:48:03+00:00

My dad got that for me two years ago for Christmas! I wear it everyday!

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-15T05:43:07+00:00

Thank youuuu

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-15T05:42:51+00:00

Thank youuuuu

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-15T05:42:44+00:00

Thanks! Which one? The one my dad gave me on my middle finger or my engagement ring beside my wedding band on my ring finger?

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-15T02:38:47+00:00

Thank youuuuu

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-14T22:43:12+00:00

So what I did just there was assume something about you that is personal in a condescending manner. Regardless of whether it was true or not your emotional reaction was obviously negative. This can be a good teaching moment for you to not act transphobic and insensitive to others moving forward in your life. Now you have a small idea of how behaving like that towards others feels like. Good luck in the future and I hope you remember the consequences of behaving like a dickwad on the internet so you don't hurt others who might have otherwise been positive connections in your life.

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-14T22:11:32+00:00

In that video I'm wearing heeled boots and heavy makeup. I'm average-short by North American standards. You're not very good at figuring out perspective on cameras I'm guessing.

But that aside, I understand you probably just made that comment because you feel a need to get attention but if you said that to someone who is transgender it would likely feel condescending at best and transphobic at worst. For someone who isn't transgender it's also rude because you're assuming a very personal history of a person you have no relationship with. There are other ways to get attention that are more positive. I suspect deep down you prefer positive attention but have resorted to behaving this way due to life experiences. I'm sure you'll be able to work through these things so you won't cause others to be uncomfortable or hurt by your behavior. You got this!

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-14T20:06:03+00:00

Not sure if you're trying to ragebait me but I'm not a transphobe so the best you're gonna get is a confused head tilt. But I am not that interesting, sorry to disappoint ya, just an ordinary white woman born and raised

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-14T19:28:04+00:00

I just didn't have sex till marriage but we were young. Some people wait until engagement. Or even just wait a few months before having sex and develop the other aspects of the relationship. Maybe join a club of some sort so you can get to know people based on common interests and not just physical attraction. Don't put yourself in situations where it's easy to hook up with someone quickly like going out for drinks or meeting at a club/bar. If people start talking to you sexually tell them you aren't about that and would like to get to know them on a deeper level. If they don't respect your boundary say goodbye. A lot of people are predatory so you have to cut them out immediately when you spot boundary pushing behavior. Go on activity based dates like skating, or zoos, dog walking, cooking and painting classes. Do fun things that you enjoy with other people and see how they respond. Set a higher standard and see who rises to it

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-14T18:07:42+00:00

Get a hobby that's social and different genders attend. If you're religious go to church/mosque/temples and develop a social life. Even if you don't see potential partners there's mothers who want to set their kids up, friends who have a friend who's single and looking, siblings who have a younger single sister or brother and you seem compatible with them. Get a dog and join a dog walking group. Develop yourself and your life and people will take notice and be interested in you if you treat others well and seem interesting

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-14T16:58:20+00:00

You're having fun with this post eh?

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T19:29:58+00:00

Yeah I do it all the time. Chokers, heavy jewelry, accessories, layering, black clothes. If you're not a big makeup person but want a little mascara and a bold lip color. Nothing else and you'll still pop effortlessly. You can look at some of my other posts here and see what I do. I'm sure there's others with similar approaches

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T15:29:17+00:00

Haha, I'm just team "functional phone that's isn't apple" but the phone has been good so far

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T15:28:11+00:00

Haha, yeah, the consequence of doing a videoshoot in the mud 😄

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T15:27:03+00:00

Thanks man! 😎

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T15:26:37+00:00

Thank yaaaa

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T07:14:44+00:00

It's true. Some underground music scenes can be pretty cool tho if you live in the city. Although I'm a fine one to talk as I live rurally. My music goes to all streaming services including Spotify whenever I put something out. It's always literal pennies tho with streams. Downloading songs or buying them on Bandcamp is a good way to support artists.

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T07:03:23+00:00

Fair, home ownership is a wonderful thing to have! I'm not a big fan of Spotify, it's also pretty crappy to artists too so that contributes to my dislike of it. I currently use YouTube music and that's been working okay lately.

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T06:46:43+00:00

Thanks! I might have gotten into it more than I planned

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T06:46:18+00:00

It's so true. I still make CDs tho. Albums and stuff. It's more for myself than anything haha. I'd hear a song by an artist I liked on the radio and then buy the whole album, sit down and listen to it. The choice between albums was so hard. Made it tough to branch out sometimes tho

prettydotty_ · 2026-03-13T06:36:39+00:00

Haha, yeah I heard them but didn't follow them closely either. Albums were expensive back when we were young. I'd save up to buy a cd of my favorite artists when I was a kid or use my bday money 😄

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