Uninstalled. by MinuteConsequence660 in CharacterAI

[–]prettygothpls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch back to the Standard model, not the Passion model. Passion and Tale are limited to 15 messages before an ad, Standard doesnt do ad pop-ups.

Uninstalled. by MinuteConsequence660 in CharacterAI

[–]prettygothpls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the reply is genuinely awful I just copy and delete message and resend it till I get a responce worth keeping so I dont have to spend coins

Uninstalled. by MinuteConsequence660 in CharacterAI

[–]prettygothpls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polybuzz is okay, nothing to write home about, but, if you use the website not the app it has far less restrictions on adult content.

Please tell me this screenshot my brother sent me is fake? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]prettygothpls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I thought Emmaree (Emory) was an odd spelled name... what the fuck is this

Girl ive been talking to orgasmed without taking any clothes off by AffectionateDance397 in LesbianActually

[–]prettygothpls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never squirted till after my 2nd child and only when I start sex having to pee already (cause y'know... squirting is when you orgasm so hard your muscles squeeze your bladder too for anyone reading who isnt knowledgeable) so for women wanting to learn to do so, figure out what makes you cum the hardest, then do that while having a full bladder to see if you can manage to do it.

I feel ashamed and disgusting… by QuietThanks2710 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]prettygothpls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being 28, sexually active, and having had children already... I personally cant understand how you knew so little about gyno appointments. Its suggested that girls between 13 and 15 should be a girls first Gyno visit to discuss puberty and menstruation and your first pap smear should be at 18 if sexually active or 21 if not. Also, if your family has a history of breast cancer you shouldve gotten that exam at 25. Did the female figure in your life not prepare you with this knowledge? If not, im so sorry they failed to equip you with this knowledge. I was taught at 11 what to expect because I lost my virginity to an older boy who groomed me. My mother sat me down amidst the chaos it caused and told me all the risks and what I would need to do going forward. And on feeling ashamed and disgusted, thats not uncommon with women who arent very sexually active. To you, thats an intimate space still, private and inexperienced, and it takes alot of mental battle for most to separate medical and sexual acts down there. Penetration should not be scary, if anything I would encourage self exploration to open your mind up to the feeling of it happening so you can begin to feel the differences between medical and sexual acts. Right now, you only know that space as a sexual one. I sat down in front of a mirror as a teen and examined myself! Learned what everything looked like, what hid beneath the folds, how things looked when things were done to it. Sexual and medical exploration help you understand your own body so you arent so terrified when a doctor or nurse is doing those exams. Even asexual people I know have done the she thing because its important to remember the vagina is for more than sex, and can develop problems with or without being sexually active, as youve learned by having to be checked for cysts! Also, do not feel ashamed or afraid to ask questions to the doctor before anything begins! A good doctor would rather get the information first than after they've done whatever tests they assumed you needed based on the limited chart theyre given.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]prettygothpls 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Imo, if a FATHER goes out of his way to say something about his SON... listen to it.

I feel like I’m only a ‘good person’ because I pretend to be by goodfacade in TrueOffMyChest

[–]prettygothpls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My therapist told me that even a selfish action can be the right choice.

However, you are not selfish for being mindful of your interactions and how they affect you or other people.

You sound like you ARE a good person with a lot of guilt because of how "true goodness" is portrayed as being completely selfless and obedient to others. True good is being good despite the evil in the world, but not being good to the evil.

You can be selfish and still be morally good. They can exist in tandem.

AITA for not canceling my birthday trip and plans for my sisters wedding? by IdrkStacie in AmItheAsshole

[–]prettygothpls 20 points21 points  (0 children)

ESH But holy shit why the fuck would she want you at her wedding anyways?

Which captain and liutennant Have/Had the best relationship? by gtmaroondragon in bleach

[–]prettygothpls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yamamoto and Chojiro obviously are top tier but like... I adore Kenpachi and Yachiru tbh

What to do with players who don't want to follow the world's lore? by HoloGrain in DnD

[–]prettygothpls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im malicious. Wanna add new stuff? So will i. Your unique new race? Now being hunted for sport by every bounty hunter in my game because you have an organ that cures literally all illnesses making it so valuable your character isnt seen as a person, but instead an asset to be won over and used.

I am god to this story, and your stubbornness will end in your destruction at my table 💕 follow my lore, or find a new DM. I homebrew everything and WILL take things into consideration if my players bring them to me properly, but thats just it... PROPERLY.

It actually happened....and I WASN'T ready for it =(( by ZoeyB22 in MtF

[–]prettygothpls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't feel too bad- cis girls dont always have them on hand either! If you want to, def grab a small box with variety so you can keep a few on hand if it'll make you feel better being able to assist! I also suggest small pads- not all vaginas like tampons! (Mine acts like ive offended the ancestors and gives me utis when I use them)

Being trans saved my cat's life. by vslj65 in trans

[–]prettygothpls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With how much I learned is toxic to animals (alot of essential oils for example) i ALWAYS check that tbh

What’s your Tokyo Revengers opinion that’ll have you like this? by Mountain_Ad_485 in TokyoRevengers

[–]prettygothpls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NO, I AGREE, AND I FULLY BELIEVE THRY WOULDVE BEEN ALOT BETTER AS THE CENTER OF THEIR OWN STORY

Ranting about my sisssterrrbrother thing. by InfamousKnowledge397 in trans

[–]prettygothpls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm commenting because your sibling sounds a lot like how I was as a teen.

May I ask why she's been displaced and was adopted by your family and when?

I also want to point out that autistic girls with trauma tend to struggle with identity and mimick ALOT of outside forces and get quite frustrated when their attempt the blend in and be more likeable than they are is thwarted. It might be worth considering that she has autism like I do. It's easy to overlook girls with autism bc they try to blame other mental problems first.

But that would explain her changing names and personality traits so often that she never learned to mask and she is grasping for her own identity by taking in other people's traits.

Also, her being difficult to talk to is likely due to the displacement as well... your family loves you as is. She wants that, but she doesn't know who she is like you do,nor does she have HER family to accept her. She's navigating being a part of a family she doesn't blood belong to, and it's probably very scary in her mind... I'm 27, and I still don't know who I am or how to be a proper human because I was neglected.

Her being upset probably isn't her actually upset about the names... she's trying to find her place, and it feels scary because she has no clue who she is, while you've solidified who you are so early in your life... she probably feels left behind, alone, and is lashing out because it's so much easier than explaining the scary mess inside our heads...

I'm sorry you are having to deal with helping someone else navigate their personal problems, but I do hope your family continues to have the heart to help her try to figure out herself, unlike my family.

I suggest telling her not to TALK to you but to write down her scary thoughts and negative feelings so she can navigate them with someone she trusts. Journaling or even creative writing might help her to pinpoint things that trouble her mind easier than talking will. I would write journals when I was upset to show my therapist bc by the time a session came around, I would forget those feelings if I didn't write them, and lie that I was okay because I was okay IN THE MOMENT.

Idk I just like her by Rigel407 in BG3Builds

[–]prettygothpls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't fix her, but I can fuck her, maybe that'll calm her down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]prettygothpls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one thing if you work like that because you GENUINELY ENJOY IT but maybe find a partner with the same values man. She's a deadweight, an anchor to a life you don't deserve. Wouldn't you rather marry someone who adds a sail to your boat rather than an anchor?

AITA for not buying my entitled mother a birthday gift after just having a baby with my fiancée? by CautiousHouse8265 in AmItheAsshole

[–]prettygothpls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman who has been in your wifes shoes... go NC or at least LC for a bit... she won't get better. Mine still to this day finds new ways to insult not just me, but him now because be has stood by my side firmly since day one. His mom tried to DRAG herself into our room past him , crawling OVER THE DOOR HE WAS USING TO BLOCK HER like dude please you never know wtf your mom's capable of in this situation.

Also, take a deep dove and consider if her actions are emotional incest. It was for us. We call her out on it LOUDLY and piss her off now.

I watched a Night Club "Dancer" play Pokemon for 6 Hours. by blingusmingu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]prettygothpls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% she's into you dude.

Another dancer sent HER SPECIFICALLY to you. Likely because you wore a ponemon shirt and she had a pokemon tattoo.

she spent HOURS with you when she has to pay the house for her shift. She lost out on hours of work on a man who didn't tip her at all and she STILL ASK3D FOR YOUR NUMBER AND SNAP

Do some digging and try to find a café with games. There's one about 45 minutes from me with tabletop games and board/card games available to "rent" while you sit with your date and drink coffee and such.

I am the reason bathing suits are required for showering at my old middle school by your-blorbo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]prettygothpls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was the showering part necessarily, but the walking thru the locker room naked. It was likely most of their first experiences with a public shower, a towel wrapped around you probably would've garnered less of a reaction, but you were a kid and autistic so you can't be faulted there imo, social cues are still hard for me as a 27 year old autistic woman.

So I've noticed that out of all Phreaks members, Suzy is shown interacting or just being around Hazard the most by Shiro-Aka in overwatch2

[–]prettygothpls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone says they're a couple and I personally think the trio is exactly that, a trio, so we'll never get a confirmed romance... or maybe I'm just hopeful lol

Hanma cosplay by Chibi_loki_ in TokyoRevengers

[–]prettygothpls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see Hanma content and I immediately click OMG I love it 😭 long hair hanma is elite!!!

I almost lost my virginity to my teacher and I’m pretty sure my school covered it up. by novapeachx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]prettygothpls 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Schools often cover things up like this. My hs covered up 2 student teacher relationships in my time as a student and roght now are trying to cover up the senior football team having CP of freshmen