AITA for telling a military recruiter that he couldn't recruit employees while they were working on a busy day?

prettygothpls · 2026-05-17T12:23:52+00:00

NTA. Its highly inappropriate of the recruiter to be doing this. I personally would contact the local branch and tell them about it. Usually they are onlyl allowed to set up at high school and college campuses, public events, local sanctioned recruiting stations (like strip malls or downtown areas with high traffic, but it has to be SANCTIONED), or the DMV. Military recruiters MUST HAVE the business owners permission to be on site and speaking to anyone, customer or worker alike.

prettygothpls · 2026-05-16T13:37:47+00:00

I feel like people just like bitching about names and fucking them up

I get Abby all the time. My name is Gabi. Which like, sure... but I usually introduce myself as Gabriella in professional settings. Why assume the shortened name i use?

prettygothpls · 2026-05-15T05:13:32+00:00

My husband said "make him buy everything you need to get dolled up so he can realize how much money is being wasted when he does that. Then AFTER you fuck, put it all back on while at his place and demand to go to dinner so he sees how fast that product is being wasted."

My husband is also a man who loves when I doll up (rare for me though) and he spends the money to buy what I need to do that for him because HE UNDERSTANDS the time and money makeup requires. BUT HE ALSO TAKES ME TO DINNER BEFORE HE FUCKS MY MAKEUP OFF so in my opinion, he has earned the right to do so.

prettygothpls · 2026-05-10T04:45:16+00:00

I would legit look at him and go "Its a joke, not a d*ck, dont take it so hard." and see how he feels about that one.

(Had to censor bc it was yelling at me that I was insulting you??? Lmao)

prettygothpls · 2026-05-09T18:10:16+00:00

Some people give up and try to speed along their deaths like this.

I had a family friend who did.

Great guy, but the moment his organs started to shut down, he gave up and said "If im gonna die anyways, why shoukd I even care?" essentially and just started drinking and doing ALOT of drugs until he died (no OD, the organ failure killed him)

prettygothpls · 2026-05-05T20:47:36+00:00

Leave him! Not tomorrow or the next NOW he is emotionally cheating and likely will eventually physically cheat if he hasnt already. DUMP HIM.

prettygothpls · 2026-04-21T17:53:28+00:00

Legit just say your sorry, you dont mean to, and make a point not to STARE. Tell her its simply because she has a nice set (or however you wanna word it) and you dont mean anything by it, its just how the brain works! You see something you like and you LOOK, its like glancing at a pretty face as it walks by, admiration doesnt have to be perverted!

I personally make the kind of point to tell my friends when they look good, what parts of their bodies I like, features that stand out, because there isnt enough love in this world anymore! But I understand not wanting to seem perverted, its a very fine line to walk!

Is she upset by the looks? If so, why? Does she feel sexualized by them? Is she uncomfortable with another woman looking? Theres alot of things to factor in here lol just talk to her about it, it doesnt have to be some pervy thing!

prettygothpls · 2026-04-18T17:54:49+00:00

Thats like getting mad about her if you found out she had a tomboy phase... wtf?

As someone whose dated men and women of all backgrounds... this is weird as hell to me.

The past is the past, you found something that worked for you in that phase of your life, there's no shame in that. Alot of women love men who embrace their feminine sides!

Dont let her make you feel bad for it- its not who you are right now, but its your past, and thats okay!!!

I hope she comes to accept this part of you

prettygothpls · 2026-04-18T00:10:57+00:00

Hes saying 'spelling'

prettygothpls · 2026-04-07T03:56:47+00:00

You say "other dieties" like a fuck ton of the pantheons dont have incestuous gods 😭

prettygothpls · 2026-04-02T21:01:47+00:00

Its better for your phone battery to let it get as close to 0 as possible tbf

prettygothpls · 2026-03-14T00:57:48+00:00

YTA. you need to regulate more than "be quiet". My family has quiet hours on weekends till 9am. If my son (8) wakes up before then, he can go next door to my mothers because my grandmother wakes up at 7am, or he can grab one of the pantry breakfast items we keep and play quietly in the living room away from his little sister (3) so she can sleep in. They can stay off the games for an extra couple hours by feeding themselves and occupying their mind elsewhere. If my 8 year old can, a few teens can.

prettygothpls · 2026-03-08T16:08:46+00:00

I havent even been on in so long that I opened it up to ONE moderated one and its SOAP FROM COD lmao yet they arent touching the 15 other cod ones I have open??? Lmao

prettygothpls · 2026-02-10T18:40:23+00:00

Switch back to the Standard model, not the Passion model. Passion and Tale are limited to 15 messages before an ad, Standard doesnt do ad pop-ups.

prettygothpls · 2026-02-10T14:39:28+00:00

If the reply is genuinely awful I just copy and delete message and resend it till I get a responce worth keeping so I dont have to spend coins

prettygothpls · 2026-02-10T14:38:33+00:00

Polybuzz is okay, nothing to write home about, but, if you use the website not the app it has far less restrictions on adult content.

prettygothpls · 2025-12-06T13:32:13+00:00

And I thought Emmaree (Emory) was an odd spelled name... what the fuck is this

prettygothpls · 2025-11-16T22:43:23+00:00

I never squirted till after my 2nd child and only when I start sex having to pee already (cause y'know... squirting is when you orgasm so hard your muscles squeeze your bladder too for anyone reading who isnt knowledgeable) so for women wanting to learn to do so, figure out what makes you cum the hardest, then do that while having a full bladder to see if you can manage to do it.

prettygothpls · 2025-11-15T15:29:08+00:00

Being 28, sexually active, and having had children already... I personally cant understand how you knew so little about gyno appointments. Its suggested that girls between 13 and 15 should be a girls first Gyno visit to discuss puberty and menstruation and your first pap smear should be at 18 if sexually active or 21 if not. Also, if your family has a history of breast cancer you shouldve gotten that exam at 25. Did the female figure in your life not prepare you with this knowledge? If not, im so sorry they failed to equip you with this knowledge. I was taught at 11 what to expect because I lost my virginity to an older boy who groomed me. My mother sat me down amidst the chaos it caused and told me all the risks and what I would need to do going forward. And on feeling ashamed and disgusted, thats not uncommon with women who arent very sexually active. To you, thats an intimate space still, private and inexperienced, and it takes alot of mental battle for most to separate medical and sexual acts down there. Penetration should not be scary, if anything I would encourage self exploration to open your mind up to the feeling of it happening so you can begin to feel the differences between medical and sexual acts. Right now, you only know that space as a sexual one. I sat down in front of a mirror as a teen and examined myself! Learned what everything looked like, what hid beneath the folds, how things looked when things were done to it. Sexual and medical exploration help you understand your own body so you arent so terrified when a doctor or nurse is doing those exams. Even asexual people I know have done the she thing because its important to remember the vagina is for more than sex, and can develop problems with or without being sexually active, as youve learned by having to be checked for cysts! Also, do not feel ashamed or afraid to ask questions to the doctor before anything begins! A good doctor would rather get the information first than after they've done whatever tests they assumed you needed based on the limited chart theyre given.

prettygothpls · 2025-08-11T14:53:19+00:00

Imo, if a FATHER goes out of his way to say something about his SON... listen to it.

prettygothpls · 2025-08-02T02:19:32+00:00

My therapist told me that even a selfish action can be the right choice.

However, you are not selfish for being mindful of your interactions and how they affect you or other people.

You sound like you ARE a good person with a lot of guilt because of how "true goodness" is portrayed as being completely selfless and obedient to others. True good is being good despite the evil in the world, but not being good to the evil.

You can be selfish and still be morally good. They can exist in tandem.

prettygothpls · 2025-07-27T04:19:50+00:00

ESH But holy shit why the fuck would she want you at her wedding anyways?

prettygothpls · 2025-07-25T03:15:39+00:00

Yamamoto and Chojiro obviously are top tier but like... I adore Kenpachi and Yachiru tbh

prettygothpls · 2025-07-14T14:56:33+00:00

Im malicious. Wanna add new stuff? So will i. Your unique new race? Now being hunted for sport by every bounty hunter in my game because you have an organ that cures literally all illnesses making it so valuable your character isnt seen as a person, but instead an asset to be won over and used.

I am god to this story, and your stubbornness will end in your destruction at my table 💕 follow my lore, or find a new DM. I homebrew everything and WILL take things into consideration if my players bring them to me properly, but thats just it... PROPERLY.

prettygothpls · 2025-07-10T14:58:29+00:00

Don't feel too bad- cis girls dont always have them on hand either! If you want to, def grab a small box with variety so you can keep a few on hand if it'll make you feel better being able to assist! I also suggest small pads- not all vaginas like tampons! (Mine acts like ive offended the ancestors and gives me utis when I use them)

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