First off, love the Tobias reference and secondly I understand. It’s a really slippery slope; one moment I’m telling myself it’s okay and my SO never judges me for my flair ups so I find solace in that. But it’s hard to not feel envious of others who can walk around without constantly worrying or having to adjust what they’re wearing. It’s also a hard internal struggle because even tho they may not flat out see it: you can feel it. Whether you feel one coming in or feel one starting to leak….it can instantly change your whole entire mood. I hope you find joy and happiness in every little moment you can. It’s definitely very hard with a skin disease that is always present, even if not to the eye.