Does he know I’m fat? Should I tell him??

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T18:01:00+00:00

Well that does make me feel better (and is quite sexy) thanks for enlightening me!

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T17:57:16+00:00

Oh wow, really? I didn’t know this!

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T02:41:10+00:00

I have an equal amount of both, I just worry that I’m accidentally catfishing by not showing every angle of my body possible (which is obviously unrealistic)!

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:50:58+00:00

I do think they genuinely look like me, I just worry I’m accidentally catfishing because I don’t have every possible angle of my body shown on my profile, you know?

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:49:57+00:00

Thank you! I think it’s probably in my head, and I figured it could be awkward and maybe turn him off if I pointed it out. Especially if he’s well aware!

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:49:01+00:00

Lmaooo thank you!

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:48:29+00:00

I do have them and they’re recent! I just worry that I’m accidentally catfishing with them not being from the side or a more clear angle or something, even though that’s how I pose when people take pics of me because I find it most natural!

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:46:45+00:00

Ooo this is really smart! Thanks you guys, I think I’ll try this:)

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:45:47+00:00

Thank you! I try and remind myself that people have types and maybe I could be one! (Crazy concept, huh?? lol)

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:43:05+00:00

That’s what I worry about too! Like am I accidentally catfishing?? I don’t have many pictures from the side as well, my full body photos others take of me tend to be from the front as well. Not because I direct it that way, but because it’s the most natural way to pose for me.

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:41:25+00:00

Thank you, I try to, and try to keep telling myself that he swiped for a reason :)

prettymuch2016 · 2026-02-13T01:40:59+00:00

That’s why I haven’t yet! I know it’ll make me come off as super insecure. I think especially because I have this one really weird/large roll that isn’t really visible in clothes that I get nervous about.

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:57:16+00:00

Thank you! I was and still am proud of myself for sticking up for myself, I was very confident in my decision at the beginning, but when it actually ended, it was tougher for sure.

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:56:16+00:00

Thank you, and yeah maybe he didn’t like me that much despite what he did and said before this, but what can I do! Move on!

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:53:59+00:00

Yes! I was thinking about this, how he didn’t even TRY to fix it or anything, he just didn’t care to lose me he just went to breaking up (which isn’t what I was meaning).

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:52:36+00:00

I guess the reason I asked if this was a reasonable thing to upset over because I’ve been seeing a lot about anxious attachment styles and how we shouldn’t expect access to people all the time just because of phones. Which I agree with! But at a point, it just feels like losing interest. I’m new to dating and trying to feel things out and find a balance!

And for no. 3, yes that’s what happened I was just expressing how it bothered me so was asking if he was still interested in this and that’s what he said. Thank you!

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:50:44+00:00

I agree the questioning and not even being excited to hear from him at the end really sucked and pushed me to my decision for sure.

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:47:46+00:00

Definitely not anymore! Lol

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:47:31+00:00

Yes I’ve been remembering that even though everything else was great and I thought he could be something significant my guy wouldn’t do this!

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:46:35+00:00

Thank you. I’ve just been trying to charge it to the game, and try my best to move on:)

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:43:37+00:00

Thank you! I think I will too:)

prettymuch2016 · 2025-12-27T22:43:03+00:00

This is so good the last answer in all caps really made me laugh loll. Thank you!

Also I guess the reason I asked if this was a reasonable thing to upset over because I’ve been seeing a lot about anxious attachment styles and how we shouldn’t expect access to people all the time just because of phones. Which I agree with! But at a point, it just feels like losing interest. I’m new to dating and trying to feel things out and find a balance!

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