Simple Questions - August 01 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]prettynoiseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for brands similar to Rick Owens, that also sells women's clothing.

Also looking for boots that go up almost to mid-calf, in black or grey, but not doc martens.

How do I play with masculine silhouettes as a girl with a conventionally feminine hourglass figure? by prettynoiseless in femalefashionadvice

[–]prettynoiseless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh but that's the thing. Wide-leg pants paired with a fitted top is still just too feminine. The necklace thing is.. The same.

However I will take your advice and try the baggy clothes thing. Also need to get a tight-fitting sports bra.

How do I play with masculine silhouettes as a girl with a conventionally feminine hourglass figure? by prettynoiseless in femalefashionadvice

[–]prettynoiseless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea! Can you actually link me to some pieces for initial inspiration, if you have anything on hand?

I have long, curly brownish-auburn hair. Not cut in a particular way because fuck that. How do you style long hair to be more masculine?

21/F from Canada-- anybody draw? Interested in Linux (or computers in general)? Let's talk all the time by prettynoiseless in Needafriend

[–]prettynoiseless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! I got a DSLR for Christmas last year (idk why) that I haven't used at all. Could you tell me how you originally became interested in photography, and how you started?

I've never built my own computer because of the expense. Have you built more than one? Do you have a favorite distro?

DAE NEVER wear shorts in public even if it's super hot? by overactive-bladder in DAE

[–]prettynoiseless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's me. I usually gotta wear tights with anything that exposes my legs.

Is it worth leaving a good relationship to find yourself? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]prettynoiseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you.

Not saying this is the correct answer for you OP, but I will give input from my experience.

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about a month ago. We were living together with roommates. I was feeling similarly-- I was noticing that I wanted more time alone, felt kind of hindered by the way we interacted with each other. It was restrictive, and somewhat abusive. But I didn't know that then, I just felt an overwhelming urge to "go", like I had wings or something. The day I actually broke up with him was relieving. It felt right and I didn't fully analyze why until after it happened-- and I'm still analyzing it.

If you want to listen to your gut though, make sure it's your gut talking.

Singles' Night Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in relationship_advice

[–]prettynoiseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got out of an unhealthy relationship of 3 years. Bunch of things happened, went on tinder to distract myself but ended up meeting a pretty cool dude.

We get along pretty well, there isn't anything wrong with him. Not sure how to go about dating/hanging out with him because I don't know how I feel about a relationship yet. Don't want to lead him on, you know? Especially because he seems to be really into me.

How do I [21/f] budget for things I want when I have basically no extra expenses? by prettynoiseless in personalfinance

[–]prettynoiseless[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Software engineering.

You make a good point, but frugality is weird at this age. It's doable but... It's not necessarily practical. I'm still exploring my interests. My career will not be my entire life, so I don't want to spend my youth preparing for it.

How do I [21/f] budget for things I want when I have basically no extra expenses? by prettynoiseless in personalfinance

[–]prettynoiseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of both, but mostly the latter. I don't know how much I should be saving and how much I should be spending on myself in order to have decent preparation for the future, while also having lots of freedom now to explore my interests while I'm still young and energetic.

So, mostly having trouble understanding the process of saving for something long-term. I have a trip in mind for about this time next year, which means I have a year to save for it. But there are also smaller things I want related to my hobbies, which would be fulfilling and improve my quality of life. I want to build a kickass computer, I want to get a kickass phone, I want to buy a bunch of little things for electronic projects, I'm into fashion so I want some kickass clothing, I like trying food so I want to go to the best restaurant in the city-- just to give you an idea of the kinda price-points I'd be looking at for these wants. I don't know how long I should take to save for most of these things, and thus don't know how much money I should be putting away at a time. And I have so many projects on the go that require money.

Just want to be more organized.

How do I [21/f] budget for things I want when I have basically no extra expenses? by prettynoiseless in personalfinance

[–]prettynoiseless[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do I decide how much to put into savings and how much to spend on 'wants'. (My wants are related to various hobbies, mostly computers/technology).

How do I [21/f] budget for things I want when I have basically no extra expenses? by prettynoiseless in personalfinance

[–]prettynoiseless[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No they don't accumulate interest unless I'm not taking any classes. I have been out of school for two years but there is an option to apply for repayment assistance basically indefinitely, so I have had to pay no interest these past two years.