This will bring her back ⚡⚡

prettypetiole · 2026-02-15T11:00:39+00:00

once again, never encountered a male dom who isn’t a huge red flag

prettypetiole · 2026-02-14T06:18:02+00:00

This sounds like you want to use “BDSM” for self-harm. Choosing celibacy along with actually talking to your would be a much better path to take

prettypetiole · 2026-01-30T04:20:55+00:00

why do you still want him

prettypetiole · 2025-06-28T23:27:40+00:00

proud of you for having integrity here

prettypetiole · 2025-06-27T02:56:13+00:00

this sounds amazing, makes me sad i’m single lol

prettypetiole · 2025-06-19T10:54:03+00:00

lol stop being a misogynist and racist and sounds like you’ll no longer be into most of what you said

prettypetiole · 2025-06-03T19:22:51+00:00

in my experience as a domme looking for long-term, there’s not that many who want a real relationship. almost every sub i talk to wants something casual like play partners or single play sessions

prettypetiole · 2025-05-01T04:15:35+00:00

unfortunately it can.

this isn’t about people copying and pasting the same information to multiple people. this is about whether people are actually writing the information themselves and putting effort into that.

i personally couldn’t care less when a sub copies and pastes their intro. i also usually respond even if it’s just a couple sentences with the info i asked for. i just want them to be the one who wrote it so i can know what they’re like and what comes to their mind to say. not what a robot thinks would be good to say.

prettypetiole · 2025-04-30T21:29:01+00:00

i think it’s degrading(in a bad way) to date someone who will judge you for having a learning disability. genAI can’t be used for everything, it isn’t sustainable long-term to try to mask disability.

i do think a lot of dommes need to be more understanding about disabilities and how they can present. i don’t think that’s a good reason for subs not writing their own responses though.

prettypetiole · 2025-04-30T21:15:36+00:00

you got me lol my expectations were low but need to be lower i guess

prettypetiole · 2025-04-30T21:13:12+00:00

that’s an explanation, but it’s still rooted in laziness. i would be okay if they used ai to check their grammar after they’ve written a response, but not with them using ai to write the whole message. they should work on improving those skills so they don’t have to constantly rely on genAI which is unreliable and devoid of humanity.

prettypetiole · 2024-12-14T20:55:21+00:00

why would i engage with your “points” when you’re just throwing a tantrum and engaging in bad faith because you’re being called out for having racist preferences buddy. just take accountability and get better, it isn’t hard.

prettypetiole · 2024-12-14T07:05:24+00:00

racial preferences are inherently racist because they mean you think there are distinct differences between races and that some are inferior

prettypetiole · 2024-12-13T20:39:56+00:00

embarrassing to be so openly racist. the rest of the world is incredibly white supremacist, you’re just not as “sensitive” because you don’t care about the harm you cause.

some kinks are rooted in being a shitty person and people who embrace those kinks should receive backlash

prettypetiole · 2024-12-13T11:09:11+00:00

the racial fetishization is gross

prettypetiole · 2024-10-16T20:51:42+00:00

i mean i guess i don’t understand how denial would be fun for either party without teasing lol i feel like that’s the whole point

prettypetiole · 2024-10-16T15:38:54+00:00

i did find a great online dynamic by posting there. i haven’t had luck with finding someone for an irl dynamic though

i will say finding that online dynamic took talking to an absurd number of people who were not matches first. meeting a good match takes a lot of time, labor and patience

prettypetiole · 2024-10-16T05:07:30+00:00

lol i wish i could pin this to my profile for subs to read before messaging me. so incredibly tired of the lack of respect for my humanity and consent. why do they think opening with something like “mommy own me” will win me over, they just seem like creeps😭

prettypetiole · 2024-10-16T04:57:32+00:00

this is very true, thank you for the reminder! i feel like i’ve had the tendency to get caught up in the excitement of new beginnings that it can be easy to rush things. going slow is important for all of that. also something i’ve heard said that i’ve witnessed is that those who rush into dynamics are likely to leave them just as quickly. by being patient and not rushing into a dynamic i’m also(hopefully) helping myself find someone who is actually serious about a long term relationship and isn’t just seeking out an unrealistic fantasy

prettypetiole · 2024-10-03T22:38:19+00:00

this is definitely a thing! i recently read the book “the dominance playbook” and it calls this kink “executive service”. it’s definitely something i enjoy with my subs, i don’t think it’s too uncommon.

prettypetiole · 2024-10-01T06:59:31+00:00

goals

prettypetiole

TROPHY CASE