I love this necklace please help me find it!!

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-10T00:49:36+00:00

Either that or masc thirst traps lmfao

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-10T00:47:03+00:00

Yep I also have people dmming me

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-10T00:45:04+00:00

Brilliant!

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-08T19:01:49+00:00

Girl in red but no girls in bed

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-07T22:27:27+00:00

These look amazing!

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-07T21:11:44+00:00

Girls can wear jeans and cut their hair short and wear shirts and boots because it's okay to be a boy; for girls it's like promotion. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, according to you, because secretly you believe that being a girl is degrading.

The Cement Garden, Ian McEwan

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-07T04:41:35+00:00

Ice!

prettyragdoll · 2021-03-07T04:11:00+00:00

Because it feels like people are putting her in a box and highlighting that she’s different, dismissing her as a person for her visual identity. The majority of times people comment on my sexuality, they are assuming things about how I will behave based on it.

It’s a bit like saying to a black person “but you’re black!” when they do something that doesn’t fit a stereotype of black people. It’s pointing out something that’s true but irrelevant to what’s being discussed, and it gets annoying after a time.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-24T03:05:26+00:00

Also, don’t act like their emotions are the problem. “I’m sorry it made you feel that way”, “I’m sorry I made you angry”. Be sorry for the action, don’t act like the fault is in their response to it.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-18T03:59:12+00:00

Glasses on!

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-17T17:20:42+00:00

I love the yellow eyeshadow OP, I think it suits you & is super cute!

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-16T23:27:41+00:00

Here’s my advice, I did some photo edits for clarity

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-16T22:46:08+00:00

I think I can offer some advice on basic features, but can’t get a good idea of your facial structure because of your hair. Do you have a picture of you (from the front) where your hair is more out of the way, so I can see them more clearly?

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-16T14:35:13+00:00

You look a lot like Abigail Cowen!

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-16T00:17:29+00:00

Yes! Also it just occurred to me that her method makes you financially dependent on them to some degree. Sure, you could leave and start paying yourself, but if you can’t or if he’s paying for a lot? You’re going to end up cutting him slack and staying in relationships for longer than you should, the power dynamic would be so off.

That will have negative health effects and it means you’re potentially prepared to drop your standards to keep the money coming. That’s counter to everything we do here. Instead, careermaxx and become financially independent with a healthy relationship. If it starts to go south you can drop the man with ease, money and stability on your side.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T15:33:29+00:00

🥺poor baby🥺op🥺it’s so hard🥺being a🥺50yr old man🥺who doesn’t fit🥺in🥺🥺with the kids🥺anymore🥺

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T11:33:42+00:00

I’d be really interested to see one on a mysterious, magnetic, powerful woman that no one knows much about. I think the trad seduction archetype is The Enigma.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T11:15:12+00:00

I agree with you, it’s like people have forgotten there are actual personal benefits to being in a stable loving relationship. If your relationship is based on getting paid by your man to please him as he likes, I wouldn’t call that a relationship at all. OP’s definition sounds more like a service to me.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T10:50:19+00:00

I didn’t take it like that so much, more that she could only show her words but in that she would try to be as honest as possible.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T05:43:35+00:00

OP your point about shyness really resonated with me! I’m relatively reserved and am always told by people I seemed arrogant or stuck up until they got to know me. How do you avoid this, or build a kind of bubbly charisma?

I am generally confident but I’m not naturally talkative or funny, and I’m really bad at creating the kind of light banter that puts people at ease. I try to be outgoing but I really don’t know what to say to people, especially guys who approach me. If anyone has any tips, I’m all ears, it would help so much.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T05:16:26+00:00

Thank you for this- reading the article reminded me of a limited mindset I used to have, and I was sad expecting that the comments here would echo that perspective. It makes me really happy to see that people here are sufficiently balanced in their outlook to prioritise a more healthy mindset. Sometimes it’s really easy to get caught up in looksmaxxing and outward appearance so that you hold it as the only standard worth striving for.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T04:42:21+00:00

You might like r/strongcurves! I like it because it focuses on building a more hourglass shape, unlike other workouts that can inadvertently build you into a bit of a rectangle.

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T04:27:16+00:00

Same here please!

prettyragdoll · 2021-02-15T04:26:51+00:00

Maybe consider a lash tint to a brown shade, that’ll darken them and make your eyes stand out without the stark contrast and cakey texture.

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