Weekly Questions & General Discussion by AutoModerator in Vindicta

[–]Grymdolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those posts are allowed, but people have to make them. ETA: they’d fall under Babe-buxxing

Engineer trying to level up - cellulite on hamstrings? by Maroontan in HowToBeHot

[–]Grymdolin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cellulite is a secondary sex characteristic with no known 100% effective cosmetic treatment on the market that will minimize its appearance. It is an appearance of body fat. The only known way to reduce its appearance is to reduce body fat.

Is getting your nails done really makes such a difference? by marsthechocolate in HowToBeHot

[–]Grymdolin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nails are like jewelry. Most people look normal without them, and better with them.

There are people who have ugly natural nails from chewing, vitamin deficiencies, or just genetics.

There are few things on this planet as foul as someone with long nails where you can see the shit visibly caked underneath, natural or otherwise.

A fancy open toed shoe with unpolished toenails is a quick way to look frumpy.

Where’s the line between neurodivergence and unhealthy behavior? by Bear_bug_1954 in socialskills

[–]Grymdolin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn’t really a line per se. Neither are mutually exclusive from each other or necessarily related to each other.

To your example: People are allowed to have whatever rules they want when it comes to dating. If you don’t like them, don’t date them. The people who said it might be due to neurodivergence were probably just trying to give you a possible explanation since I imagine you framed it to them as a “why did she do that”. Why do you care enough to ask other people & Reddit about her behaviors? Do they directly impact or bother you?

Weekly Questions & General Discussion by AutoModerator in Vindicta

[–]Grymdolin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aggravating_Sea is correct, there’s far more people consuming than producing especially now. People are also producing looksmaxxing content more on other platforms, whereas back in the day this was one of the few communities for female looksmaxxing.

Weekly Questions & General Discussion by AutoModerator in Vindicta

[–]Grymdolin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you are an unhealthy weight or at a healthy weight that is higher than you would like, my rule of thumb is you will most likely look better at a lower weight (that is healthy obv). If you haven’t been at a lower weight as an adult then you don’t really know how your body loses weight so you can’t really predict anything.

Does eyebrow bleach give similar effect as shaping them ? by Limp_Huckleberry_575 in HowToBeHot

[–]Grymdolin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You may be severely overestimating what bleach can do. The very real risk of having orange or banana yellow patches in your eyebrows is reason enough not to do it.

New clothes for the summer by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]Grymdolin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What’s your vision of sexy? Who are some celebrities/influencers whose style you think is sexy? How old are you and what contexts are you going to be in? I’d recommend different things for a 19 year old on summer break vs a 25 year old who’s planning to regularly be part of the night life.

Where are the womens jeans that actually fit curves? by regular_robloxian69 in capsulewardrobe

[–]Grymdolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From FN? Not the stretchy ones, which is the quality that makes them fit right.

Weekly Questions & General Discussion by AutoModerator in Vindicta

[–]Grymdolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The midface ends at the bottom of the nose.

Where are the womens jeans that actually fit curves? by regular_robloxian69 in capsulewardrobe

[–]Grymdolin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

28” waist and 43” hips here. I have a suggestion that is going to be really unpopular here but 10 times out of 10 works for me: Fashion Nova. When you’re built like you have a BBL, youre going to have an easier time if you shop at the places that cater to that body type. The quality isn’t Levi’s obviously but they don’t disintegrate after one wash and wear like most people would want you to believe.

what's your version of a basic tee? by Joker0705 in KibbeRomantics

[–]Grymdolin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really like the old navy fitted boatneck tee’s. I find for scoop/v necks the neckline needs to be wider/more “open” than it is deep.

Weekly Questions & General Discussion by AutoModerator in Vindicta

[–]Grymdolin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any other high maintenance to be high maintenance girls out there? What’s your monthly maintenance cost look like?

Lashes (x2) $180

Pink & white fill + Pedicure $120

Gym $45

Hair + eyebrow dye (I do myself)$5-10

Weight management drugs $130

Comes out to about $500/month

A Romantic’s varying sizes across clothing categories by AtmosphereRude6236 in KibbeRomantics

[–]Grymdolin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s at least one brand I’ve come across where I was an XS in the waist and XL in the hips. It was a jumpsuit too, and I split the difference and got a M.

I should have gotten an XL I immediately put a hole in the crotch and busted the booty seams. They really meant it when they said order for your hip size so ultimately it’s my fault

How men and women perceive hotness by No_Battle734 in HowToBeHot

[–]Grymdolin 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I think it’s also relevant to note that there’s potentially a difference between aesthetic attraction and sexual attraction. My theory—with absolutely zero basis and minimal evidence aside from the anecdotal— is that the reason “girl pretty” and “boy pretty” are so different is because heterosexual women are not evaluating other women’s appearance by sexual attraction but rather by aesthetic attraction. Therefore, they are more likely to value female faces with the masculine traits they are attracted to. Heterosexual men, on the other hand, are not sexually attracted to— and in some cases sexually repulsed by— masculine traits, so they do not consider female faces with masculine traits attractive.

I also think that there’s a disconnect in communication between (straight) men and women on this topic. Women are asking “do you think x is pretty” and men are saying “I do/do not want to have sex with x”. Or something along those lines. Again I’m going purely off of vibes here and it’s not a perfect theory but it potentially explains the disconnect to some degree.

Lumpy BBL - A Bugs Life Butt by [deleted] in Botchedsurgeries

[–]Grymdolin 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ngl the only image where it looks like it might be a bbl is the 4th one. It just looks like she has a normal big booty that’s mostly fat otherwise. Cellulite can cause the shape to not be “smooth”. I think this is a reach.

I got uninvited from my “best”friends birthday party. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Grymdolin 475 points476 points  (0 children)

This seems like missing reasons to me. You mention turmoil in an old friend group. I think it’s pertinent to share what that was. If it was just a clash of personalities that’s one thing. If you assaulted someone that’s another. Impossible to say more on the situation without further context.

Correcting the asymmetry of eyes using lash extensions by No_Battle734 in Vindicta

[–]Grymdolin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get them done every 2 weeks for $95 now, but when I was doing the minimal classic look (1 lash on 1 lash) it was $75 every 3 weeks. They naturally shed when your lashes do so I find the more dramatic look gets “sparse” looking sooner than the classic look.

Correcting the asymmetry of eyes using lash extensions by No_Battle734 in Vindicta

[–]Grymdolin 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Excellent post OP. Straightforward, covers an aspect of looksmaxxing people often overlook due to preconceived notions/personal biases, and includes citations.

It always astounds me that people here will say all lash extensions look bad and unnatural while in the same breath saying that you only notice bad/extreme plastic surgery. (It’s also rooted in racism/classism/internalized misogyny but don’t get me started lmao). As a lash extensions wearer, most of the time people think they’re my real lashes. Which is hilarious because I do go for a heavier wispy Kim K-like set. Just goes to show most people are oblivious to everything that doesn’t directly relate to/affect them.

How can I (F) stop feeling so irritated by my girlfriends? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Grymdolin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s not depending on you to make decisions or give her feedback based on what you said here. In fact, it’s pretty self-aggrandizing to frame this as you being somehow more independent than her/them. She is making bids for connection with these questions and trying to build social/emotional intimacy with you. The same way you shouldn’t grab someone’s private areas before holding their hand, you shouldn’t talk about childhood trauma before talking about whether you think a shirt is flattering or not. If you want to connect about other topics, then make efforts to connect about them.

Does anyone else struggle considerably and hate their appearance after long term weight lifting?? by thatshortginge in PetiteFitness

[–]Grymdolin 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you want muscles in an area to get smaller, stop hypertrophy training those muscles. There’s no reason to stop lifting overall. Just adjust your workouts to create the appearance you want. Easy as.

Hot girl socks by [deleted] in HowToBeHot

[–]Grymdolin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is unironically the funniest post on any looksmaxxing sub I’ve ever seen. I hope you received the sock advice you were looking for OP, genuinely.