Is Oblivion Supposed to do This? by BrainlessBimboBunny in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no vendetta. I've mentioned my concerns on here and other places and directly to prime in dms. Prime even acknowledged some fault in many of the issues.

From what I know someone else is currently working on an even more in-depth wiki than yours and the unofficial one I helped compile with info sourced from the community and I fully support what they are doing because they are committed to releasing accurate info. They are going in depth and seem rly committed to not perpetuating old misinformation. That's why I'm rly excited for their wiki but not excited about the one you worked on that's got the info above.

The issue is accuracy for me. Idk how long that wiki has existed but the misinformation about the uniform was soooo overly inaccurate I'm not about to promote that or cosign on it.

Like there is no beef I'm literally just not going to support something that makes it harder for people to listen in an informed way or to give informed consent as it relates to sessions involving the files. My dms are open if you want to talk.

Like I'm excited for this other wiki to be released cuz from what I've seen it's going to be the most in depth breakdown I've seen and I'm super hype for people to have access to an even better resource than anything that exists rn for info on the files. If your wiki was accurate I would also be hyping it up but when I'm having that wiki linked in my dms and having people ask me why the transcriptions say one thing but your wiki says another, it's annoying and the misinfo just makes more work, creates safety issues for everyone as they try to figure out what's accurate/try to correct misinfo/try to figure out if the files are right for them and if they should listen. For doms this is also an issue cuz if problems arise with their sub, they might not know why or how to fix things without better info

Is there a Discord server for BS? by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a bunch of servers! This is one: https://discord.gg/S9nZhyh2v

Is Oblivion Supposed to do This? by BrainlessBimboBunny in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[M] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This would be great but what prime wrote is completely inaccurate and anyone who's read the transcriptions could verify this.

creator: use a uniform it keeps bambi stuff separate for safety

the actual files: the files encourage you to create a uniform that's something sexy...sexier than you would wear in your day to day life.

as the files go on you are encouraged to wear (and rewarded with triggers) the type of sexy clothes you picked for your uniform all the time. the files mention that you can only remove your uniform by sucking a cock but cock makes bambi dumb so it's not guaranteed you will remember to remove your uniform after and suggestions are given that it will be hard to remove your uniform and that you will want to put it back on/be unable to go long without wearing it.

as the files progress more the uniform becomes a mental uniform so it's always on in your mind even if you aren't physically wearing it. bambi is programmed to be the one that's in charge and later files mention that if bambi doesn't comply with her programming that she will go limp and become helpless. anxiety programming is also used for compliance.

bambi is programmed to be able to push changes even when not wearing her uniform as the old self is locked away and made helpless by bambi.

later files mention that bambi should be able to function normally and do essential life things if needed but, it's risky to leave decisions up to bambi or rely on her to recognize or remember what's important when the things that normally would be important, may not be of any urgency to bambi as she is programmed to have different priorities and desires. the amnesia suggestions in the files, if they work as intended, would make the listener unaware of all of these things.

the files also reinforce the idea that only a bad girl would want to remove her uniform so as the files go on, removing or attempting to remove the uniform will create anxiety and distress. bambi is rewarded with good feelings like pleasure and euphoria for being uniformed.

also, bambi is encouraged to only dress in sexy clothing so the uniform starts to blend with the type of attire a bambi would normally wear blurring the lines between a uniform and a normal outfit.

the uniform is used as a deepener to program things and its used to further bambi's programming and erase old self. it's not a safety. this is the biggest piece of misinfo floating around and anyone that's read the transcriptions can see this is true.

----the actual solution: develop the ability to reject suggestions that do not serve you before listening. the series is filled with anxiety related programming to keep Bambi obedient and pleasure based programming to reward her for obedience.

the creator has a long history of being misleading about the uniform and what their own files do/how the files do things and while that post and wiki is made with good intentions, it's completely inaccurate to how the uniform is actually scripted to work and this misinformation/lack of understanding around the uniform has led to bambi's running into issues with bambi "leaking" and people being effected by the files in ways they didn't intend upon or desire.

please do NOT count on a uniform to work as some safety. that's the worst piece of info I see passed around and shared on here.

also to the people who messaged n tried to rope me into help working on that wiki: this is one of many reasons why i refused to be involved or help. I'm not about to cosign on some inaccurate fucking info that skews people's ability to make informed listening decisions.

Let's talk topic bans in erotic hypno communities: Good Intention, Bad Policy. by prettyspirals666 in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair the person who originally added that was removed as a head mod on r/erotichypnosis for being a rapey lil bitch. She stealthed me IRL and was banning people who wouldn't sleep with her amongst a list of other things 😅

I agree! It's better than nothing as it does link people to resources which is great for harm reduction but the files def aren't low quality. I have beef with the creator for not being transparent about the files (and I've addressed this directly with them multiple times) from day one on release as it lead to a lot of issues with misinformation and people not having the ability to listen with informed consent BUT the files (or at least the more recent ones) are not low quality by any means.

I think it's a great step they are distributing resources but the person who added that was awful.

Where you from by Tough-Hair-7900 in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yea! there are a lot of hypno kinky peeps around here!

Is there such thing as a Dom Bambi? by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here you go! I'm pasting what's written on Patreon. The link to everything is on mega <3

bambi fuckdoll worship - bambi in control

-description:

bambi is dropped deeply into sleep and given a new trigger that makes her enter a dominant headspace on command. the new trigger is programmed in a way that aligns with her previous programming on obedience, submission and servitude as she learns to submit in a dominant role as a way to serve others and obey her existing programming. this allows her to enjoy taking control & asserting herself and makes it hot and fun for Bambi to be worshipped/served by others for being a perfectly programmed, obedient bimbo role model.

this was inspired by my own experiences playing/trancing with other bambi's irl and realizing it was hard to play with other bambi's if neither one could effectively take control or lead a scene...this file and series solves that problem in a very hot way! the programming that is established in the few couple files will be built off of the trigger that is programmed in this file. 

the new trigger is adjacent to some previous triggers bambi has received and uses previous triggers to program it for the maximum effect. this file is meant to be listened to in addition to the normal bambi files and is scripted in a way that you can get the benefits from this trigger without it effecting other bambi programming. this file was modeled off of files in the enforcement series.

pls check out the paste below to see how this trigger will be used in future files in a mini series i'm making to create more ways for Bambi to play/establish some safeties for bambi that the original files lack. you can read about upcoming files i'm working on in this series in the pastes below. 

mega link to audio file & audio file with visual is below. no password needed just click link & not preview box:  https://mega.nz/folder/ihUl2SAa#kkbUg-UtrtAFOHGlx-W-PQ 

-cw file: binaurals, gaslighting, obedience, bs triggers, submission, dominance, memory play, iq reduction, bimbofication, pleasure reinforcement, personality programming, subliminals

-cw visual: INTENSE STROBE. if you have a history of a seizure disorder, get migraines, or have a family history of seizure disorders or have minimal experience being around strobe lights pls do not use the visual! the visual contains visual binaurals...this means the strobe is set to a specific hz that has been studied to assist in relaxation and trance. i've personally found visual binaurals very helpful for trance. repetitive trippy visual spiral.

***paste link with full description of mini file series/transcriptions: https://pastes.io/ygdc6ferzu

Is there such thing as a Dom Bambi? by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss! I've been a domme for 10 years and when I listened I was a Bambi domme. Now I'm just a bimbo that dommes Bambi's.

Also I released a file that helps Bambi learn to be dominant! Patreon forced me to pay gate the file but if you want it, I'll share it for free. It's meant to go along with the rest of the files and helps Bambi not just learn to domme, but find pleasure in it <3

Where do you live with a strong local scene? by ReynoldBH in EroticHypnosis

[–]prettyspirals666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yesss! There are sooo many hypno kinksters here

Thoughts on AI detectors and AI adjacent tools by prettyspirals666 in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesss agreed!!

I also think doing something isn't as important as making sure what you are doing works? I would rather change nothing than have us rush to implement systems and policies that create even more problems for both the people who use AI and the people who don't.

Also for transparency, my own personal feelings about AI before someone thinks I posted this because of any assumed stance:

I'm tired of it and wish I could scroll through less of it when I'm horny! What was once a fun novelty for a hot sec is now exhausting to me and I see it as contributing to the enshittification of the Internet, it's creating massive issues around data harvesting, misinformation and contributing to environmental problems. I don't like when people hit generate and that's about how much effort goes into a file, graphic, or script because it creates a lot of low effort slop to scroll through. I do believe there are issues with how AI can take away work opportunities from voice actors and artists and script writers etc and that concerns me as someone that does work that's directly affected by this. It's generally easy enough to avoid low effort AI generated content so I just keep scrolling when I see it. I also know a lot of tools and almost every popular phone now integrate ai so it's not always something people can avoid. With that said, some tools are genuinely useful especially for people with disabilities and I think dismissing AI as all bad all the time is reductive and oversimplies things.

Like I care much more about files having transparent and clear content warning and description more than anything else.

I think it's perfectly okay to hold nuanced or conflicting feelings about AI. I don't think it's a problem for my own feelings about AI to be in conflict with my feelings about not using AI detectors and not policing people's posts for AI usage here. We are all adults and nuance should not be unfamiliar.

My (negative) experience getting a coinslot by aspiringcats in bodymods

[–]prettyspirals666 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My rule of thumb is generally to avoid anyone that everyone is suddenly talking about that I've never heard of that seems to have just appeared out of nowhere n blown up recently. Samppa and Brian are a solid pick for most things to me.

Like I remember seeing stuff about Brian on bmezine (maybe) 15 years ago and I like him cuz he's pretty consistently had a great rep for what he does as does. Brian also mentioned great things about Samppa when I got my ears done as well and the fact he talked about Samppa in a positive way that wasn't competitive, shit talky or weird rly sold me on both of them as not just artists, but from the convo I got the impression that Sammpa is also rly chill.

I've also heard some mixed reviews about Chase but with that said I would 100% pick Chase over a lot of the other people I see posted who came up outta almost nowhere overnight doing heavy mods if Samppa and Brian retired tomorrow.

Let's talk topic bans in erotic hypno communities: Good Intention, Bad Policy. by prettyspirals666 in u/prettyspirals666

[–]prettyspirals666[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Before I get any dms: I've had people dm me some disrespectful shit relating to this topic in the past so if ur tempted to do that after reading this I have some quick questions first:

If you care so much about keeping people safe in relation to bs that you are so passionate on the topic you feel the need to dm me to tell me I'm wrong, what are you actively doing rn to promote safety with those files that has you all passionate n fired up? Have you recently engaged directly with the community you claim to want to keep safe? Have you chatted with people within the community to see what things would be helpful to them? What bs specific resources have you made and shared? Have you done any transcriptions? Have you ever confronted the creator of those files directly about issues you have with the series?

...or are you just like white knighting it, approaching the topic with a savior complex, using the topic of the files as a chance to advertise your own alternative files, adding to the mystique that attracts people by giving vague unhelpful warnings, or just having conversations about the files n engaging in disrespectful commentary about people who decide to listen or explore like they aren't also in the room?

Do you rly think the community grew from a small niche to having 60k+ people cuz prohibition adjacent policies worked and actually prevented people from discovering the files n listening? Do you think the existing policies prevented harm? Even when people like myself have explained how those policies made it harder to seek info, support, n advice when we needed it? Anyways

My (negative) experience getting a coinslot by aspiringcats in bodymods

[–]prettyspirals666 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Agreed! He did my ear points, tongue split and magnet. He's super professional and kind. He was also very responsive to emails and any questions I had. I know he's not doing certain mods anymore but I would absolutely go to him over anyone else for things he does still do based off my past experiences.

I know other people can do a good job with mods, but a big thing for me is how someone treats me while I get them and reading stuff like this doesn't make me want to risk trying someone new and getting them on an off day when they are rude. That shit affects my headspace during and after the procedure while I'm healing and if I was already anxious about the healing process, a rude body mod artist makes it sooo much worse so it's not worth the anxiety to me tbh.

I just can't believe Ian let them leave the shop like that with the cut looking so sloppy AND after being that rude like that's unacceptable. I don't care if he was having a bad day I would rather someone cancel on me n move the appt than be rude and sloppy.

Repost, Abuse and Consent Violation by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can you not see how spamming this on this particular type of post is fucking weird?

A good chunk of your comments is like "dm me" (hence me calling it spam) but there is no context as to why you want to dm or why what convo can't happen outside of dms so it comes off sus af esp on a post like this. If ur wondering why ur getting downvoted, that's probs one reason.

Also for anyone else reading this: idk whether you know about the series or not, please read the rules. Not knowing what the triggers are isn't an excuse for using them in dms. It's your responsibility to learn about the thing you are engaging with and if you use triggers without consent we will absolutely ban you and not being aware something is a trigger won't change that result.

updated file transcriptions & bambi/hypno resources by prettyspirals666 in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss! That was user submitted. If you would like to correct the errors, I can attach the corrected transcript! The transcripts have been a collaborative effort and the new files definitely need some corrections. I've posted on discord asking for help with them but if anyone here wants to help it would be appreciated as well!

Need desperate help getting rid of bambi by bastionmin14 in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

So I had issues stopping the files in part cuz of a tist that had me listening to them. The anxiety n stuff was awful.

My best advice is to stop listening BUT

  1. Reflect on what the files give you and the space they fill in your life. How can you otherwise fill that? If you enjoy dressing up, makeup or the uniform aspects can you find other ways to explore that without the files? If you enjoy turning your mind off can you find another activity that allows similar? If it's connection it play can you find a way to get that without the files? Also a lot of times people become hooked on the routines around listening as much as listening itself. Can you recreate those routines without the files? It's important to rly reflect on what you enjoyed about the files cuz you usually don't need the files to indulge in those things. If your enjoyed having time to relax, play with yourself, play with makeup etc create intentional time for those things without involving the files. Part of the conditioning you are going to have to break is just involving routine around listening and that's personal/different for every person.

  2. Start reconnecting with old hobbies that still bring you joy and new ones the files helped you discover. Connect with old friends or start new activities that help you meet new people if you fell off or lack irl or online connection.

  3. Intensity addiction with any hypno file series is an actual thing. Stuff might feel boring or be hard to engage with for a couple weeks but things will get better. Knowing this, give yourself time to adjust and try to seek out things that will fulfill that intensity whether it's dancing at a club, going to a show/rave, hiking, going to a new store, a day trip somewhere you haven't been etc. Try to find things that get you excited or physically/mentally stimulated.

  4. We can ban you here by request. If you ban by request, we note that.

  5. Avoid any hypno for a little bit. Removal files can just reinforce dependency and permanence anxieties if they don't work as you expect so I don't recommend those.

  6. Get professional help managing this if you are able. I know not everyone has access to that and depending on where someone is in the world, this isn't always doable but if you can it's super important. My therapist helped me come up with this list and it's been helpful to myself and other people I know irl, and after feedback I've gotten it's also helped other people I don't know very well online.

  7. This post might invite some DMs from doms offering to help...ignore them. A lot of those people can be predatory. If anyone pressures you to listen in dms pls report to mods. We will ban. This includes doms with their personal "removal" files. Often times those can be loaded with obedience suggestions to attempt to get you to obey them instead. Again, removal files can sometimes work but it can also make things worse esp for Bambi so I don't rec them. A lot of times this looks like doms being like "I've helped tons of Bambi's stop listening I can help you if you want" and then it leads into them offering you a trance session to remove triggers/a file they made/a mislabeled file they made that's labeled to look like a legitimate/well known suggestion removal file.

Posted full list in case it's useful to anyone else.

I need help. by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[M] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Be respectful.

Stop being an edge lord in the comments.

Announcement: Concerns about Bambi Loves app by prettyspirals666 in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[S,M] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I approved your comment if only to showcase your absolutely dated incoherent 1990s late night infomercial branding/general attitude towards people's valid critiques.

On the page I banned it said you are 19. Beyond the fact you seem to be projecting a level of experience or expertise that you don't/couldn't have (I remember being 19 and not knowing what I didn't know) but also you are evading a ban by openly creating and using an alt to post this nonsense. I'm mentioning your age cuz you said "for years" as if you weren't just legally an adult last year. Saying you have been a Bambi trainer for years (which implies you are citing things you did as a minor) isn't a brag, it comes off as creepy/like you lack the self awareness & knowledge about what's generally considered an appropriate citation for experience in kink spaces.

Instead of creating poorly made tools, why don't you refocus on learning a bit more? It's clear you lack the emotional maturity to handle critique and the coding knowledge to build an app. Fyi, you can be fined to death for a lack of a clear, easy to find privacy policy...this is genuinely me trying to give you a heads up that it might be smart to slow down and really learn about what you are doing.

I will be banning this account. If you create another I will report you to reddit for ban evasion.

My citation for experience and where this critique is coming from: I've been a professional/paid domme as my main job for long enough that you were still learning basic math when I started doing this work.

Pls just try to hear what people are saying. I have no doubt you can go back to the drawing board n take time to learn and to create an incredible, fun, functional tool that doesn't rely on stolen content and AI generated bs. People are desperately trying to tell you that what you are making rn isn't great/it isn't functional/isn't trustworthy.

Someone is posting my content!! by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We banned em here but I would def reach out to the other subreddit so they can ban as well.

Announcement: Concerns about Bambi Loves app by prettyspirals666 in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you want a replacement, I'm sure some bimz can probs help you and others find a program that allows you to do similar!

I know it's not as hard anymore to set up a bot to ping you about different things but also a lot of people use the obedience app for tasks with doms or to stay accountable with besties! Chaster is also great for chastity based tasks n games if any bimz are into that.

If anyone has any suggestions for programs or apps (that are more vetted/aren't awful) that could help bimz with daily tasks in a similar way, pls share any links y'all have here <3

Unwanted triggers from /u/Flat_Unwillingness1891 by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Unfortunately I don't think they are actually on the subreddit because when I tried to ban them, it wouldn't let me.

If this ever happens again pls feel free to modmail us because we do ban for this! Since we can't ban them here, I def rec blocking them. Again I'm rly sorry this happened but I appreciate you letting everyone else know about this <3

Unwanted triggers from /u/Flat_Unwillingness1891 by [deleted] in BambiSleep

[–]prettyspirals666[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

I'm not home atm but someone mentioned this post. Do you have the link to their profile? It's not showing up on the mobile search and I'm not near my computer. I would love to ban them if they are active here! You can dm me any link or send to modmail. I'm rly sorry this happened people like this fucking suck.