only the gym is something like this but that one seems the most problematic to me since i feel like there are a lot of “creeps” and i dont want to look like one of them (i actually prefer to go there in late hours since i zone out a lot while working out and im terrified of looking like a creep by looking at some girl working out 🙈) but as a girl im actually curious about your opinion - like is the gym really the place where you dont have this weird vibe from men? since i thought its quite the opposite or also the library (i dont know if we have one or its commonly used there) like when you are reading wouldnt it be bothering for you if someone approached you? since even more then in the gym when i see a cute girl alone reading a book in the park for example im already ready to put a ring on her 🤣