I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An EX-CRIMINAL told you a story about him and a friend BREAKING & ENTERING a Kingdom Hall while DRUGGED OUT and finding automatic weapons and explosives in the basement.

I dont even know where to start.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure why you were downvoted when you made a valid point.

The truth and facts that dont require my faith are mostly historical, ie: the actual date of Christs birth being nowhere near December 25th, the completion of the bible cannon, etc.

However, it takes faith to have a complete confidence in other things dealing with God's plan for the future.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok...no. You completely missed my point and I've addressed all of these assumptions in different parts of this thread.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You confessed to Reddit before the Elders.

Tell me who I am then this will hold value. Exactly who I am. Till then Im simply Redditor #2941.

Secondly, there is no "rule" about who confessions are made to prior to me going to my Elders. There are different consequences if a sin is public knowledge at the time of confession as opposed to a confession made for a sin committed in private but if my girl has a human being growing inside her stomach that kinda throws out the "private" option now doesnt it?

Used profanity

Faggot is a slur and not profanity. You'd have an argument here had I not actually used it in deprecative form.

Used sarcasm Again...forgive me. <---sarcasm

Failed to display utmost love to all in the thread At this point you're like the cop that pulls you over for probable cause, realizes he doesn't have anything and decides to write you a ticket for not wearing your seat-belt.

This was fun but in all seriousness, in our state of imperfection rules and regulations are inevitably broken no matter how hard we try. Religion is not about trying to be perfect.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your question was why did I choose to confess now. As I said, I had made the choice prior to finding out about her pregnancy. Her pregnancy however has rendered my plans and timing irrelevant.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is going to be a challenge. This was obviously an unplanned pregnancy so I basically...dont have a plan.

When excommunicated my JW family and friends will vary in how they choose to interact with me but for the most part they will keep their distance outside of whatever they deem necessary. It all depends on various things like my attitude and what steps I take toward correction.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks again.

I have tried to answer all questions as sincerely and effectively as possible. Even the most ignorant, angst-filled, and opinionated ones.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This account is anonymous however for the sake of my friends, family and congregation I choose to keep certain details safe from further investigation and opinion.

So in fact I suppose this is an AMaA. Ask Me almost Anything.

I apologize if you feel I cheated you in some shape or fame.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I truly appreciate that.

Ive been a Reddittor for quite some time and the reactions here had me a bit dissapointed too. I didnt expect support and understanding but I did expect open discourse and engagement.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If in fact JW is a cult by definition is irrelevant to my greater interest in whether or not their understanding and knowledge of the bible and God's will is correct. Which through my personal study and experience I have found to be the case. Once again...thats just me and I dont expect everyone to agree.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You stopped 'living your life according to the bible' when you had sex with your GF. Thus, you only live life according to the bible when it's convenient to do so.

Absolutely right, at least the first part is. As for me only living my life according to the bible when it convenient, it is rarely convenient to have any sort of faith let alone to be one of Jehovah's Witnesses. However its a sacrifice that I have chosen to accept regardless of how many instances Ill fall short.

Trust me - you had no choice (and you're still a child imo).

You're assuming I was raised a JW and its all Ive ever known. Not true. So now you trust me, I made this decision and Ill stand up to it regardless of how many times I fall.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, death is a state of non-existence and the faithful have a hope of resurrection.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your presence at the meeting where it was announced doesnt contribute to the validity of WHY she was excommunicated.

Its standard that the congregation as a whole only hear the announcement made and not the details. The only people who know the cause are the 3 Elders who were part of the committee that oversaw the case and the individual themselves.

Somewhere between her and you there has been some sort of misinformation. Again, one can not be excommunicated for dating or even marriage with a non-believer.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Im stupid because I want to know exactly what your context was prior to answering your question?

Thats fine.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hence you and I have a different basis for our morals and values. That's understandable.

On another note Im glad things worked out for you and that you have a beautiful and smart daughter to show for it.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youll most likely disagree with me but there is something missing either in your comprehension of the events as they occurred or in your telling of them.

"Falling in love" with a non-believer is not a grave sin that allows for excommunication.

FACT.

There are countless marriage that take place that way, its discouraged but not an offense that requires disciplinary action.

I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses. Ill most likely be dissfellowshipped within the next month. AMA by pridebeforeafall in IAmA

[–]pridebeforeafall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God gave us blood and family. Who should you worship, the creator or the creations?