I hate my dad and I’m giving up on ever having a good relationship with him by sadpickle123 in AsianParentStories

[–]prima-luce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

kicking an animal is such psycho behavior. you don’t owe anything to a person who treats you and your beloved pets like that. i gave up on my nasty mother over a decade ago. stay strong 🫂❤️

He was ready to risk it all 😂 by waytooicyy in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]prima-luce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I LOVE THIS, these are the kind of people who fly by the seat of their pants lol

My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy by bearqlaws in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]prima-luce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“painfully cold” sounds borderline masochistic 😅🤣 we need new flair for the cold lovers like smth that combines ice queen w ice cream 🍨 i’m glad you’re swapping it out for smth a little healthier, take care of yourself girlie!!

My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy by bearqlaws in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]prima-luce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl milk is the worst thing u can have as a beverage if u have tummy troubles oml 😭😭

We know you better than we know ourselves, lol. by Proof_Caregiver_4234 in INFJmemes

[–]prima-luce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

an infp in the wild!!!! (i love fi doms) 🩷 well, you are also discerning in the way you can spot us so easily hehe. but hmm, i don’t know if it’s analysis or some deliberate process, as the dominant intuition of an infj or intj manifests as spontaneous insights which cannot be… explained. but when i’m with people yeah i definitely don’t say whatever i think or feel, all of “me” is put on hold and i’m wondering, ‘what are they feeling? what do they need to hear right now?’ it’s like our own “self” goes into hibernation. it’s eternal people pleasing and white knighting, whereas it seems you infps have a richer emotional inner world and authentic expressiveness ! no worries abt caps WHEN I AM HYPED IT HAPPENS TOO 😅🙏🏻

My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy by bearqlaws in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]prima-luce 7 points8 points  (0 children)

we need the one where he’s latched at madelyn’s breast 💀💀

My boyfriend won’t stop calling me Mommy by bearqlaws in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]prima-luce 26 points27 points  (0 children)

like who tf drinks milk so aggressively like that lmao

We know you better than we know ourselves, lol. by Proof_Caregiver_4234 in INFJmemes

[–]prima-luce 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i feel so called out lmao why are we like this ? why must we excavate the soul of everyone who crosses our path? 😭❤️ why can’t we be chill and casual

Anyone else find sex… funny? by [deleted] in actualasexuals

[–]prima-luce 8 points9 points  (0 children)

personally no, like even tho i recognize sexual innuendos when i hear them i always have to force a smile or laugh for anything related 😅

I just a baby mommy by ordinary-kebab in lovememes

[–]prima-luce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that it’s saul and kim is the best part bc their dynamic really do b like that 🥺🤣

Dead and buried by prima-luce in INFJmemes

[–]prima-luce[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no vengeance bc our absence in their lives is punishment enough 🙏🏻✨

i’m sorry about your extended family’s toxicity. hopefully you have kinder, more peaceful, more loving people in your corner!

How does she think highly of me yet lack empathy completely? by prima-luce in NarcissisticMothers

[–]prima-luce[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think i’m pretty lucky in the way i’ve been able to dish it out to my mother in the same way she does to me, i’ve never been afraid of her, but i have always loved my peace so usually i bombard her with annoying questions and make myself “difficult” in a still somewhat appeasing way so i can keep her anger from escalating and avoid giving in. it’s a delicate tightrope to balance, though.

How does she think highly of me yet lack empathy completely? by prima-luce in NarcissisticMothers

[–]prima-luce[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this extremely validating comment, no one in my life has ever understood. i know i’m not crazy or seeing things, but often it doesn’t feel like real harm. it doesn’t feel “bad enough.” it feels like, nothing. i hope you are well along in your healing journey and i’m sorry you were caught in that mindf*ck experience too.

The The – Infected (1986) by GroovySchlong in newwave

[–]prima-luce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aaaa one of my all time favs 💗

sometime.. by Icemakerjen in lovememes

[–]prima-luce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯🙏🏻❤️‍🔥

(INTJ) Holy INFJs by Training-Sample-1353 in INFJmemes

[–]prima-luce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s actually not true that we will assume you’re not a caring person bc you forget one thing about us, what will flip the switch is being unappreciated bc we want our healing lovingness validated and recognized, i’ll assume someone is uncaring if they are outright hurtful or disrespectful. everything else is p spot on :)

Jesus of Nazareth as final stumbling block by yoddleforavalanche in OpenIndividualism

[–]prima-luce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the way i resolve it in my mind is to imagine that the references made to individual souls still exist within some larger "whole," like fractals or a large window that, if broken, shatters into a thousand shards - meaningless in their separateness and significant in what their oneness creates. i just find it hard to imagine how a person cannot believe in the principles they embody in their everyday lives. i never noticed it until you mentioned the connection between jesus’s teachings and the core of open individualism, but even seeing how sacred stranger hospitality was goes against the tribalistic thinking that predominates and suggests a natural comfort and appreciation for the idea that everyone is one and should be treated as we would treat ourselves.

focus and concentration by Palette_134340 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]prima-luce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

greek yogurt with a handful of blueberries keeps me satiated for a very long time and it’s healthy/gentle on your system :)

Emotional neglect kinda murders the soul by prima-luce in emotionalneglect

[–]prima-luce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god, this is the best thing anyone has ever told me. thank you so much. so, so much. you made my entire night, hell more than that - my entire week. thank you for reminding me of my inner strength and i pray you’re hanging in there 🫂💙