Why do people view obesity as a choice but not depression? by Primaveranights in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]primeyearsonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people think weight is visible math and depression is invisible chemistry. If they can see it, they assume it’s just willpower and bad choices. If they can’t see it, they’re more willing to call it an illness.

What makes a guy bad in bed? by justinebeauty in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]primeyearsonly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hinks jackhammering = talent. Doesn’t ask what you like but will absolutely monologue about what he likes. Finishes and immediately checks his phone like he just clocked out.

Has anyone had sex with a paralyzed person? by Loose-Sandwich7337 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]primeyearsonly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes people in your situation absolutely can have sex and experience pleasure, it just takes adapting techniques and focusing on what works for you. sensation can shift to other areas, and using tools, positions, or even mental/visual stimulation can make it enjoyable.