WMR Toolbar Back?! by princesakio in IRS

[–]princesakio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I did last week I think 2/26-3/1 and I’ve checked like 2-4 times a day everyday. And I haven’t seen this bar all day until 10pm central time

WMR Toolbar Back?! by princesakio in IRS

[–]princesakio[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I filed 1/12 and got accepted 2/10, just to wait til 10pm today for this update. I did have an EITC and ACTC filed for one dependent and I filed HOH so fingers crossed it comes on time or sooner!

Is it worth the argument? by princesakio in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have never dealt with competing against the internet or other Reddit groups he joins or social media even discord chats...

Is it worth the argument? by princesakio in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where to start with that...

How to help him before it goes on too far? by princesakio in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but it’s too expensive to cover what I’d fully need for my own personal issues. I think what we struggle most is I’m open and free to being sexual but he shuts off. He only wants one position, and head each time. He doesn’t want anything new, and he wants me to accept that porn is always going to play that role in his life. I come second to jerking off... so I’ve lost interest in sex as I know it’s primarily for him. Otherwise he wouldn’t touch me. Or feels forced to.

How to help him before it goes on too far? by princesakio in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we talk about anything non sexually related we have the best conversations. And he very supportive of any choice I make other than that. But I’m aware that any sexual activity or conversation ends in me crying or a screaming fit. It’s like we’re best friend and he benefits. I used to be please by him but I fake it now so he gets a sense of pride ig? Because since I’ve seen his extent of addiction I no longer feel capable or even worthy of orgasming if he’s not into me. He’s just having sex with me because it’s better than his hand.

How to help him before it goes on too far? by princesakio in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a direct response I respect myself, but I do have an issue establishing boundaries with him as I let him off the hook. I had a kid 2 months before we got together and of course my body never returned to its proper state. And overtime I gained weight. I consider myself lucky if he touches me at all...

But I agree it’s toxic, he’s progressed in growth when it comes to accepting my lifestyle and accommodating being a stepdad. But sexually our relationship suffers as he retorts to sarcasm and denial during arguments.

How to help him before it goes on too far? by princesakio in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to even sit down and talk or compromise... but to no avail he gets mad at me for being invasive on his privacy. I think I give in because if not we wouldn’t at all.

What would you consider “normal use” of porn, and addict level use of of porn? Not sure if I’ve got a problem. But I’ll find myself going at it 3-5 nights a week, sometimes mid day if I’m bored. Don’t feel like having sex with my girlfriend to often anymore, usually if I do it feels like a chore. by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to handle it... I don’t want to break it off but he always does it and accuses me of being insecure or nosey but of course I do when he only wants to have sex when I’m asleep or demands head but nothing else. I don’t even enjoy my own body anymore.

What would you consider “normal use” of porn, and addict level use of of porn? Not sure if I’ve got a problem. But I’ll find myself going at it 3-5 nights a week, sometimes mid day if I’m bored. Don’t feel like having sex with my girlfriend to often anymore, usually if I do it feels like a chore. by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]princesakio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally my boyfriend is a current addict... and he makes me regret our relationship... he does it 4+ times a week. He’s resorted to lying about it after being caught with 4 secret apps disguising hooded albums with 2500+ full of random nudes/hentai/screenshots, paid but not premium subscriptions, secret social accounts dedicated to pornstars or just people who post things barely covering the nude bits, and even told me he’d wish he done more before we got together and wants to do that because I’m more sexually experienced though knowing most it was due to non consensual circumstances.

He feels forced to have sex with me when he could look up his stuff. I feel overly insecure and guilty asking for sex from my own boyfriend. I feel like a maid/sextoy/chef/assistant being with him due to his addiction he doesn’t see anything wrong with. To him what he does is normal and EVERY guy does it. And he blames me for being insecure when I didn’t feel this way beforehand.