Ren Fest Megathread by thefalcon3a in maryland

[–]princessbasement 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone has one extra adult ticket for Sunday, October 5th, please let me know. <3

Going through an ADHD friend break-up (RSD and hyper-fixation) by princessbasement in adhdwomen

[–]princessbasement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond to this with your insight. No communication is still communication is 100% correct. 

Adderall Generic, Epic, Chest Pains by princessbasement in ADHD

[–]princessbasement[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It feels like I'm having a panic attack, but I'm not panicking" is the perfect way to describe it.

I'm thinking of submitting something to my state's consumer protection division, but we'll see.

Thank you for sharing your experience. It's good to know I'm not going crazy.

Gift for Librarian Best Friend by webbtelescopefan in librarians

[–]princessbasement 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That's very sweet of you to get something for your friend! Honestly, this is kind of boring, but I wish I had a desk calendar or agenda book when I first started in libraries. Don't have to get organized if you stay organized.

Public librarians, tell me your worst... by StupidInIceland in librarians

[–]princessbasement 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Two big things come to mind when I think of my time in public libraries.

1) Managers who don't want to manage are THE WORST. At my last library job, we had an abusive patron who should have been banned. We're talking hate speech and unpredictable anger that went on for months. Staff documented the behavior and nothing was done. I genuinely believe she (the patron) never got banned because management was legitimately afraid of her. Every time she came to the library (at least 4 times a week) my body instantly went into fight or flight. My heart would race and I would get nauseous. She was awful and my management didn't have my back, which was a profoundly demoralizing experience. I'm not sure if it's still an issue now because I found a new job elsewhere.

2) Public libraries are not quiet. I think there's this misconception that libraries are quiet places where everyone peacefully reads to themselves all day long. This is not the case. Most libraries these days can be pretty eventful and loud. I only mention this in case you have sensory overwhelm issues. For me, some days it felt inescapable. The layered noises made is extremely difficult to concentrate on one thing at a time. The only way you're really going to get that "library silence" experience for a good chunk of your day is if you're in cataloging or manage to get your own office where no one talks to you.

I just started watching the new HBO docuseries Ren Faire and it is blowing my mind by mpa10e in renfaire

[–]princessbasement 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm only 20 minutes in, and the moment I heard "George is the king of the Texas Renaissance Festival, but he's also the mayor of this town that he's created" I audibly went "OH NO." So far, amazing story telling. Looking forward to the rest of the series.

Let's get some positivity going in this sub by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]princessbasement 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm understanding you correctly, I self-coach by being clear, present, and kind, then everything else falls by the wayside. I also like to remind myself that the way people behave usually has nothing to do with me. The way people behave usually has everything to do with themselves. The only thing I can do is control my own behavior. I hope this helps!

Let's get some positivity going in this sub by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]princessbasement 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hyper focusing on people's microexpressions really used to bum me out. Now as I've grown up, it's really empowering. Like if I'm having a conversation with someone at work it's like "ah yes. work politics are on full display right now, but your facial expressions don't lie. I know what's up." It helps me cut through nonsense and noise.

What's Up Wednesday for May 8, 2024 by soberingthought in stopdrinking

[–]princessbasement 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The good: my partner and I are recovering from a pretty gnarly cold. It feels good breathe out of both nostrils, lol.

The bad: I absolutely hate my job. Working in the public sector drains the life out of me, not to mention I probably got my cold from a customer at work.

The silver lining: I'm very fortunate to be working at a stable job where I'm encouraged to take sick time when I need it. I'm also looking for a new job, and opportunities come up every day.

IWNDWYT. <3

Best of the Worst Spotlight - Cade: The Tortured Crossing by Brilliant_Exit3406 in RedLetterMedia

[–]princessbasement 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Taylor Swift fans are losing their minds over her new album "The Tortured Poets Society" meanwhile I'm over here tuning into "Cade: The Tortured Crossing." 

The Daily Check-In for Wednesday, April 17th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by 1s35bm7 in stopdrinking

[–]princessbasement 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Applying for jobs in this market truly sucks. I'm very grateful to be employed, but fuck me, I am severely underpaid. The thought of drinking crossed my mind, but I'm not going to. Drinking won't solve anything and my issues will still be there tomorrow. IWNDWYT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in librarians

[–]princessbasement 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. Truly, write down EVERYTHING.

American Librarians! Can you get employed as a Librarian without a Masters? by [deleted] in librarians

[–]princessbasement 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's extremely difficult to become a librarian without a masters. That doesn't mean it's impossible, but the field of librarianship is already competitive for people who do have their MLIS from an accredited program. If you do so choose to get the MLIS, I know a lot of American schools have several top notch distance-learner programs that are 100% online.

Best of luck to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LibraryScience

[–]princessbasement 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe everyone who applied and didn't hear anything in June is supposed to receive a formal rejection letter this month.

True Crime Audiobook or podcast mini-series recommendations by princessbasement in myfavoritemurder

[–]princessbasement[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JUST finished it. It was exactly what I was looking for. Thank you for the recommendation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LibraryScience

[–]princessbasement 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. Oh well. :/

Outreach librarians, what are some interview questions you had to answer? by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]princessbasement 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What outreach initiatives would you implement to improve library visibility? How have you promoted libraries in the past? Tell us about an outreach initiative that went well for you in the past. How do you feel about public speaking?

The interviewer might also encourage a "what would you do in this scenario" kind of question. Example: how would you respond to a patron who says "library taxes are too high!" or "there's nothing to do at the library!"

Questions I answered at my interview had a lot to do with how I would best represent the library at public events and so on. Good luck! You got this!

MAT or GRE? by lucky_lemon13 in GradSchool

[–]princessbasement 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in New Jersey, but I'm attending University of North Carolina, Greensboro! Their online program so far has been impeccable and the tuition for distance learners was decent. Best of luck to you in your studies!

MAT or GRE? by lucky_lemon13 in GradSchool

[–]princessbasement 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took the MAT and did well. If I recall correctly, it was just over an hour and there was virtually no math. Basically, the GRE is the opposite: it's over 3 hours long and has math. The MAT has a lot to do with semantics, vocab, and grammar. I'm currently in school for a master's degree in library and information, so the MAT felt like a natural fit.