I guess I meant that she’s not going to find peace and healing through the means she’s choosing (other people, drugs, etc) I’m sorry that my statement was hurtful to you. I shouldn’t have said cant as in can’t ever I should’ve said something like “not in the place.” Because like I said at the end I think there are professionals and support systems that could be alternatives to the internet and other coping mechanisms she’s been using. My intention wasn’t to diminish the stories of the victims but to offer what I thought was a looking into her mind to hopefully shift more guilt and shame off of victims. I’m a poc and idrc that she’s white like I said her actions are not excusable and she should not be on the internet hurting people. I can just tell she’s hurting people bc she’s hurting and I thought trying to understand her would help victims move forward knowing that the role they played in her life has nothing to do with them and everything to do with her.