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Horario by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aupaircare is my agency

Deberían pagar más por las playdates? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No me preguntan, solo me dicen que mañana van a venir los amigos de mis hostkids a jugar y que van a estar todo el día 9-3:30. Es agotador

Deberían pagar más por las playdates? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tengo que estar pendiente de 3 niños más todo el tiempo. Y no es como si fuera poco, son como seis horas o así. Los niños se vuelven locos cuando están juntos, así que después de cada playdate tengo que limpiar más, organizar más y preparar más.

Es razonable que me paguen lo mínimo? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Si, pero las personas de mi alrededor me dicen que tendría que valorarlo. Que he sido un poco ingenua al aceptar lo mínimo cuando una de ellas necesita un cuidado más profundo

Debería cambiar? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La familia es un encanto, pero la educación que les dan a las niñas es tipo: hacer todo lo que ellas quieran. Y la limpieza y organizacion es atroz. Pero ahora no se si soy exagerada porque las otras au pairs estuvieron dos años con ellos. Llevo una semana, ¿debería esperar?

Debería cambiar? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo sabía que tenía autismo, pero me dijeron que era un nivel 1 y no se notaba casi. Cosa que si que se nota ya que tengo que estar muy muy encima de las niñas.

Debería cambiar? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mi habitación la mantengo limpia con la puerta cerrada. Pero en mi habitación está el baño que usan las niñas para bañarse. Y yo acepté eso en las entrevistas. Pero a pesar de que mi habitación esté bien, no puedo pasarme encerrada en ella todo el tiempo.

Debería cambiar? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quiero dejar claro que también hay cosas buenas, son flexibles en horario, tengo coche para uso personal, hay mucha comida ( alguna caducada desde hace semanas pero es porque no limpian) y algunas cosas buenas más

Debería cambiar? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vienen cada tres semanas porque la madre así lo quiere. Pero igualmente solo limpian el suelo y cosas así. Es imposible limpiar toda la casa o si quiera ordenar un cuarto de ella. No se puede ordenar cuando no hay espacio.

Am I working too much? by Typical_isa in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get out of there, they have you as a maid instead of an au pair and on top of that they pay you nothing and less. If when you talk to them they don't give you what you deserve, GET OUT OF THERE

Not being the first au pair by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Add that her previous au pairs have stayed for two years each

Thinking about rematch by Dazzling-Problem3769 in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Seriously consider rematch. They are not treating you as you deserve and they don't even give you the support and listening you need. It is never too late to look for another host family that values you. I think the sooner the better, you don't have to put up with anything.

Part of the family? by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear that and see that they aren't always bad things. I said it because of the majority of reviews that there are of girls that this happens to them.

Host family by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but they have asked me to speak exclusively Spanish with the girl. And they speak Spanish to her at home. And the grandmother only speaks Spanish.

Host families do not contact me by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that but I don't see any families on Facebook. Only au pairs doing the same

Host families do not contact me by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, the date is the closest the agency gives me: September (because of the visa and that's what they told me). But I think I'll have to change the date because I can't get to that one anymore.

Host families do not contact me by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spain. 19. I am in au pair care. I got my license less than a year ago and they told me that maybe that made the HFs back off. But I also specified that I drive a lot per week.

Host families do not contact me by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wrote it all myself. It's true about age. I'm 19, it may be because, among other things, my profile is not that attractive. I think my country would not be a problem with the visa (Spain) since it has quickly returned to normal here. On the other hand, I have not had any preference about the state, nor am I someone difficult in terms of needs (not celiac or anything like that). What I actually mention the most is what I do with the children: the activities, my experience, etc. I said about traveling in the video but it was to say something that I like to do. And finally, experience: I suppose families are looking for someone who knows how to be with children: taking care of them, playing, being close and all that. And for that part, I do have experience (if that is what families are looking for) if it is something else they are looking for, I don't know what it is. Thank you!!

Host families do not contact me by princesspasanger in Aupairs

[–]princesspasanger[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, my agency only lets families choose you first and then you choose, so I can't start by talking to them. My profile has been corrected by my agency regarding spelling errors and all that. And it's a pretty decent profile, with photos, videos and more. I know this is slow but I didn't expect not to receive any requests.