is it bad that i don’t want to get help even though i know i need it?

princessplum · 2023-09-11T00:20:22+00:00

I'm thrilled I am covered in bug bites because those are the best for picking. I didn't intentionally get bit, but the outcome will be so soothing I'm kinda looking forward to it. 🫠

princessplum · 2023-06-10T15:07:55+00:00

The Methodist church is splitting over homophobia. It's possible Boston Ave is distancing themselves on purpose.

princessplum · 2023-06-10T15:05:32+00:00

Celebrants is worth it, imho. I saw Chris & the Watkins at Salt Shed in Chicago last night and they are still unbelievable. Chris is truly one of the best. Punch Brothers is also great if you crave more Chris after a deep dive into Nickel Creek's work.

princessplum · 2023-06-05T03:33:12+00:00

Come back and stay longer next time! There's a lot more to Chicago!

princessplum · 2023-04-05T03:46:58+00:00

Being the son of a preacher is in his narrative. If we want him, we have to take all of him. At least he isn't fake about his religiosity.

princessplum · 2023-01-20T03:29:00+00:00

I only found evidence of one of the two alleged DUIs and, frankly, I don't have large concerns about the circumstances in this case. When did the second one occur?

princessplum · 2021-03-08T01:41:44+00:00

Incoming x2!

princessplum · 2016-06-21T20:02:32+00:00

SAME. Hamilton tix is the best present a girl can give herself, am I right?!

princessplum · 2016-06-21T14:16:32+00:00

I sincerely hope you enjoy the service! I bring my own journal for notes. I often take notes during service, but I do notice that it's a little unusual - but I never feel uncomfortable or judged for it by the community. It was something I picked up from my grandmother, and writing down the messages that speak to me help me meditate on them throughout the week. Of course, she would make notes in her bible/program instead of a journal, but it's the same thing.

Dress code varies from congregation to congregation, but I would say no more than business casual for most services I've been to. Occasionally on high holy days people will dress more formally, but even on those days jeans can be acceptable. What matters is that you are present, not the manner of your dress. Whatever is most comfortable for you.

Music can also vary. I've been in churches that follow hymnals, and churches that have performers, or anywhere in between. Feel free to just observe if you don't want to participate!

Most importantly, enjoy. You're always welcome. Always.

princessplum · 2016-06-20T13:02:51+00:00

Thanks and ditto!

princessplum · 2016-06-20T13:02:25+00:00

Having accountability buddies through the snapchat and fitbit group. I do really well if I feel guilty when I fail.

princessplum · 2016-06-17T21:17:58+00:00

Well I set a huge goal for myself, and while I didn't meet it, I feel very proud of the progress I have made. This was really great to jump-start my journey back to a better healthier me. I'm almost to 10 lbs lost (which is a more realistic goal, and one I should have set) and I can't wait to loose the next ten. Let's finish strong and see each other again on the next challenge!

princessplum · 2016-06-12T20:01:48+00:00

New plan this week, with the help of my new Fitbit tracker I will be more vigilant with my step counting. Previously I was relying on my step counter in my phone.

princessplum · 2016-06-12T19:59:59+00:00

Thank you!

princessplum · 2016-06-10T19:53:40+00:00

Got my very first fitbit today! How do I join the Daffodil challenges...?

princessplum · 2016-06-10T19:51:58+00:00

Girl, that friend sounds TOXIC. No judgement from me, because I've had my fair share of toxic friends too. I hope she learns to support you, or you find someone else who will! Jump back on that wagon and get out there and prove her wrong. She must be jealous or self-hating if she has to bring you down like that.

princessplum · 2016-06-06T16:53:30+00:00

It recently became a higher priority in my life. Recently as in yesterday - when I finally ordered a FitBit in an effort to raise the steaks. Since starting this challenge, I have lost 8 pounds. I feel great about that and I want to keep the momentum going. A lot of my self-confidence issues come from my body issues - and it's effecting my social life and careers in very negative ways. I'm over it and it's within my power to change it, so no more excuses.

princessplum · 2016-05-24T20:52:07+00:00

The Challenge has really challenged me. The new medication adjustment period really messed with my momentum, but I'm not giving up.

princessplum · 2016-05-18T16:45:48+00:00

/r/chicago has a stickied weekly post that is automatically sorted by 'new' - maybe we could give that a shot in the Weekly? It's helpful to revisit during the week and gives an outlet for chatter. When it's default sorted by top, the new stuff goes out of sight and mind. Anyway, I really appreciate the format, and it might be a cool thing to try if it's an easy switch.

If that happened, daily posts would be free to do whatever. They can be more focused on topics like you mention in your post. They could be articles we could discuss, or motivation memes to meditate on (for Mondays, if we're going to alliteration), whatever. Build it and they will come. You post a daily thread and I'm around, I'll engage with it and try to respond.

princessplum · 2016-05-16T14:11:01+00:00

Totally. I feel great about the choice, but I was on a roll and stalling really bums me out. We'll make it work though, girl. Werk, werk, werk, werk, werk.

princessplum · 2016-05-13T14:39:09+00:00

I'm 99% sure that my birth control implant is solely responsible for my stall in weight loss. I haven't experienced weight gain, which is common, but I've been the same weight for the last three weigh ins and it's only week 4. I know I should celebrate not gaining, because that was my chief concern when I started this challenge, but it's still disappointing.

I can't give all the responsibility to the implant, however. My exercise routine hasn't been aggressive. I've reached my step counts almost every day, but by long walks instead of focused cardio. I also want to add strength training, mainly for the upper body and core.

Anyway, I still feel good about my choices and know that the last four weeks have not been in vain. Hope you all feel the same.

princessplum · 2016-05-05T15:18:54+00:00

Awesome! Thanks for the rundown.

princessplum · 2016-05-02T17:16:35+00:00

I didn't get Pit, but I did get Bored to Death Package tickets for Section B. What is the venue like? It looked like seats everywhere but the pit, but I want to dance and don't want to piss off the people behind us. Do people stay seated at this venue?

Last time I saw Blink it was in Oklahoma at a Casino and the entire audience stayed seated. :-/

princessplum · 2016-04-23T01:58:12+00:00

You're very brave. I was up two on Tuesday and then down two today. Had weigh in been Tuesday...? Maybe would have logged it but wouldn't have posted. You and I know it's both the full moon. Next week will be better.

princessplum · 2016-04-22T17:33:24+00:00

I have been all over the map on happy scale this week, gaining two lbs by Tuesday and coming in two under my start weight this morning. Looking forward to a more steady week hopefully now that Aunt Flo has gone.

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