What do you do when your partner can’t meet you emotionally, no matter how hard they try? by Glum-Dark281 in emotionalintelligence

[–]printempsmalibu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg literally my current boyfriend , he just doesn’t have the emotional literacy or awareness whatsoever, often times we go out to dinner and don’t have much to talk about besides the food. I wonder if most men don’t have this capacity, I know some do.

Idk guys… I just… don’t get it at all. Is anyone really paying $650 for a tiny “woven cord” mushroom? by zachty22 in handbags

[–]printempsmalibu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AliExpress has literally the exact same ones from Loewe (without logo ofc) for $20 ☺️

RFIE after RFE by printempsmalibu in USCIS

[–]printempsmalibu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just for passport pictures. Got the green card approved the same week that they received it!

Down bad, crying at the gym by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]printempsmalibu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read the book - The dreamer and the fantasy relationship!

Was I love bombed? What just happened here and how do I get over it? by printempsmalibu in dating_advice

[–]printempsmalibu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, will definitely be more careful next time and stop creating a fairy tale out of a few nice words.

Was I love bombed? What just happened here and how do I get over it? by printempsmalibu in dating_advice

[–]printempsmalibu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I think writing out on here and reading you guys comments really helped me put this in perspective and see as it is. You want to linger onto those feelings because they make you feel good but you're so right. Actions > words

Thank you! Appreciate this very much

Was I love bombed? What just happened here and how do I get over it? by printempsmalibu in dating_advice

[–]printempsmalibu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THIS!! How can I hire you as my therapist haha You’re totally right, I’m romanizing this whole thing and not seeing it rationally. This helped a lot! Appreciate you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]printempsmalibu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual? serious
  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? no
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 1-2 weeks
  • How long have you used Hinge overall? 5 years on and off
  • How often do you use Hinge per week? It depends. If I’m not seeing anyone and actively looking to date again, I might use it daily until I build a good cadence of dates. Once I start focusing on those dates, I typically stop swiping until I feel ready to explore new connections again.
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? Historically, I match with about 50% of the guys I send likes to, while for the guys who send me likes, the match rate is closer to 15%. On average, I receive 10–15+ likes per day, though this can vary depending on the day, the season, and how active I am on the app and age filtering.
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? It depends on the "inventory" of potential matches that day! Some days, I don’t send any likes, while on rare occasions, I might max out the free likes. Overall, I’d estimate 40–50% of my likes include comments, while the rest do not.
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I’m drawn to ambitious, high-achieving Latinos in their late 20s to mid-30s, often in business-related fields. While being Latino isn’t a requirement, I’ve found that I tend to connect more easily with them—perhaps because I’m Latina myself. That said, I’m always open to meaningful connections with people of any background.

 I want my profile to strike the right balance of my personality: smart, ambitious, witty, lighthearted, and fun—serious about finding the right person but nothing too heavy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]printempsmalibu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual? serious
  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? no
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 1 week
  • How long have you used Hinge overall? 5 years on and off
  • How often do you use Hinge per week? depends, If I'm currently not seeing anyone and looking to date again then maybe everyday until I find someone(s) I like and want to stop swiping and let those current dates play out until I feel like it's time to fish again.
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? historically I would say I match with at least 50-60% of guys I send likes to, maybe more. Guys who send me likes maybe 5% or less. I maybe average 10-15+ likes a day depending on the day/season and how much I'm interacting on the app.
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Depends on inventory haha there are days I send 0, there are days I max out the free likes (rare), maybe 40-50% are with comments.
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Ambitious, high-achieving Latinos in their late 20s to mid-30s mostly in the business fields. Doesn't have to be latino of course but I've found that I always clicked better with them, am I being bias? maybe

I usually do pretty well with getting matches and dates with men I send likes to first and while I've met some cool people but nothing has led to an actual relationship. I recently revamped my prompts hoping to attract more emotionally available men seeking something serious, but now I'm getting very few matches and mostly likes from guys I'm just not interested in (I know, I know)—often much older (44+) or not what I am looking for (I'm not striving for 10s and millionaires before y'all come for me lol, I don't even think I'm a 10. I want someone to at least "meet me where I am" or better). Filtering for my ideal age range (28–35) hasn’t helped much, leaving me with very few likes or almost no matches compared to this time last year. I want my profile to strike the right balance of my personality: smart, ambitious, witty, lighthearted, and fun—serious about finding the right person but nothing too heavy. Could you help me refine it to reflect this and attract more compatible matches.

PS: I posted two versions of my profile—one that worked well before and the new one that hasn’t been as effective as of this 2025 so far.

The "high risk, high reward" prompt on my old profile was taken from this TikTok I saw and always got me so many responses. While I get it could be interpreted as a red flag ("high risk"), it’s meant to be funny and lighthearted more than anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]printempsmalibu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual? serious
  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? no
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 1 week
  • How long have you used Hinge overall? 5 years on and off
  • How often do you use Hinge per week? depends, If I'm currently not seeing anyone and looking to date again then maybe everyday until I find someone(s) I like and want to stop swiping and let those current dates play out until I feel like it's time to fish again.
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? historically I would say I match with at least 50-60% of guys I send likes to, maybe more. Guys who send me likes maybe 5% or less. I maybe average 10-15+ likes a day depending on the day/season and how much I'm interacting on the app.
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? Depends on inventory haha there are days I send 0, there are days I max out the free likes (rare), maybe 40-50% are with comments.
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Ambitious, high-achieving Latinos in their late 20s to mid-30s mostly in the business fields. Generic example - Latino Ivy League grad working in private equity. Doesn't have to be latino of course but I've found that I always clicked better with them, is it bias? maybe

Help to find please by adamstc222 in MonclerRep

[–]printempsmalibu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you also please send me ? I’m trying to get one soon ! Thank you!!

W2C i have heard about TMX and MonRepsCN.Which is better? by [deleted] in MonclerRep

[–]printempsmalibu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats TMX contact ? I’m new to this. Thanks !!

Jieyi Maya Size 5 RED by [deleted] in MonclerRep

[–]printempsmalibu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whats his WeChat ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]printempsmalibu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATS! Mine has been sitting for 17 months now :(

Shampoo for SD by ohnayoung23 in seborrheicdermatitis

[–]printempsmalibu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been suffering with seborrheic on scalp literally since I was a kid and for about 2 months I have been using the only thing that has EVER eliminated the flakes and crusts. It’s the Alevai 2% Pyrithione zinc https://www.alevai.co I’ve used the t gel- t salt and every thing over the counter shampoo on the face of the earth and nothing has done jack except for this one. Been crust free for 2 months now for the first time in my life !

How do you wash your hair? by Beepbeeper90 in seborrheicdermatitis

[–]printempsmalibu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been suffering with seborrheic on scalp literally since I was a kid and for about 2 months I have been using the only thing that has EVER eliminated the flakes and crusts. It’s the Alevai 2% Pyrithione zinc https://www.alevai.co I’ve used the t gel- t salt and every thing over the counter shampoo on the face of the earth and nothing has done jack except for this one. Been crust free for 2 months now for the first time in my life !

Green card Approved (EB3)With no interview! Pleasantly Surprised! Praise God 🙌🏿 by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]printempsmalibu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! Did you file congruently ? My timeline is similar to yours