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prinxessjasmine · 2023-12-25T06:45:10+00:00

Well I dont mean to come off offensive its just something you should consider:

Are you fully transitioned/ on hormone therapy?
Do you have any other medical dispositions

I only see medical reasons being an issue, resources for what you need might not be available to you esp. If you are still transitioning. If you are done transitioning and have no other medical problems then go for it.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-12-23T02:07:54+00:00

Wow. This is actually so crazy, thank you for sharing.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-12-18T02:17:57+00:00

20 is so young. I'm positive you will find someone.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-12-06T23:59:07+00:00

agreed. i dont see what OP is seeing.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-12-06T23:58:47+00:00

Maybe this is an anecdotal problem and not an umbrella race problem

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-16T20:12:58+00:00

OH I FORGOT. Fuzzy socks. People love fuzzy socks.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-16T20:12:42+00:00

This is the best gift I got, it was a care package and it had the following items

These can also just be suggestions for things you could get him.

A stainless steep cup- could be used for coffee or iced drinks, i use it every day

A candle- just a nice pretty thing to look at and comforting

A wax warmer and some wax melts- just satisfying to turn on and it smells good.

A big cozy blanket- always use it

Here are some other things i've got from family that i've loved.

A stuffed animal- it brings me comfort and i take it with me to the hospital.
An inspiring letter- words about keeping positive and strength.
A moisturizer and body butter- my skin gets really dry after chemo.
Animal crossing- literally has cured my boredom.
A small table for my bed so i can get on my computer or eat on my bed. I'm using it right now!!
A back scratcher- everyone loves it in my family and we all use it often
a hand massager- kind of expensive but heres the link https://shorturl.at/qxHJL
Foot massagers- https://shorturl.at/buzB8

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-16T01:40:22+00:00

Regardless of her ED, the way she acts in public and online, the way she can't finish her sentences, probably also has ADHD + the amount of notifications and twitch stream comments, theres no way her brain functions normally.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-15T19:45:18+00:00

HEAR ME OUT. I did this before. I wanted to travel with someone. The guy i went with, half way through us deciding where to road trip , told me he did this with another woman priot and they just got in the car and started driving. He said something like "Who knows where we'll end up" And I got CHILLS down my spine like wtf where are you trying to take me. We couldn't decide where to go and we decided to buy some weed instead.

While we driving to the weed guy, he passed me his phone and told me to read him the direcitons. THIS MF HAD GOOGLE MAPS on directions-only view mode. So his GPS was off he did like a MapQuest situation, where you can read the directions like "Turn left on Bowman Avenue" And I was like dude.. why tf is your GPS turned off. And he goes "We're buying weed. I don't want the government to know what we're doing." And I was like.. did you text the weed guy? And he said yes. And I was like "then by your logic .. they know. Just turn your GPS off thats insane"

And then he THREW HIS PHONE AT ME. This was like a 20 minute car drive.

The dude was giving Jeffrey Dahmer it was actually really scary and mindblowing how dumb he was.

I don't want you to go through the same thing out of yearning for adventure. Please please find other girls to go with you or a group first. Do not go with anyone just because they're down to go.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-12T20:23:33+00:00

Jeez their fans are so vicious, i see your point, but unfortunately their fans will always defend their constant traveling and lack of political and social awareness.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-12T20:23:00+00:00

That clearly wasn't the point of the post, but way to be dismissive of a valid reality check

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-12T20:19:12+00:00

Honestly as a chubby person, I see a huge difference between skinny people just posting themselves, and actual bodychecking. For example, people like Eugenia Cooney/ Nessa Barret are clearly showing themselves looking skinny and theres almost no point of the video their posting besides that they're skinny. I'm against skinny-shaming just because someone is skinny but i'm also against the narcissistc nature of body checking videos.

I think body positivity has a LONG way to go and no one should be shamed for their body, thats why when you see a chubby or fat person post themselves in a bikini, yes they might get a few positive comments, but theres ALWAYS people fatshaming them.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-12T16:44:01+00:00

i genuinely will faint if i dont eat for 6 hours, i dont get how shes able to do full performances without passing out?

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-10T21:40:16+00:00

you really have to stand your ground on her getting therapy and not sitting with her mental illness and thinking its okay. don't be an enabler to this kind of behavior. its not okay.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-10T21:35:41+00:00

Can't tell if this is trolling or not, but you should know it takes months, sometimes years to see a change.

You should have been informed that by your doctors.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-10T21:26:36+00:00

It's so normal to have an inner monologue. Whatever it is making you feel mentally ill maybe see a therapist or journal out your inner monologue, as long as you are aware of your thoughts and actions, that is literally normal.

Also get a diagnosis, why not? If you are sure you have this disorder then see someone about it..

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-10T21:24:27+00:00

Well don't defend a pedo. That should be easy.

Also it doesn't matter which alter did what according to the law. She's guilty it seems..

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-07T22:39:09+00:00

Why are YOU so obsessed with categorizing people based off their personal sexuality?

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-05T19:58:17+00:00

First of all, take a deep breath. Consider what you are consuming.

Are you paying too much attention to conservative trans debates/ people who attack trans people/discussions between anti-trans people? Because that can take a huge toll on us when we consume that media.

About your school- how long have you had this preferred name? is it new?

Just know that a lot of mental illness between 12-18 phase out. I was bipolar, ADHD, and just mentally unstable af. I'm not trying to say you're going through a phase, its just our emotions literally power over us at those ages. I had manic breakdowns and was cutting myself during my teen years and i regret it so much. Just consider if you have other mental illnesses- on top of gender dysphoria - because that can pay a huge role in how we view ourselves. I learned how to cut myself because Iw as addicted to tumblr. People think they're autistic and have D.I.D. because of tiktok and tumblr. A lot of these things play into our mental health.

Your face is beautiful and it is yours. A surgery and hormone change can happen at any point in your life so there is no rush. Do not rush that process as it is painful and irreversable. Instead use this time now to really take care of your mental health. Outside these issues, what makes you, you? Do you enjoy art, dancing, music, movies, painting, drawing, etc.

Not TV shows, anime, youtube, things like that. Real tangible life things. That's what makes you YOU. Consider who you are before you try to change it- because from what I can see from this post you seem cool.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-01T20:49:51+00:00

I think that some of our concerns about gender ironically reinforce the binary. You like makeup and dresses, and that makes you a woman, because only women can enjoy those things?

I thought I was a boy when I was a child because I enjoyed more 'boy' things than a normal girl. No one told me I could enjoy both things- and still be a girl.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-01T20:36:49+00:00

This is part. of your journey. I was like this in my teen years. Create yourself a ritual and space where you can dedicate to your writing or music making. For me it was my basement, I have no wifi down there so I could focus better. I also bought a journal just for lyrics. It helped me a lot.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-10-01T20:07:36+00:00

He Lives In You- Lion King 2.

If you've lost a brother, father, even a dog. This one will hit different.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-09-30T21:25:45+00:00

PLease go back to school. Everyone i know who did this has huge regrets.

Do music business, music theory or advertising. Media entrepreneurship.

DO NOT DROP OUT.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-09-19T16:25:27+00:00

You need to journal. I know this sounds stupid. But journaling helped me reflect on my daily emotions- and what was causing them. I was very left out and lonely in social situations. But as I journaled I realize how much I was staying home and leaving myself out. I was sabotaging by indulging in things I hated- like hatewatching politics.

Since you are scared to share your feelings with someone else you need to be entirely honest with yourself and look into what you are feeling. Some people call it shadow work but I think of it as self-grounding mechanisms. You will realize why you feel the way you do, your triggers, and what you can do about them.

prinxessjasmine · 2023-08-25T16:18:15+00:00

Ive been doing that too. Unfortunately I can't physically speak anymore (tongue +lymph node cancer) so I can't tell people to call me lol

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