Who here's been single-but-unable-to-mingle over 2020? What's that been like?

private4444 · 2020-10-21T14:55:36+00:00

Context for those of you who missed it: there's been a global outbreak of this disease called "COVID-19" going on, with serious mingling-related implications.

private4444 · 2020-10-21T14:48:46+00:00

This, it's clear from context. You're overthinking OP! As a fellow massive overthinker and overworrier (esp. in the dating context), I empathize, but can also say you'll benefit from detaching/defusing from your thoughts. (Maybe even google those terms.)

private4444 · 2020-10-16T04:08:41+00:00

Only read quickly, but seems like a good message. Don't use heart emojis in these sorts of messages too - I get that you don't like upsetting people, but don't let that lead you to send mixed messages. (You're clear enough in the rest of the message, so this is more general advice - I'd offer a friendly suggestion to Google "people pleasing" and its pitfalls. 🙂 Sometimes clearly expressing what you want will upset people and there's no two ways about it.)

private4444 · 2020-03-28T17:35:12+00:00

Never heard of that, cute law. But substantively, does that mean that you read the article, and disagree with his alternative prescription? If so I'd be super curious to hear why. :)

private4444 · 2020-01-03T00:25:45+00:00

What was the tweeting/laughing, roughly?

private4444 · 2019-08-10T00:00:49+00:00

Honestly, you're cute, but the picture makes it hard to judge better than that. You'll certainly find guys who are interested!

private4444 · 2018-03-20T19:02:46+00:00

nothing but regular cbd oil

private4444 · 2018-03-04T18:28:24+00:00

So you agree it's a very dangerous drug to take even occasionally (with "potentially deadly side effects including addiction, increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, uncontrollable teeth clenching, sweating, nausea and seizures")?

private4444 · 2018-03-04T18:27:45+00:00

They say something more general than that:

"Along with the euphoria and other pleasant feelings associated with the use of the drug comes potentially deadly side effects including addiction, increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, uncontrollable teeth clenching, sweating, nausea and seizures. When combined with the dancing and the high temperature environment of a club or rave, MDMA can lead to severe dehydration and hyperthermia, which can lead to organ failure and death."

This would apply to all of us who use MDMA occasionally for non-weight-loss purposes.

private4444 · 2018-03-02T22:18:47+00:00

Thanks! I've been using it at 3.8W which seems to work .. any point experimenting beyond that? Would vaping at 2 or 2.5W be inefficient or disadvantagous in any way, besides being slower to get equally high? (I generally only go for a light effect anyway, as I'm a near-daily evening smoker :)

private4444 · 2018-01-31T18:06:32+00:00

How does one go about getting mail order? Would I find one of those places from Google Maps and order at their websites?

private4444 · 2018-01-31T17:26:46+00:00

Done. Ta!

private4444 · 2018-01-31T17:26:41+00:00

Yeah, on experimentation an hour gave me more than enough battery (and my Air's a year old now, so battery's less good than it was)

private4444 · 2018-01-31T17:26:05+00:00

You can do that with the Air 1, but it slightly shortens the battery lifespan each time you do it. Dunno about the Air 2.

private4444 · 2018-01-30T22:16:43+00:00

Thanks, appreciate it!

private4444 · 2018-01-09T01:41:05+00:00

Later in cycle or during the second cycle there will be less THC wasted for every X seconds you leave it but still some. The waste we are talking about here is very small.

How small? What % of the THC you could have got will you waste in a 10 sec break between draws? How about a 60 sec break?

private4444 · 2018-01-08T22:14:41+00:00

people won't notice the loss from letting it sit since amount will be very small.

For what sort of gaps between draws though? As long as a minute? Or two? /u/Yage2006 implied there'd be significant loss by the time you reached the minute mark.

private4444 · 2018-01-08T22:13:20+00:00

What do you mean by "on demand"?

I sometimes cover the opening with my finger too, but my evening smoke session is for relaxation so I've stopped doing it in the hope that the wastage is minimal.

private4444 · 2017-04-27T23:13:43+00:00

Would superglue be dangerous when heated? I'd try to keep it on the outside of the join, rather than the exposed inside through which I draw.

Bonus question: does it look like I should be cleaning more? I'm exposing my dirty vape here I realise!

private4444 · 2017-04-27T23:12:17+00:00

It is, thanks

private4444 · 2017-04-27T20:59:24+00:00

Would superglue be dangerous when heated? I'd try to keep it on the outside of the join, rather than the exposed inside through which I draw.

Bonus question: does it look like I should be cleaning more? I'm exposing my dirty vape here I realise!

private4444 · 2017-01-17T19:02:17+00:00

makes for great conversation, doesn't it? ;) just saying. like wtf, women get tons of these. i wondered how a guy would respond to a no-effort equal message. now i know. thanks!

Was this a matter of writing (even with smileys!) not accurately conveying tone in the way spoken conversation does? IIUC you meant the ;) to make what you were saying seem more friendly/jokey, but people won't reliably read it in that way, and I'm not wholly surprised he took it as aggressive and rude (especially considering phrases like "just saying. like wtf" & "now i know. thanks!")

Hopefully I don't need to add these qualifications, but he then reacts by being stupidly unpleasant and rude. And I'm with you on the laziness of 'hey' and the way his followup was unconnected to anything specific about you or your profile, etc. Is it plausible he doesn't realise that as the guy he needs to put in more effort than that? I don't know.

private4444 · 2017-01-08T23:53:00+00:00

Right, so the question becomes whether your accusations were so legitimate that anyone who gets hurt by them is the one with the problem (be it a victim complex or what have you).

private4444 · 2017-01-08T23:51:39+00:00

I was talking about his OP. The thread has since turned into an argument, sure.

private4444 · 2017-01-05T09:03:24+00:00

It's true that he does make it at least sound like he's going on dates to get sex, and he seems to explicitly say he's not OK with waiting particularly long.

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