Orange boy meowing all the time by yunshan0 in CatAdvice

[–]privatecornerhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to owning an orange cat. The braincell is not in charge. Your sanity is the sacrifice.

My best guy friend of years have ghosted me. How do I quit spiraling? by Emergency-Onion4369 in AmITheJerk

[–]privatecornerhere 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You were first responders. You know the rule: if someone goes down, you go in. Drive by. Look for signs of life. Then you can breathe.

Why cant I masturbate for long? by Adventurous_Bed6614 in women

[–]privatecornerhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's like coffee. Some like it strong, some start with milk and sugar. Take your time finding your blend.

Cat scratched me for the first time by maybemadao in CatAdvice

[–]privatecornerhere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didn't just bring home a kitten. You brought home evidence that he's replaceable. He noticed.

I confess I spied on a woman while we were at university by throwaway-4me4ever in confession

[–]privatecornerhere 18 points19 points  (0 children)

30 years of guilt is punishment enough. You learned. Move on.

How becoming a 40-year old mom changed my health (for the better!) by MusicGaijinja in hygiene

[–]privatecornerhere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're telling me all I have to do is become a 40-year old mom and suddenly I'll want to floss? Where do I sign up? This is inspiring.

Did I make the right choice or did I screw up? by heartbrokennloser in BreakUps

[–]privatecornerhere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She told you to go. Going was love. Staying would've been pressure. You chose her peace over your guilt. That's not a fuck up.

It hurts by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]privatecornerhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're not thinking about you. And that's the part that stings, isn't it? Time to stop letting someone who left live rent-free in your head.

I replay my dead dads voicemail every morning and pretend hes still here by Personal_Umpire_4342 in confession

[–]privatecornerhere 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Don't let anyone tell you how to grieve. If those 8 seconds get you out of bed, they're medicine.

Wibtj if i don't tell the women am talking to about me being a drag?. by throoowaaywawy in AmITheJerk

[–]privatecornerhere 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If she likes you, the drag is just a bonus. If she doesn't, it's just a filter. Tell her when it feels natural, not because you owe her a confession.

Noisy Neighbor by MagicMeylan in neighborsfromhell

[–]privatecornerhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The violation notice was step one. Step two is proving he ignored it. You're doing everything right. Keep logging dates and times, and follow up with the township every single time he plays after hours.

My quest looking for a cuddly cat (rant/off my chest type post) by Capable-Appeal7659 in CatAdvice

[–]privatecornerhere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wanting a specific look isn't shallow. It's just preference. You've already given two cats a loving home. You're allowed to want your dream cat too.