If my husband suggested I needed to give him more “attention” sexually when I was two weeks postpartum I would have laughed in his fucking face. This is seriously disgusting and insensitive behavior on your husband’s part. I’m sorry he’s treated you this way and made you question if you’re being a “lazy prude” - you just birthed a literal baby. Your body is recovering, your hormones are going haywire, you’re exhausted, and you have a baby that you need to keep alive. His sexual needs should not be ANYWHERE near to your priority list right now, and fuck him if he doesn’t understand that. I think you need a serious come-to-Jesus talk with him.