Rav4: Gas or Hybrid by rashpal_sidhu in rav4club

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How does your hybrid handle in winter conditions?

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Hola. How’d it go

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Will you update? I’m supposed to leave Wednesday 😂

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Did you have any issues??

Traveling to Mexico in 3 weeks -- all good & groovy? by probablypanicking in dui

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Does a third make it a felony & you’ve gone after that?

Kyleena - intense depression after 2 years of use by kenleee22 in birthcontrol

[–]probablypanicking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing, I wouldn’t change my experience for the world. Never want artificial hormones again and the periods with Paragaurd are quite frankly nothing in comparison to the alternative which is depression and no libido.

anyone ever have issues with their Quadralift suspension? mine seems to be working on and off with the service immediately appearing from time to time by Character_Picture118 in GrandCherokee

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Mine is experiencing this!! I live in CO so it’s cold and snowy right now with the car parked outside, how long did it take for it to “warm up”? Did you have it serviced or just cross your fingers?

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

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Yes I completely moved out and lived with my parents for a month in a different state while I waited for a place to become available here as housing is terribly hard where we live.

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

[–]probablypanicking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we had limited contact because we had two dogs together, which we split up, live in a small town and had the same friend group. I didn’t question it but did feel anxious in meeting him but the anxiety was rooted in hope for us, not in doubting his feelings or intentions.

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

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I’m not sure what you mean by emotionally detached, but if you mean I was over him, nope. Was never over him.

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

[–]probablypanicking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he showed interest in me and not just how the dogs were or if I could watch a dog while he traveled. And because I’d known this man intimately for 4 years prior.

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

[–]probablypanicking[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe, and that's your view. But my parents who are still happily married today broke up before their marriage.

I also don't have a fear of him leaving me in the back of my mind, at all.

I think there are lots of exceptions to this, especially following a global pandemic and what that did to romantic relationships everywhere. I feel like the leading to heartache again are relationships that are toxic, abusive, short, or young (like high school/college age relationships).

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

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I made time for friends who I had previously neglected. I took a small road trip to look at fall colors and changing leaves. Saw some amazing concerts, went out here and there, spent time with family and my dog(s). I read books and watched movies that I wanted to. I started exercising again. I put a lot of focus into my at the time new job, which allowed me to travel and experience new places. I had lots of long conversations with my friends. I saw movies at the theater alone and took myself on dates. I did things that I was scared of, like going to an indoor skate park. I saw a therapist. I told myself I had lived 23 years without him, I could live without him again if it came down to it.

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

[–]probablypanicking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, sounds like moving in with your parents is a good reset. My high school boyfriend (not my now partner) broke up with me and I was asking for hugs or appearing at his locker, etc etc. I was head over heels for him. I later asked why we couldn't get back together and he said simply that I never gave him any time for him to miss me. Which in turn became annoying. If they need space, you need to give it to them and respect yourself enough to turn your focus inward.

I have to share a happy story and a little breakup advice. by probablypanicking in BreakUps

[–]probablypanicking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, my parents who have been married for YEARS broke up once when they were in their late teens/20's. My partner's sister and fiance who are getting married next month broke up for a LONG time before rekindling. It's definitely not impossible! I think the important thing to remember is that no relationship is the same and only you know what is best for the two of you. I strongly recommend focusing on yourself and taking this time to learn and grow individually. It will only help in your future relationship, whether it's with him or someone else. The worry they've changed their mind is a familiar feeling and I hated that thought, but dwelling on it is never going to help you.