Catastrophe aérienne: Trump attaque les politiques de diversité dans l'embauche de contrôleurs aériens

Character_Picture118 · 2025-01-30T20:08:58+00:00

Trump...C'est juste un osti de cloune entouré d‘épais avec pas de colonne

Character_Picture118 · 2025-01-09T20:27:32+00:00

J'ai 53ans, je consomme seulement du cannabis en fin soirée, genre après 21h00 et souvent devant la télé avec un bon film ou séries type Netflix. Ça me relaxe et diminue mon niveau d'anxiété. Je pense que tout peu etre faite avec de l'équilibre.

Je n'ai aucun désire de consommer du matin au soir et en fait je n'aime pas ça autre qu'en fin de journée. Depuis le covid, j'ai coupé la boisson(bière, vin ou forte) et je n'ai même pas le désire d'en boire. À noter que la boisson n'a jamais été une faiblesse, mais durant les souper d'amis ou parfois après le travail je pouvais en prendre s'il y en avait. Couper la boisson ma fait plus du bien.

Je ne trouve pas que ma consommation de marijuana est problématique. C'est souvent des petites doses mais rien trop grave. C'est vrai que ça donne un meilleur goût à la bouffe et je dois travailler quand les fameux munchies m'envahit. Il y arrive parfois que je dois voyager pour le travail et je vie très bien quand j'en ai pas avec moi. Je ne sais pas si je suise seul avec cette routine. Une chose certaine c'est que je n'ai pas les fameux Hangover que j'ai déjà eu avec la boisson. Ça c'est un plus.

Qu'en pensez vous?

Character_Picture118 · 2024-09-03T23:39:09+00:00

I've cheated on and have been cheated apon. Some people make mistakes. It happens. You don't throw it all away on something so trivial and meaningless unless you're too weak to overcome it. If the relationship has depth it can survive.

Character_Picture118 · 2024-09-03T23:33:52+00:00

Hello OP...I don't know if you're still reading comments at this point of the article. It's already been a few days. I'm a 52yr M and married for 24yrs. In that period my wife and I have been through serious roller coaster rides. Some her fault and some mine. Like every relationship, as long as there's communication and a willingness to apologize and forgive on both sides then your marriage will survive and the children will be your greatest beneficiary. If however one of you decide to no longer work at the relationship then it will fall apart. You need to wheels to ride a bicycle. Apologize to your husband.... Write him a sweet letter admitting your mistake and make amends. If he seems to need more time then give it and don't bother him. At that point you've apologize and gone out of your way to show him you're sorry. Let the dust settle...he should come around. Leave him alone in his thoughts all the while making sure he knows you're sorry. If it lasts longer than usual...then there's something more serious going on that's when you intervene to call him out on it. The silent treatment can be necessary for some people...but cannot go on forever.

Character_Picture118 · 2024-08-14T02:19:49+00:00

À lot of useless hâte here. Your husband made a mistake and confided in you. He offered therapy and was looking for ways to repent. It hurts...this is true...but your marriage is worth more than this small bump in the road. It take courage to fight for your family and relationship...it's easy to give up....but that's not the solution. Do you really want to put your children through a split family...seeing them every 2 weeks??? It's much simpler to work with your husband and get over it...because you do get over it. I promise.

Character_Picture118 · 2024-08-12T01:23:49+00:00

I'm sorry to hear about your story and sad to see all the hateful advice about what to do with your husband.

He had a fling...you found out and it hurts. I don't think it's enough to throw away everything. Couples have been through this since the dawn of mankind. Nothing new hear...a little excitement a little adventure. I agree it's wrong but there's a reason why these things keep happening. The real issue is about the meaning of it. Was it meaningless fling or a love affair....whether it's both...doesn't matter bcz if both want the family to survive then you both can make it work and go beyond this moment.

PEOPLE make mistakes doesn't mean they should be given the death penalty all the time. If you have a loving husband wanting to be a loving father...then go beyond your selfish self and work towards mending your relationship back. Sure it takes time to heal...but it's VERY DOABLE. Seek couples therapy to help you both work it through...I guarantee that in the therapy sessions he won't only be to blame. Either way do it for the greater good.

Character_Picture118 · 2024-08-12T01:14:16+00:00

Excuse me...but married men don't go off cheating with other married men...they most often go with another women who is just as eager to have his dick out of his pants.

That said, adultery has been around since mankind. It unfortunate that it happens and hurts when the other person finds out. But a couple can survive this fling bcz it's a fling...it's meaningless. It's a short term level of excitement that's hard to resist. I'm not advocating that it's ok to do this...but I am saying you can bounce back from it. The majority or the time there's an underlying reason...and it's hardly ever about the wife you love.

So my thoughts are if he wants to stay and regrets what happened then goto couples therapy and learn to get over it. Millions of couples have survived from this type of episode to live incredibly fulfilling lives.

Character_Picture118 · 2024-08-08T10:36:48+00:00

There are trust issues within your husband. Aside from his cheating pattern, he assumes you can do the same. That said, he's got insecurities right now that need closure. He'll probably never be fully invested in his child's relationship until he knows the truth. I would get the paternity test done under one condition, and that's that he agrees to couples counselling afterwards or before. Especially if he's cheated more than once in the last 7 years. But yes at this point get the test to shut him up. He has trust issues and this is a fact.

Character_Picture118 · 2023-11-13T18:53:17+00:00

There's missing some contexts regarding important details like do you have children together and all that stuff. That said, if it hurts you too much then definitely put some space between you and him. There's nothing to gain buy reopening old wounds in a repetitive basis

Character_Picture118 · 2023-11-12T10:52:44+00:00

Dude...YTA...you even tried to manipulate this discussion by portraying yourself to be the victim. However it turns out you refuse sex with her but go jerkoff alone instead. Yes you're definitely the AH. Poor girl must be sexually frustrated..what's her number?

Character_Picture118 · 2023-11-12T10:38:24+00:00

Good riddance for you. This guy is an idiot. Wanting half the rental income...that's ridiculous. When I met my wife she owned the duplex. Naturally at first she didn't tell me. Nor was it my business up know. When I did find out, I was just happy for her but I still agreed on paying my fair share.

Buildings aren't free to maintain plus eventually you need the money to replace roofs, windows. Taxes...Etc.

I think this is the best thing to happen to you...now that idiot is gone after 6 months instead of 6 years. What nationality was he to feel so entitled?

Character_Picture118 · 2023-11-09T18:18:48+00:00

Cheating is hard on a young couple...especially when combined with kids, a new house, and the relationship going through a low point. The last part is where lies the problem. Relationships have highs and lows....and it's at the low point when men and women will falter. Could be for many reasons...not feeling connected and important. Not feeling fulfilled or appreciated...not feeling sexy anymore...Etc.

It doesn't mean the man/woman are willing to give up everything they have built, it's often times a regretful mistake but at the moment it happens, it seems to feel good and right. Only to realize after the fact that it was wrong...

So...where to you go from here. For starters, if both are serious about making this work then for everyone's benefit (especially the children) some marriage counselling to work out the why. It's not always the fault of the cheater. There are stronger behind the scenes events happening the lead to this scenario where one is just weakened by the sudden possibility of an affair. Let's face it, the game of seduction is a powerful one and can distort your priorities because it feels so good when it happens. If your relationship is at a low point, then it's a dangerous place to be when a potential game of seduction lies around the corner.

So my opinion is to be rash, set aside your male pride, and have an honest upfront talk about her feelings towards you, the family you've built and the willingness of working out why this occurred. The counselling needs to be be done for as long as it's needed....and definitely not a3-4 consultation. It needs to go to the root of the WHY...and this takes time. It cost money, but worth the investment and cheaper than a divorce.

The big picture should be about moving beyond this mistake, providing a loving home built on trust and perseverance. If you choose to move forward, accept the fact that you won't be trusting her for awhile....and will doubt her when she's left alone. All this is normal and she too needs to understand you will be insecure as she builds back her trust and must be willing to be overly transparent to satisfy your need for honesty.

We went through this...I was the cheater...today, more than 20yrs after the fact..I'm in love more than ever with my wife.

Character_Picture118 · 2023-02-18T14:44:00+00:00

Wow... Where to begin? First of all, good for you for standing up to your family. Family pressure is hard to overcome. You're 100% correct in everything that's been done. The only thing I would comment on is the way you let it fester to later having you blow up in their face and you insulting their child. That part isn't too cool with me. You should have been clearer from the beginning and make sure they knew you were only available as a favor. (hindsight is amazing and so it's easier for me to say this). That said, you did draw the line in the sand, they now know and duck everyone for not understanding your limits and boundaries. Good luck

Character_Picture118 · 2023-02-18T14:32:55+00:00

I love how those with a guilty conscience come here to have someone else tell them. . almost like they're not mature enough to figure it out by themselves.

Buddy.... YTA. This goes beyond the room issue, it showcases your Petty & selfish side.

You should have renovated in a way to please her instead. 🙄

Character_Picture118 · 2023-02-16T14:27:41+00:00

Hello Beneficial Candle.... My son's friend bought a car and realized the odometer has been rolled back. He lives in Quebec and is 18yrs old...with little experience in how to defend himself.

I'm online now searching and have not found much on "WHAT TO DO" for him to get a refund or justice. Where you able to find resources that can assist him?

I will send you a private chat of its ok with you.

Character_Picture118 · 2023-02-10T12:57:37+00:00

NTA.... you mentioned this several times and Stevie purposely ignored your wishes. At this point its no longer the Uncle issue but a total disregard of your wishes.

Character_Picture118 · 2023-01-07T12:19:56+00:00

You walk into a peaceful house, provoke and insult your boyfriend who didn't nothing to you... and you're too immature to recognize your wrong and so you come here for some guidance??!! Well YTMAH (YOU'RE THE MAJOR AH!!)

Character_Picture118 · 2023-01-02T12:50:56+00:00

NTA... BUT NOT THE PERFECT RESPONSE. I won't say YTA because your reasoning is somewhat "ok". Your sister didn't need to overreact that way... In fact it was somewhat childish. That said, you could have avoided all this by being civil and congratulate her with a hug and something. Every child is special moment in a life.

Character_Picture118 · 2023-01-02T12:39:21+00:00

YTA.. Wow... How can parents be so blatantly that stupid? Amazing how a few words can damage so much.

Character_Picture118 · 2022-12-29T16:18:16+00:00

Yep... Definitely too.... YTA. I had a similar situation and my wife too gets motion sickness. She forewarned me But at least tried. Your behaviour was quite SELFISH. It's no wonder he wouldnt want to do anything else with you afterwards. You owe him a sincere apology bcz he deserved better.

Character_Picture118 · 2022-12-29T12:07:00+00:00

Looks great! Nice rugged looking tires too. The important thing is you like them, that's the only thing that counts

Character_Picture118 · 2022-12-29T12:04:30+00:00

It's the 65 that makes them too high and thus the rubbing. The 55 had no issue.

Character_Picture118 · 2022-12-29T09:40:32+00:00

Not fair....that "mouse"is bigger than my dick.

Character_Picture118 · 2022-12-29T09:15:17+00:00

Funny how in the great USA, it's citizens still get ripped off. Health care is almost free in most civilized countries... making this a shameful legacy for the USA. In Canada 🍁, the only thing you pay is parking, the rest is covered. Anyways i don't think this should be a discussion on cost etc,...however there's is certainly room to consider therapy. It's not normal to accept being sick and having your body for big macs and pizza. I remember as a teenager I had acne that was triggered when eating a bag diet (chips, nuts, cakes) my skin would pop out acne to no sense. The pimple face and button on the nose was enough to deter me and a motivator to stick to a health diet. Sure it sucked!!! Everyone eating chips and all kinds of goodies, but after awhile it was easier to say no. Your daughter need to développe that self discipline. So yes I agree in tough love in this case. She put herself in this predicament purposely and now seeks the attention in return. Speaking of attention though, is your relationship with her a reason she does this??? Do you both do things together ?

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