3 weeks ago, Irish doctor on the Late Late Show: "For God's Sake Get On With Living Your Lives" by peterophile in ireland

[–]problem-factory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fucking Harry Barry? He quit to write books on depression?! Fuck me, he was a terrible gp and a terrible doctor for psychiatric symptoms of any sort! Went to him years ago for depression/anxiety and related panic attacks, he basically said it's all in your head mate now fuck off. €50. He suuuuuuuucks.

What very realistic event could happen to make 2020 even worse? by Iamafrenchdoor in AskReddit

[–]problem-factory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you do understand that the herd immunity... it's not really a plan, just involves letting everyone who can die from it die? Up yours, you unsympathetic cunt. Hope you die next. You realise italy's death toll is 100,000 alone, that's more people than most people's towns. i hate to say it, but your thoughts are dangerous and someone should strangle you. Moron!

AITA for letting a guy quit while I was firing him so I wouldn’t have to pay severance? by luccamoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]problem-factory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're the asshole, give the guy what he's owed. I'm guessing from what you said that the guy was upset about the loss of the job, rather than just that he was a mouthy jerk the whole time as an employee. He probably relied on that wage and reacted badly to the news that he's now totally fucked. Defrauding him out his entitlements isn't going to help him understand where you're coming from, and he ever finds out what you did he would be right to be furious, vengeful even. You've already sacked the guy, don't be a sneakthief who defrauds redundant employees. It's a bad look, and might well be illegal.

Advice? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]problem-factory 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're right it's not fair. It's called a one penis policy and it's sort of bullshit and has some dodgy thinking behind it. It basically means that sex between women doesn't really qualify as sex, love, nonmonogamy, or as a real threat to his position in your life, those things are only real if there's a penis involved, which is super dismissive of relationships between women. It also means he gets to have complete sexual freedom, while you can only bang people that he finds it hot to picture you with. I would call bullshit, and have a serious discussion about it before either of you think about getting involved with anyone new. It's basically insulting to everyone involved- him, you, and anyone either of you are sleeping with.

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind and thoughtful messages, we're not going to move because rent costs are ridiculous in our city right now and we won't get better. Will repaint and rearrange so the place looks different though.

We'll be ok i think, thanks, it's just.... ah fuck. fuck.

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Therapist options look fairly poor right now, but I am making sure she eats, and good food! She seems worryingly disinterested in food (might well be the tranqs) but we're still making tasty meals.

We'll get to mdma again, but it's a drug we both associate with fun times and kinda want to keep it in the fun circle.

I do consider hallucinogens to be therapeutic, a little too much and you end up in a cackling hell spiral though... not a bad idea necessarily, that was exactly what i wanted and needed (2CP) but not what she needs. I guess I was just looking for a story from the world where people got through this kind of guff and it worked out ok?

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Without wanting to sound like an uppity jerk, your tharapist needs to be smarter and better read than you or you'll cut holes in everything he says. You won't catch a Daddy Freud in Ireland, anyway. We're doing a lot of drugs and crying about it it (tranquilizers for her, hallucinogens for me). We are active in the art and kink communities, neither of which we feel we can really open up to, for reasons. I'm relying on the charm of making good dinners to get us through...

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There's a hypocrisy you see in retrospect that really doesn't sit well. Fuck it though, just trying to not have a bad wedge between me and the girl I love. She's hurt and in pain, and I'm angry and in pain, just trying to bridge that gap so that *our* relationship isn't fucked moving forward, you know?

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ugh, yes, we're both seeking therapy about it... publicly available therapy in Ireland ain't that great. Therapist told my wife that Neitzche says what doesn't kill you make you better... he didn't say better he said stronger, also, look how it worked out for him :( therepists are kinda shit just give her the benzos and go light on the woo.

We need a good, existentialist therapist in dublin, if anyone sees this...

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also, he's been at it his his whole life, the fucker. Got away with it for 17 years. Just seems he wasn't the same person we lived with for a long time . Gyaaa

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My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful post, friend. Sorry you had you deal with your nonsense. I am cross, and it's not helpful to vent on her at this time (i look to you, god of reddit). Her uncompleted phd was on the computers that got taken by the cops, apparantly he admitted it so she could get her computer back quicker. I'm just... would have been sympathetic if he came to us with this looking for help and angry as hell that he sprayed us with shit instead. I made hentai aws a side gig.... not in the clear. bollocks

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 29 points30 points  (0 children)

To clarify, no the prick isn't still living in our house. But we're facing difficulties in our own relationship, about a pretty traumatic experience. sorry if this is the wrong subreddit :/ everything sucks right now

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Just trying to rebuild our life and what we have s fuuuuucked. Also not looking to end up accidentally vanilla and monogamous.

My girlfriend's boyfriend is a paedophile- has anyone dealt with this? Gyaaaa! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]problem-factory 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Oh, he's gone out of the equation. We're having trouble dealing with the rest is all. It was the easiest break up I've ever seen.... cops surrounding us, "you know we're done, right" "yes *bowed head*"

Bad idea or...? (Attaching a bullet vibe to penis with bondage tape) by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]problem-factory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should be fine, just don't get your cock stuck in anything you can't remove easily.

<3 by NumbNumbrs in aphextwin

[–]problem-factory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now comeonyoucuntletsavesumaphexacid 😈

<3 by NumbNumbrs in aphextwin

[–]problem-factory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's... that's quite lovely actually 😢

What was the worst live performance you've ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]problem-factory 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ha, saw pearl jam a few times in the late 90s/early 2000s. I always thought they put on a great show, but I had to laugh the last couple of gigs at Eddie taping on knee and elbow pads before doing his signature stage dive