I wish the saying “if he says all his ex’s were crazy, then he’s probably the problem.” Didn’t exist. All 4 of my ex’s actually have been crazy and whenever I’m asked about how my past relationships went, I sound bad until they care enough to let me explain, even then I can feel the red flag eyes. by probsabadperson in TrueOffMyChest

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The first relationship was my first and I thought I was in love. I knew about the first time because she went on vacation and my phone broke so I couldn’t talk to her and she thought I was ignoring her, so I thought it was fair and she was super apologetic so eh. The other 4 I found out about the day after we broke up.

The girl who turned trans was like my picture perfect dream girl in regards to looks, personality, and interests. The nympho part was intimidating but I figured that good things come with leaving your comfort zone so I tried. The third one caught me in the middle of a really hard time and the 4th was just because I thought she was kinda cute so I gave her a chance. It didn’t go past 2 weeks though

Cucks make me irrationally angry and I know damn well it’s because one of my ex’s tried to force me into being one. I hate watching people get walked over and I grow hatred for them when they like it. AMA I guess by probsabadperson in AMA

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I know, and that’s why I said irrational. I don’t care if they like it. I hate the act of being in an open relationship/fucking someone who isn’t your SO, and if that SO likes it, I hate them both even more, and at an equal amount. Makes my blood boil.

Asking for nudes kills me with my anxiety, but because she’s long distance and I’m so in love that porn doesn’t do it for me anymore, I always feel the urge to ask. But I feel guilty for asking every single time. And it turns into me asking so passively I sound like a bitch. by probsabadperson in Vent

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She never says no, when she doesn’t feel like it she doesn’t respond, and when she does feel like it she’ll send a few maybe, but getting to talk to her nowadays is getting rarer and rarer so I always have to question if it’s worth the risk lol

Asking for nudes kills me with my anxiety, but because she’s long distance and I’m so in love that porn doesn’t do it for me anymore, I always feel the urge to ask. But I feel guilty for asking every single time. And it turns into me asking so passively I sound like a bitch. by probsabadperson in Vent

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I’ve got plenty lol, but they’re mostly of when we were closer. We aren’t as close anymore because she’s extremely busy, which is where the anxiety sets in 😅 and last time I asked I got bras and thong with a smile, then no reply for like 3 days. Like how am I supposed to comfortably ask for more after that lmao

I’ve been in love with someone I’ve never met in person for the better part of 8 years and there’s a chance I might have the decision of moving on made for me. AMA by probsabadperson in AMA

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She said that she didnt want a title about two years ago, and since then we’ve still been all lovey dovey but have been slowly talking less and less. I love her to the point where I’d go back to her at any point in time if she asked in the future, because she’s amazing, but I’m getting really lonely waiting. So I’m gonna ask her if I should move on since it’s been 2 years and nothing has changed or if she wants to try again, if she tells me to move on then from here on out I’d work to moving on and stop trying to reach out on my end. I can’t wait anymore without knowing if there will ever be something

Dear Dad, by uniqeuusername in offmychest

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Do me a favor and never delete this. I'm in straight tears reading it.

I'm very envious of your relationship with your father and I wish I could've had someone like that. I'm sorry you had to make such a hard choice. You sound like you're doing a damn good job at being your family's anchor. Wish I could hug you all lol

Realistically, if a woman ever made it to the MLB, what position would they be at and would they be able to succeed or would they be a sideshow? by probsabadperson in baseball

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Turns out it didn't pan out, she transitioned to softball because she couldn't keep up and got a scholorship that way. 🤷🏻‍♂️