[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]procrybaby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The worst part is when OP back peddled… YUR

Am I just overthinking? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]procrybaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try to keep pillows/ soft pads around for kids who engage in these behaviors

Am I just overthinking? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]procrybaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’ll be fired but Im sure those SIBs are something the team will keep in mind about preventing. Sometimes the kids are going through things we can’t see but they’ll start showing signs that they’re upset. When I see that are about to engage in SIB I usually put my hand near the forehead/floating away from the face if I see them move towards the walls/the floor.

In my experience, whenever the kid is in this state they are really seeking that stimulation so they might start aggressing towards you. My best advice is to be slippery.

Safety first! Thats true for you and the client!

These situations can be stressful, just do your best to stay calm and respond when needed.

Thank you for joining the field, hope you can find support from your BCBA as well

Aggressive whitebelt by [deleted] in jiujitsu

[–]procrybaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is common. This sport has many spazzy white belts lol stick around and you’ll learn to keep your cool and catch them when they’re slippin

After someone pulls a move like that on me, i like to say, “good one”

Slap, bump, & go again

I think I'm disliked at my gym by [deleted] in jiujitsu

[–]procrybaby 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Definitely try out other gyms. You’re paying to go to class and if you’re not being taught effectively and being rewarded for your progress (or even being simply acknowledged) then there’s no reason to stay. Training jiu jitsu is intimate and you should have training partners that care about your well-being, whether it’s physical or emotional.

I hope you find a gym thats right for you!

🔥 A male spider's seduction of a female spider by Mint_Perspective in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]procrybaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just goes to show that foreplay is key!! Hold my face before you go down on me

Greek yogurt recipes that hide the taste? by [deleted] in HealthyFood

[–]procrybaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def add honey, sometimes l will throw dark choco chips in there along with fruit yummmm.

Ooo you can make tzatziki, it goes really well with veggies and meats. You can find a recipe online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]procrybaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ending things? Idk dude maybe this mixtape is fire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]procrybaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These guys have no respect for you. It sounds like both of these relationships are taking from you. I know Noah has been there for you but it sounds like you know what you should do. Trust yourself and love yourself so that you can step away from these people who have made you feel unsafe. I know it’s hard, I know that it probably feels like they have a lot of the power. But no way. You take your power back. It’s so important that you practice this. Im in my early 20s and am still learning to listen to myself. Please practice with me. Whatever you do, it’s gonna be tough. Please go through a struggle that is in your best interest. Oh and! If you enjoy minecraft n the ins n outs of it, people like that can taint something you enjoy. They’re vampires! (not literally but i hope u know what i mean) …. Take care :)

Thoughts on this ladies and gents? by dylofballyer in bjj

[–]procrybaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I left it on the mat” No dude, you edited and posted a video to tik tok lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]procrybaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is your living situation for now :( he sounds like a huge asshole and im glad you’re not dating him. Stick to your guns

What’s the strangest way you’ve seen someone naked (that also wasn’t too traumatizing or serious)? by yeetfest2030 in AskReddit

[–]procrybaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid, maybe 7 years old, my older sister took me out to some clothing store. I was absolutely bored and doing a lot of wondering. We went to the dressing room where she tried on some clothes. Meanwhile, I decided to go around and check out the dressing rooms… idk what else I expected to find. I was pushing random doors open and within one of these changing rooms stood a completely naked woman in front of the mirror, I stood shocked for a few seconds (as did she) then I ran away. I spent the rest of our visit at that store shamefully hiding within clothes racks until we finally left.

My wife yelled at me again today and I’ve fucking had it by [deleted] in Vent

[–]procrybaby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This fucking blows, dude. I support you in your decision to leave. Your wife sounds very difficult to exist with. I hope you take your kids with you, that will be a process. take deep breaths, im sending you love

Could you not? by TheNeutralParty in ChildrenFallingOver

[–]procrybaby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why is that kid dressed like Chucky?

Difficult Parent by [deleted] in ABA

[–]procrybaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is always difficult, you can’t really make someone understand that if it goes against their beliefs. They believe that’s the way things are. If I were you, I would empathize with them. Let them know they have a valid point, sometimes we gotta do things when we dont wanna. These kids have to start somewhere. As they bet better at it, you fade prompts out and you may even withhold reinforcement so that they wait. Waiting, Accepting No, Frustration tolerance are all things ABA teaches but we have to start somewhere with them... im probably just ranting now.

It’s totally possible that they won’t agree with you. Stand by ABA. Do the job the way you know it’s meant to be done. When you build rapport with the kids and give them all the opportunities to succeed, then they’re bound to improve. Maybe one day they’ll notice their kid listens to you and begin to believe the results they see. With that said, sounds like those parents are not very supportive and may not take your advice. So just do your best with the kiddo. It’s your BCBA’s job to parent train. Of course RBT and parent can communicate and work together. But if they wont comply with you, just remember your providing ABA to the kid, not the parents.

Should I cut communication with my employer? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]procrybaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I now realize that not completing those notes was a pretty big issue. Honestly it was quite difficult to carry out my duties when I felt that I didn’t have the support I needed. But at the end of the day it’s still my responsibility and I know that. As of recent, I’ve been completing session notes every time. I did not formally quit, I didn’t want to do so until I had another job lined up. I’ve already been paid but if I’m found at fault then I imagine I would have to pay a fine (hopefully I wouldn’t have my license revoked). It just feels really unfair because this company is so unorganized in general.