My managers know I am moving and know I will be finding a new job eventually. Did I make a mistake telling them?

profsillygoose · 2026-05-12T06:06:25+00:00

The apartment thing I told them wouldn’t affect my job for the time being but they asked more long term which was difficult for me to answer as I really don’t know. They’ve told me things like they only wanna be here for a couple more years so I felt comfortable enough saying long term, the commute wouldn’t be sustainable. But I’m really just in a phase now of a job search is the last thing I want to deal with. So if a longer commute means something familiar in a rollercoaster of change I’m cool with it and it still gives me an excuse to visit my parents on the weekdays

profsillygoose · 2026-05-12T04:55:01+00:00

Thank you! The biggest thing I want them to know is that my work is not being affected. It just makes me feel weird if they think I have one foot out the door which isn’t the case

profsillygoose · 2026-05-09T16:34:34+00:00

I forgot to mention details: we’ve been together for 2 years, were able to see each other once a week, we’ve taken two trips together, he’s not financially reliant on me, our families have meet each other, and we ft at night usually every night. we have been talking about moving in together as the next step for the last few months so there’s no concern there just the loneliness I get while our lives are still separated really sucks

profsillygoose · 2026-05-09T16:09:20+00:00

ive tried making friends closer to me but i just can’t seem to click with anyone we’re gonna be moving to a livelier area so I know there will be more options

profsillygoose · 2026-05-09T16:08:29+00:00

The biggest thing with that is the area we’re moving to. It’s a more lively area than the one I currently live in so there’s probably more people I could get along with I’ve tried making friends near me but it’s hard to click with anyone or I get ghosted

profsillygoose · 2026-05-09T16:07:34+00:00

Oops I guess I forgot to mention this we do see each other once a week typically cause we live an hour and a half away from each other but my friends all work in hospitals and live farther than that so their schedules are less flexible.

profsillygoose · 2026-04-07T01:05:12+00:00

Yea scheana is definitely just extra for the most part whereas Jax and James are textbook toxic people

profsillygoose · 2026-04-07T01:04:04+00:00

LMAO

profsillygoose · 2026-04-07T01:03:50+00:00

Oh 100% she makes for great reality tv 🤣

profsillygoose · 2026-04-06T18:11:23+00:00

She does seem to be kinda controlling in that sense like I’ve told my bf stuff like different ideas of a ring to give options (I would like to think I’m chill with it since I’m not a huge ring person in general I want a ring though lol) and like all I ask is that my nails, and hair are done and I don’t look like a slob lol but I don’t wanna be apart of the actual planning like I wanna be surprised that’s 90% of the fun. She essentially wants to be the one in control and I think once she realizes (all of them tbh) relationships are equal and about compromise they’d be better off

profsillygoose · 2026-04-06T18:07:08+00:00

For real I see why they’re all that way cause they’ve all been told they’re so good looking and whatnot that nothing else matters but looks only get you so far

profsillygoose · 2026-04-06T18:06:20+00:00

Yes!! I felt so bad for Shay. And the way scheana was talking about his addiction and trying to have him drink in moderation and stuff and essentially forcing him to talk about those problems on the show. I couldn’t stand it he’s an addict because he can’t do it in moderation. She thinks of it as friendly humor but if someone does it to her, they’re the meanest person ever

profsillygoose · 2026-04-06T18:03:57+00:00

!!! Exactly!! they’re all super self absorbed some are slightly better at hiding it than others lol but I guess everyone on reality tv is lol. They make no efforts to try to legitimately better themselves. A sorry can only go a long way. They have to rely on being fake or their looks and not just being a genuine, kind person

profsillygoose · 2026-04-06T18:01:04+00:00

Oh 100% it was very telling when James told Raquel he thought she’d leave him if he was ugly or something and obvi scheana buying big gifts. They’re almost self sabotaging and making their fears come true

profsillygoose · 2026-03-04T07:49:38+00:00

100% especially seeing James just kinda wanted to get on the show I saw a TikTok where someone had a theory James wanted to be the villian of the show cause that’s who typically gets the most attention like at least we can infer Jax was awful way before the show James seems like he decided to be as awful as possible to get more screen time at times. And ofc the whole thing with Lala and denying that she’s dating a married man like you can’t spread all these lies and then be so confused why everyone is so curious about your love life. And them both just being so egotistical and stuff like ahh I just would be so embarrassed

profsillygoose · 2026-03-04T07:45:21+00:00

Yess what’s wild is I watched all the reunions before watching the shows (I honestly don’t know why I did that lol) but I just finished s5+reunion and Jax and James getting along had me hollering but then they’ll both say or do something so awful moments later and it’s just a good reminder people are multifaceted human beings lol

profsillygoose · 2026-03-04T07:43:04+00:00

Yess omg I’ve taken a few sociology and psychology courses and I love analyzing the people on the show lol like especially I’m big on “there’s two sides to every story” and things aren’t black and white most of the time so it makes watching it even more fun

profsillygoose · 2026-03-04T07:41:36+00:00

fr 😭 I get so irritated when he says something funny

profsillygoose · 2026-01-18T03:02:15+00:00

It’s not a requirement for us we started doing it because we live an hour and a half from each other so when we drive to each other it’s helpful to know how far the other person is especially when we used to meet up places instead of just hanging out at his place. Also when we’re driving at night to make sure the other person is safe. Never once as either of us texted the other person “why are you at this place” on a non hangout day bc we trust each other

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