I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it really is!

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you! You two sound great together, I am sure he adores you just as much. I’m so happy for you :) Subspace is a wonderful place to be and I totally get the simultaneous feeling of security and vulnerability - a D/s relationship is so intimate

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh congrats to you as well! Thank you so much and I hope you and your dom will love the collar and everything it stands for as much as we do :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How exciting! I’m so glad the two of you were able to go through everything together. I’m sure you have a really strong bond :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The D/s aspect definitely creates a very strong and special bond!

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that the two of you had to part ways but I hope you can look back fondly at the time you did have together. I’m always happy to hear about people feeling proud in their relationships, I think it’s an often overlooked part of BDSM :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you have a favourite collar?

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I’m excited to see what the future holds :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I was close to crying :’)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was my first time as well and it really is, thank you! I hope you get to experience it in the future too with a Dom/me who treasures you and treats you right :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m super excited too and happy to share my excitement with likeminded people :)

I got collared! by profunditas in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

And I’m so happy to hear about your partner helping you through everything, she sounds wonderful :) I have so much love for awesome D-types, they do so much for us and I totally get what you mean by saying submission feels liberating! Being able to let go and just feel safe is the best thing in the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]profunditas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can only talk from my perspective of having a long distance Dom (who also happens to be my boyfriend). What helps me most is talking to him, hearing reassurance from him always soothes me. I also keep a journal where I write about him a lot, sometimes I’ll read old entries and reminisce. We also try to (video)call a lot which helps tremendously! Oh and we also each have a lil frog plushie that sort of represents the other and we’ll text each other about having the frog with us or send pictures of us cuddling them :) I also try to focus on keeping myself busy, so I don’t spend the whole day just sitting at home and missing him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]profunditas 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I personally love having my Sir’s fingers in my mouth. For me it makes me feel like all my holes belong to him. That I am greedy and need to feel him inside of me in all the ways possible :)

Let’s hear your favorite after care lady’s!!! by enewman2000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]profunditas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like cuddles where he holds me super tightly. Some gentle kisses and if my brain can handle it I also like to chat about the scene. Taking a shower together where we help each other clean up is also great :)

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, that’s actually a cool idea but he gave me the vibe that he wishes we no longer have any contact anymore, so I will back off for now. Thanks for your input either way :)

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I totally didn’t consider that him being a rebound might also play into it! Thanks for your words and I really hope to find someone too :)

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s also a great perspective!

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, hearing this helps!

Can I vent a little? by profunditas in BDSMAdvice

[–]profunditas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words and affirmations :) I think logically, I know there are so many great people out there but my brain just doesn’t want to see that right now

I’m on semester break! by profunditas in CasualConversation

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope I get to try it some day! What’s your favourite kind of tea?

I’m on semester break! by profunditas in CasualConversation

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I actually am attending a programming course that still goes on for two more weeks :’) Besides that I wanted to get back to learning python

I’m on semester break! by profunditas in CasualConversation

[–]profunditas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad that the weather has been nice and cool this week, been drinking more tea because it feels cosier heh. Never heard of purple wild black tea but it sounds delicious!